Scorpios and Impotence....

No, this isn't about sex.....so much as it's about them not being able to 'get it up'....by that I mean self esteem problems.....when confronted with a personal struggle how do you guys deal on an emotional level— or do you press on— Are you Basically do you have enough confidence in yourself to drive on....— Where for that matter does that drive come from with you guys— Is it duty, or the feeling of victory—

What helps you guys to thrive after defeat—

I know you guys don't deal well with vulnerability (I can relate) but being emotional....how do you do it— I'm intrigued to investigate this....I'm curious because there happens to be a Scorpio lady I'm interested in, and I'd like a little background on her before I jump into anything....She's something else....

She thinks I'm just a dick, but I'm not that bad a guy.....we talk like we're best friends, but I'm sure she doesn't get my intentions...I talk to her like that because it's my way of saying 'I feel comfortable around you'....could she feel the same way—

I think it's a chemical thing. I just can't stay depressed for long. I can't stay happy for long either.

when you say chemical....do you mean household inhalants— lol

Really Yum, is it that you pay more attention to your own emotional reations—? Besides, why would you wanna be happy all the time anyway....you're humor would be lacking....just look at fly....SHE'S hilarious....🙂

*VE's Mars in Aries flares up*

Is that a challenge? lol May the best sentient being win....

"Really Yum, is it that you pay more attention to your own emotional reations—?"

I'm assuming you meant "emotional reactions", but I still don't quite get it. Feel like expanding?

I will expand Yum: You said that you can't stay happy or sad for long....when a person tends to dwell on a particular aspect of themselves such as their feelings, they seem often more introspective and focused on that state of being emotional....

For example, when I'm trying to gain a 'feel' for identity, I brood on my feelings but vacilate rapidly between feelings in search of identity....I FORCE change and emotional reactions as a way of self-discovery of my values....if you don't know your passions, how can you know yourself—

It's not something I usually dwell on. At times of extreme duress I am quite aware of my state of mind, and I do try to be reasonable. Some time ago, for example, I thought I pretty much ruined my life with a rather silly mistake(I was mislead), and It's almost as if I had two voices in my mind, one was going "holy fuck, how the fuck could I have fucked this up so fucking badly—", while another said "yeah, that was pretty bad, nothing we can do about it though except try to do better next time". In about an hour I was back on my feet, and did pretty well at something I had to do at that moment.

*misled

"wow..yum...whats your star sign—"

I'm a fish.

"you sound like an example to follow"

Thanks.🙂

What country are you from, btw? Somewhere in Europe?

Somewhere in Oceania?

Are you a Saffie, by chance?

"YUM...what the heack is a Saffie anyways?? "

South-African

Alright my next guess is Morocco(I suck at this).

"by the way YUM, didnt comment on you being a fish...heheh really nice sign thou i think you guys are over sensitive

the love of my life was a fish hard to understand thou|!"

Yeah, I can see how we're difficult to understand sometimes(and our consistent twisting of truths probably doesn't help much:/)

"lol i would tell you to keep guessing...am i allowed to ask why yuou choose those 2 countries?? you were really close...like right next to me....just keep thinkin"

well, we have two South-Africans that I know of here, and I know some Moroccan folks, so those are just the first countries that came to mind.

So...Namibia?

"have you tried mozambique—"

I would've gotten to that...eventually.:p

VE,

Scorps are the most level-headed of the Water Signs, but they teter on the emotional edge much more than they let on - something you can pick up on after a year or two of careful observation...

Is it duty, or the feeling of victory—

It's a feeling of personal empowerment. This whatever-it-is is not gonna overpower ME! You can see it in their body language immediately after defeating one of these challenges - all that passion is at the surface...

Is Portuguese widely spoken in Mozambique? How about other African nations?

I see.....is this is a trait present in both types, or is it exclusive to one type Dy—

um, fine:

do both the martians and plutonians need to feel dominate in order to have a functioning self-esteem—

.....

do you need as a scorpion to have a certain amount of power over people to feel 'secure' with yourself—