Will my Scorpio ever forgive me? Please help!

Hi, I am a Virgo and I've been with a Scorpio nearly a year (will be a year next month). We have had our ups and downs b
Hi, I am a Virgo and I've been with a Scorpio nearly a year (will be a year next month). We have had our ups and downs but it seems it has smoothed out in the last 6 months. I have met his mom and dad and his friends and he has met my mother and my friends.

Well, yesterday, I had a REALLY bad day. Yelled at at work, then my mom was having a money issue and was talking to me for 2 hours about it, then my parttime job called and said they needed me to start early. So I get home and am exhausted. I get a text from him that says "Miss u, want me to come over and make u scream?" I had texted him earlier in the day about the problems I had at work. I was really ticked off that he was talking sex so I sent back "Look, u know I love when u come over but why does it always have to be abt. sex with u?" I got no response. Then I felt bad for being snappish and called him and he says "You don't want me to come over." I said I did just that I wished he'd been more romantic in his text and not just "Let me make u scream." He was quiet. I said I wanted him to come over. He said okay. AND HE NEVER CAME.

I was so frantic. I called his cell a half-dozen times sure he'd been beat up or jumped (I don't live in a great naeiborhood). He never answered. I texted "If u decided to stay home, that's ok, just let me know." Nothing. I went to sleep around 1 a.m. so scared he was hurting or dead or something. Today I see him on MSN and send him "OMG, you're OK, I was so worried! What happened last nite?" And he ignores me then signs off! I haven't heard from him.

I know Scorpios are sensitive and I have a Scorpio friend I called up in tears to ask what to do and he said "He is making u feel the pain because he felt u did not want him to come and he also was angry because he wanted to spend time with you and you made him feel bad because of his choice of words." But was it worth standing me up and making me worry sick? I am angry but I am hurt. He's never done this in a whole year of dating, always courteous and considerate and so sweet. I called him so much last night and with the blowoff on MSN I'm afraid to contact him anymore. I don't know what to do or what I did that was so wrong. If people can help, thank you. I just want things to be okay again. Just the day before we were holding each other talking about really personal things and I felt so close to him. Can't believe in 24 hours it's turned to this. I'm so sad, help me please ...
from your wildest dreams
"Rising Sign is in 17 Degrees Libra Very attractive and popular, your charm he
My opinion is that he's being immature by refusing to communicate but he'll forgive you, don't be afraid to talk to him, you just hurt his lil feelings and like your friend said he's trying to make u feel the hurt/embarrassment he felt.
male from In your mind
He is just acting spoiled a little..Scorpios like that and he found an opportunity..
so don't worry, send him a message tomorrow or 2 days later and he will respond i am sure.
male from In your mind
And yes, we Scorpios are sensetive and don't like to be answered like this even if we know you are mad or having a bad day.
Someonespecial, should I wait? I don't want to look like a stalker, I called him so much last nite and then tried to contact him today. But I am hurting and I want to reach out to him.
But Hypno, standing me up? I admit I was a little harsh but I was so worried! I really was afraid he'd been bashed in the head and left outside. He's never said he'd come over and just not showed, no call, no text or anything. Was what I said really worth him making me worry so much about whether he was alive or dead?
Elena90, pompous in what way? And no, I will not call him, I feel so stupid calling him so many times after it was clear he stood me up. But I really was worried. I live in a kind of bad neighborhood and some older guy was stabbed last week and people get mugged off the train all the time. So I had all these visions of him bleeding and helpless dancing in my head.

Are you a Scorpio? I guess more than his reaction I am perplexed as to why he got SO ANGRY at what I said.
male from In your mind
"Was what I said really worth him making me worry so much about whether he was alive or dead?"

yes, he thinks you deserve that.
Tell me, what would you do? I wanted to march over to his apt. and curse him out for making me worry so much but my Scorpio friend said "NO, if you do that, not only will you turn him off, he will feel that you do not GET what you did to make him angry. To him, what he did was justified and if you scream at him over it, he will just assume you do not GET your part in why this happened."

But I am very angry now that I know he wasn't mugged or jumped and I feel disrespected.
But hypno, why? This is the man who 36 hours ago was telling me I was so beautiful and he was so lucky to have me! I make one comment and he thinks I deserve to be crying and staring out my apartment window looking for sirens? Does he not love me at all then? I really don't even understand what I did!
male from In your mind
Not calling him or texting him for one last time tomorrow or after would make the problem bigger and the gap wider..if you want that then don't call him..cuz i am sure he won't comeback to you unless you call one last time.
It would seem like it's rediculous and immaturity, but if you wanna save whatever between you, then do the right thing.

from your wildest dreams
"Rising Sign is in 17 Degrees Libra Very attractive and popular, your charm he
Yes he overreacted by standing you up, that's not cool, we are definitely spoiled brats and need to work on not giving people we care about the silent treatment when they piss us off ... that's messed up, he's being vindictive cause u hurt his ego. I don't think it matters if you wait or not, if you tell him how u feel you won't seem like a stalker (u've been with him for a year) but whether u wait or not I think that he'll have to cool off in his own sweet time.....hopefully he'll feel bad for "torturing" u and improve his behavior...as long as he knows u still love him/want him he'll be back...if you can do something like make him laugh and lighten up a little bit he may stop sulking sooner, that works on me....again, it's just my opinion...good luck!
male from In your mind
lol..i won't be surpsied if that guy is on Sag cusp
male from In your mind
Listen to what someonespecial said..it's very true.
male from In your mind
"But hypno, why? This is the man who 36 hours ago was telling me I was so beautiful and he was so lucky to have me! I make one comment and he thinks I deserve to be crying and staring out my apartment window looking for sirens? Does he not love me at all then? I really don't even understand what I did!"

He does love you..you need to know more about Scorpio's nature, one year with him and you haven't figured out him and how he thinks but it's ok, with time you will.
Like SomeoneSpecial said..just text him with something funny or say you love him..and he will respond i am sure.
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