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Scorpio-Taurus/ Eros-Epithemia
Very weak understanding of Taurean sexuality IMO. I wonder if many people who have actually been in long-terms with Taureans see us as having such a simplistic self-centered/masturbatory perspective on sex, or if they feel like we are extremely, if not primarily, focused on pleasing the other. For my own part, I've never slept with a woman I wasn't in love with, can't see myself doing it, and am more like the female stereotype in that I can't even sleep with my SO unless we are emotionally in sync. Its never been primarily a physical act for me.
Posted by Whatu
Who's looking forward to June?click to expand
you tell me?
Posted by ShadowAbsorber
i read the whole thing in class. it made me think a lot about the most recent person in my life who is a scorpio and who hurt me a lot, but whose sexual style changed my life.
what is his style? how it changed your life?
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Very weak understanding of Taurean sexuality IMO. I wonder if many people who have actually been in long-terms with Taureans see us as having such a simplistic self-centered/masturbatory perspective on sex, or if they feel like we are extremely, if not primarily, focused on pleasing the other. For my own part, I've never slept with a woman I wasn't in love with, can't see myself doing it, and am more like the female stereotype in that I can't even sleep with my SO unless we are emotionally in sync. Its never been primarily a physical act for me.
interesting. Some tauruses are just running away after they get what they want. lol.
I'm not a victim, though. I just witnessed.
Posted by WhatuPosted by M143Posted by Whatu
Who's looking forward to June?
you tell me?
I am, just interested to see what happens. I suspect it will come on pretty heavy but im battle hardend now =Dclick to expand
oh gosh. I wish I can carry some of your loads..so it won't be heavy for you.
Let's see what happens if that is your conviction.
Posted by M143Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Very weak understanding of Taurean sexuality IMO. I wonder if many people who have actually been in long-terms with Taureans see us as having such a simplistic self-centered/masturbatory perspective on sex, or if they feel like we are extremely, if not primarily, focused on pleasing the other. For my own part, I've never slept with a woman I wasn't in love with, can't see myself doing it, and am more like the female stereotype in that I can't even sleep with my SO unless we are emotionally in sync. Its never been primarily a physical act for me.
interesting. Some tauruses are just running away after they get what they want. lol.
I'm not a victim, though. I just witnessed.click to expand
People of every sign can run away after
Posted by ShadowAbsorber
He fulfilled my desires in a way that was like fantasy. His interactions with me remained dominant from start to finish. He would ignore my texts & calls and would put me down whenever he saw truth in putting me down, like he could see through me. This made me feel insecure and hate myself.
LOL@Scorpio sext magic.I don't mean to make what sounds like a very bad situation worse, but I don't think he could've taken advantage of you so easily were there not already a good degree of insecurity and self-loathing present. Not that everyone doesn't have a bit of that, but I just am not sure why a woman would ever let a man belittle her to that degree. Doesn't seem worth the damage - even for deep "transformative" sexting. Interesting though, that you're the first Taurus girl I've seen on here that likes talking dirty - maybe the Gemini placement? I have seen quite a few vocalize that they are turned off by it.
Posted by ScorpiosHarmony
No hate to Taurean men but after being in a long term relationship with one I truly understand why we are opposite signs. There's so much depth in my emotion and I value a mental & spiritual kind of intimacy however Taurus men are very surface level / primitive creatures. They're kind and loyal when they choose to be but they just lack the kind of passion that a Scorpio craves.
Find one with some fire/water placements...for they are not lacking in the passion department.
I totally understand how you feel, I feel like I'm going crazy...
Posted by ShadowAbsorber
I was aware of it, but no other guy took it to that level ever in real life or in sexting, so I stuck around because not only did I like the masculinity but I was curious. And no I don't think it was insecurity, because like I said I did not LIKE when he treated me like shit - that was the part I had to put up with to get to the good stuff. It's deeply part of my feminine disposition to be attracted to a man who is masculine. Maybe the lesson was just to show me that I need to find someone who's dominant sexually but respects me in a relationship. I've realized that without BOTH elements, I will lose feelings.. Maybe you don't get it. There's more to sex than just the physical, and that includes admiration for your partner and the dynamic between you guys. Sometimes I'll stick around to something just to see how far it goes.. I'm curious.
To be more clear in answering the question.. It changed me in that yes it DID make me insecure because I wondered why he did not respect me & find me worthy to get to know him and to be known. But ultimately I know that he misjudged me, and I do deserve respect. Also, it changed me in that when future guys try to do something sexual with me I'm worried I'll be bored because it isn't powerful & 100% enough like the way it was in his sexts. Once I know it exists, it's hard to go bac
I get it, and I've said before that the chemistry betw. these two signs (at least in some cases) can cause you to overlook things that you normally wouldn't. Trust me, I've felt the chemistry. I just think its generally a deep problem with self-respect if you choose to linger in a relationship where someone is demeaning and basically using you. I'm glad you see your self as worthy of more.
Posted by Infinite8
It's rather insulting to see the Epithemia definition in comparison to the others. So simplified and primitive.
I've met Taurus men & women that were rather simple-minded and perhaps a bit primitive in their ways. But, I have met others that have blown me away with their depth and ability to GIVE spiritual peace and affection to others.
You would be selling yourself short if you make this article your bible - is all I have to say about that.
+100000
I met a charming Taurus man last weekend. He was very wise and spiritual. Taurus women and men are a hit or miss for me. But the ones that I am close with are very reasonable and in depth with themselves and others. I even consider giving Taurus men another chance lol I instantly find them attractive but it doesn't go anywhere than that. Maybe in the future my soulmate can be a Taurus.
ShadowAbsorber,
I believe that Scorpio man who brought you so much pain also he felt the same. Scorpio are very emotional people
you felt it during intimacy that those passionate words really moved your soul deeply..and that hurts you.
will share you this music. My ex taur favorite (I made researched why he like this very much, only to find out yanni is a scorpio, lol. It made me smile. he is not astrology believer kind of taurus, so I don't share astrology items, lol.) He said, he is sure that I really like this too..and yeah I loved it.
ShadowAbsorber: Women and men require a lot of action, movement, visual, domination, paraphernalia...when something deeper and essential fault, is wrong. It's a mistake, generates dissatisfaction and disease, a degeneration of sex and its energy that's the essence of life and physical, mental and spiritual health.
* It's a very complex issue, requires to be fairly healthy, studied, critical and personal evolved to understand.
* It's a very complex issue, requires to be fairly healthy, studied, critical and personal evolved to understand.
Posted by Whatu
Opps, What baffles me is that his behaviour is clearly quite childish and not masculine at all. Sounds like instead of growing some nuts and telling you how he feels he's being a complete wanker and trying to control you. he's doing that because he doesn't wan't to show you the little boy on the inside. I mean why would you wan't to date that insecure little boy when your gaging for the control freak persona that he puts on to hide what a pussy he is.
I think she confused "masculine men" with bad boys. (Bad but attractive for a type of women).
This girl has to work hard on herself, yet.
Posted by Infinite8
It's rather insulting to see the Epithemia definition in comparison to the others. So simplified and primitive.
Yeah, these are really just 4 Greek words for love, which are actually not even accurately defined in that article, and which are arbitrarily assigned to zodiac signs based on a book by one Astrologer in the 80's. Philia being described by the author as a "fiery romantic love", is more often used to describe a brotherly/friendship love by the Greeks. He needs it to correlate with Leo though so he totally misrepresents the most common context of the word. "Agape" is similarly misconstrued. I have never seen it defined as a "detached" love, but the author needs it to fit with Aquarius. It is ALSO used often for "brotherly love" like "philia", and And that is another problem with analyses of these Greek "love" words (which have inspired so much writing); authors who expound on these words like they are some ancient oracle that teach us about the true nature of love, want them to have some sharp delineation/demarcation between their meanings, but they all have overlap, bleed into one another, and vary in their definition depending on context. There are a lot of spiritual/religious works which handle them in a very sloppy manner, and this article follows suit, making some really simplistic generalizations about sun signs in the process.
Posted by Infinite8
Did you find out the astrologers sign? He seemed so favorable towards the sign of Scorpio...
LOL, my first thought, and the first thing I checked. Not listed online or on his FB page. But, Richard Idemon whose work he is regurgitating, is an Aqua-dominant Aquarius with a Gemini moon. No surprise there as Aquarius is equated with "agape" which he (wrongly) sees as the ultra-evolved detached "love of the gods" - roaming about having sex with whoever you desire - which learns from the other 3 forms of love, but "goes a step further" allowing everyone their freedom. This is the ultimate! LOL. I'm sure a lot of my Aqua friends wish this were the divine decree on this love business. Whole thing is just very arbitrary - why are the *fixed* signs the ones that get correlated with 4 chosen Greek words for "love"? sigh....And why these 4 Greek words? Why not the Greek word "storge", which is usually the one authors include in these lists of 4 Greek loves? That's often used for the love of a parent to a child. Can't really use that one though, eh? If only Cancer were a fixed sign....
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpioPosted by Infinite8
Did you find out the astrologers sign? He seemed so favorable towards the sign of Scorpio...
LOL, my first thought, and the first thing I checked. Not listed online or on his FB page. But, Richard Idemon whose work he is regurgitating, is an Aqua-dominant Aquarius with a Gemini moon. No surprise there as Aquarius is equated with "agape" which he (wrongly) sees as the ultra-evolved detached "love of the gods" - roaming about having sex with whoever you desire - which learns from the other 3 forms of love, but "goes a step further" allowing everyone their freedom. This is the ultimate! LOL. I'm sure a lot of my Aqua friends wish this were the divine decree on this love business. Whole thing is just very arbitrary - why are the *fixed* signs the ones that get correlated with 4 chosen Greek words for "love"? sigh....And why these 4 Greek words? Why not the Greek word "storge", which is usually the one authors include in these lists of 4 Greek loves? That's often used for the love of a parent to a child. Can't really use that one though, eh? If only Cancer were a fixed sign....click to expand
ehhhh.... i checked agape:
a??ga??pe 2
(?_-g?_??_p??, ?_??_g??-p—?_)
n.
1. Christianity
a. Love as revealed in Jesus, seen as spiritual and selfless and a model for humanity.
b. In the early Christian Church and some modern churches, the love feast accompanied by Eucharistic celebration.
2. Love that is spiritual, not sexual, in its nature.
--
that sounds more like pisces. And doesn't he have midheaven cancer? sounds contradictory to what you just said, that they're having sex all over the place?
http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Richard_Idemon<BR> Born: February 8, 1938, 9:37 PM
In: Akron (OH) (United States)
Sun: 19??42' Aquarius AS: 4??57' Libra
Moon: 3??49' Gemini MC: 5??45' Cancer
Dominants: Aquarius, Aries, Libra
Mars, Saturn, Venus
Houses 5, 7, 9 / Air, Fire / Cardinal
Chinese Astrology: Earth Tiger
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