Scorpio stare or glance- Short question, no story!

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Whats it about? How come there's no wave or anything to start communication? I had a fall out with an ex and we haven't talked in long time. Now when I see him in passing he always stares at me but when I look in his direction hell put his head down but the moment I look away he turns and glances and stares at me. I assume when he puts his head down he doesn't want to talk or me to see him so then I'm just like whatever and I look on. No dirty looks or anything. Sometimes he'll even smile to himself when he looks at me. So then I just think he's talking shit in his head lol. But I don't know it's confusing. When we were together he used to stare at me a lot but we were together then and he never put his head down like he does now. Any thoughts?

There is a chance he might think I still dislike him lol if that matters at all but I have no hard feelings towards him anymore. I just go about my business now.
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Posted by cheekyfaerie
False advertising. Definitely a story there.

Maybe he sees you seeing him and thinks the same thing. If things are on good terms as far as you're concerned, why not approach him and express as much?

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I meant as in I didn't tell our whole background story. Why were not talking and so forth. I would say hi or smile but he always looks away when I see him. Then I'll notice him looking my way right after or my friend will tell me he was looking. I guess it's not a huge deal jus sort of funny to me. If he ever looks at me and gives
Me time to wave I guess I will.
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like most men... leave them alone to think about what move they wanna make... if any... and eventually they will. whatever you two are doing sounds like some sort of game. scorpios are good at this game if it looks like you are a willing player. and it seems you are. back out of it and it will force their hand. in essence, you are still playing a game, but you have to play it off like you have all the time in the world. lol

i do this all the time with my scorp when his puttin off the vibes like he has something on his mind... he will always say what's on his mind in due time. i just have to leave him alone so he can figure out when he's ready to spill it. any time i've ever asked him what he was thinking if he looked like he was contemplating something... i've NEVER received a profound answer from him. ever. so clearly, probing doesnt work.
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Posted by CreepyPants
like most men... leave them alone to think about what move they wanna make... if any... and eventually they will. whatever you two are doing sounds like some sort of game. scorpios are good at this game if it looks like you are a willing player. and it seems you are. back out of it and it will force their hand. in essence, you are still playing a game, but you have to play it off like you have all the time in the world. lol

i do this all the time with my scorp when his puttin off the vibes like he has something on his mind... he will always say what's on his mind in due time. i just have to leave him alone so he can figure out when he's ready to spill it. any time i've ever asked him what he was thinking if he looked like he was contemplating something... i've NEVER received a profound answer from him. ever. so clearly, probing doesnt work.



That's what it is! A game. That's kinda how it feels to. This I look at u and you look at me but we act like we don't see each other even though we BOTH know we see one another. Lol good point. He's always liked playing games like this too in our past so it's not out of his usual. I just wish he would grow some balls and say something let alone anything! I guess I'm still taking on the female role of feeling like I shouldn't be the one to say hi first. Sometimes I feel like he thinks if he says something first it will show weakness given our situation. He's very stubborn as well. Maybe next time I'll just keeping looking at him till he sees that I see him and then smile.