How do Scorpios show they like you?

Ok so I am in college and met this guy at an icebreaker in my dorm over summer semester. So I wanted to get to know him and asked this girl he knew to introduce us and she did. I asked him if he thought I was hot and he said "Yea, you're really cute" I tried to get him to say I was hot and he just said "cute" and would laugh and he would sometimes tease me about my clothes or whatever calling me Girl Next Door because I live next door to his friend and because of the show, he said I dressed like them, which I don't, but I thought it was funny.

We hung out in his friend's room and this one time he asked a lot of questions and then asked me if I'd ever cheated on a bf and I said yea, because he was getting on my nerves and boring me and I didn't know how else to get rid of him. He laughed and said "Oh that's how it is?" I said my ex was dumb and he deserved it anyway and he laughed again and said "Yea, some guys get what they ask for. He probably didn't know what to do with a girl like you. But I know what to do with a girl like you!" And I said "What's that?" and he changed to another subject. I gave him my # and asked him for his and he said "Ask Sarah" (his friend). I thought that was weird but I thought maybe he was just shy so I asked her and she gave it to me. He never called and I called him and he never picked up. I was on his facebook and left him wall messages and he'd post them but never posted on my wall though he posted on other peoples walls and that made me a lil mad but I kept my cool, haha. But yesterday I saw him and he just kind of walked past me. Then I went up to him and said "Damn where you been?" And he said "busy" like he had an attitude or something. And I said "Well, all I wanted was to say hi." And he said "Well hi" with attitude again. So I said "Why haven't you called me I wanted to hang out." And he said "I been busy." And he left with his friends.

So what's his deal? He was flirting like crazy with me and now won't even talk to me and is all rude and shit. I tried to ask that Sarah girl what was up with him and she was like "Oh we really don't talk that much anymore." So does he like me? Love me? Hehe! I read when a Scorpio likes you sometimes he is mean, but I dunno. I know for a fact he does not have a girlfriend. Do I need to be more aggressive? Any tips?

Oh another thing, he said "When you are a Scorpio, when we love you we show it, when we trust you, we tell you, and when we don't do either one, you know it." That's how I got he was a Scorpio. What does that mean, was he trying to say something? This was in the beginning getting to know each other.

Sorry to be so blunt but he meant exactly what he said. If he was into you...you would know it. He is not contacting you so he's not into you. They do not play those kinds of games. Also, he will not change his mind. Scorpios decide in the first 10 minutes if they are into you and if the answer is no nothing will ever change that.

He seemed into me, tickling me and teasing me and asking how many bfs I had and all that. can't he just be busy like he said? I thought Scorpios were honest. I think if he wasn't into me he'd say that instead of just saying he was busy.

Maybe he was busy. Maybe he is uninterested. Impossible to say. You seem young and are in a new environment, hanging on to a guy you talked to one time is sort of a waste of time.

I'm a Scorpio and my boyfriend is a scorpio. We are both very very busy, but we like each other so we both make time. There is no such thing as too busy when you like someone. You might (probably not though) be able to get him to sleep with you if that's what you want if you keep chasing him, but that's all you will ever get. His actions and the things he asked you sound like he was trying to find out how easy you are and if he should sleep with you. Did he ask you any questions about what you like to do in your spare time or what youf dreams and aspirations are?? Did he ask you about your family and about your life??

LOL!! Poor ArchenAmy!! Too many honest people here that will tell you exactly how it is. Where is Charlotte from Sex in The City when you need her?? She would probably tell you what you want to hear.

How is it dishonest? I could have said no, he would not have known it's not like he knows me or my ex. I just don't see the point of lying in fact I hate liars and lying.

He is just so hott and I like a challenge it's boring to me to have a guy just let you walk all over him. I am hoping maybe he is just very busy and when we have a break we can hang out, I don't like that he ignores my messages.

Lol, yes, there are other guys my school is very big. I have a short attention span anyway but he is interesting, hott and really mysterious so he is on my mind right now.

Elena is dead on. Infidelity is a dealbreaker for a Scorpio male. Sometimes they will like a bitchy woman, but you better be a damn loyal bitch.

Haha, why are you being mean, wow is it a Scorpio thing? No I am not blond but I live in Cali surrounded by them. I am also not dumb I am going to UC Irvine.

What about my mentality is wrong? He and I have a lot in common to be honest.

I haven't read what you wrote -maybe later-..but when Scorpios like someone they show them that right away, it would be so obvious to you.

This is not said to be mean but you are nowhere near evolved enough to keep a Scorpio's attention. Every time you contact him and he rejects you and you keep trying he loses more and more respect for you. Everytime you ask him if he thinks you are hot or why haven't you called me he will lose more and more respect for you. He looks for a woman that just knows she is hot and doesn't need to ask for anyones approval. He wants to be the one to chase you not be chased after. Sorry, but you blew it and there is nothing you can do about it now.

I am 18, will be 19 in Nov. I am trying to read on Scorpio and I just see they like honesty and are very sneaky and dark. What else should I know?

Elena, I'm trying to be just a little bitchier with my man. I think it turns him on.😉

Why is it bad to like a challenge? You like a guy who just lets you walk over him? I dont, it's boring to me and I don't think there's anything wrong with not wanting to be bored.

I don't want a guy I can walk all over either LOL! No way, if he let me walk all over him then he can't handle real problems. I'm all over the place with my eomtions, I need someone whose more stable then me 😄

What r u talking about—— Can't u see that this guy ignoring you is a form of him walking all over you— He doesn't even like you or respect you enough to be honest with you and tell you that he is not interested. He sees you like he sees a pesky fly and doesn't even want to give you the time of day and you are barely worth the time it takes to swat you away. He's not trying to be a challenge.

Hey, my dad was a Scorp/Saggie cusper too 😄

Haha Elena!! He told me in the beginning that he loved how sweet I was, but you got be a little bitchy sometimes to keep them on their toes and keep them from taking advantage of your sweetness. I just don't think I could get away with as much bitchiness as you do though with your man. You are the master. I need to take some lessons. You seem to have your man in line. LOL!!

I am a Sagittarius, Nov. 29! I came up with my name like that because my name is Amy and Sagittarius is the archer. 🙂

I only cheated on ONE boyfriend!

What is a cookiemonmster?

It's the systems way of changing the word b*tch. You need to go in and turn your profanity filter off to see the real words.

Why would cheating on someone who was boring, never want to go out, never got along with your friends and just dumb make me a bitch? I felt like he lied to me, he was one person one minute and as soon as I become his gf he changes and doens't want me to have a life and the sex was bad, sry to say. I mean I know cheating is wrong but it's not like I didn't have a reason.

If the Scorpio is interesting, not lying, fun, smart and remains hot and sexy and is good at sex, I wouldn't cheat on him.

PrincePisces would love you.

OMG Amy!!! You have a long hard life ahead of you if this is the way you think.

Yea, but that girl's bf seemed like he wanted girls to say how hot he was. I didn't cheat to find out how hot I was, I cheated because I wasn't being satisfied in my relationship, I think there is a difference.

To the initial poster: Scorp men are very jealous and will only accept loyalty. You telling him you cheated on your bf and he deserved it was the first and probably the bigges red flag for him.

Sweet zombie Jesus! This thread scared the living shit out of me until I started reading the rest of it.

So ok I called him last nite from my roommates phone and he answered and I said "So, do you hate me or something?" And he said "Why would you ask that?" And I said because I've been trying to call you and you never call back. And he said he told me he was busy and I said too busy for a hot girl to talk to and he said well, no, he was never too busy for that. We talked a little more and then he said he had to go, so I feel better, he talked to me. I think maybe he doesn't like me a little because of the bf thing, but I think I can change his mind.

Thank you ms pisces! All yesterday they tell me he's not into me, blah, blah, I get excited because we talked a little and laughed and I feel like maybe if I made a bad first impression I could help correct it and I get called dumb. I'm not dumb! It's like nobody on here ever liked a boy before or something!

For the love of god just open it already Ferdy!!🙂

"Well, I've tried the "be myself thing" and it hasn't gotten me to far in the
men department! I'm still going to be myself cuz I don't know how to be anyone
else, but at the same time, I guess I have to play their games to keep it interesting
for them to come back! If I do "me" they don't seem to come back"

Ferdy, never change who you are for any man or person.

If he can't accept you for you, he doesn't deserve you.