Scorpio Woman Sadness

Hey everyone,

I'm seeing a Scorpio woman who's going through a bout of sadness. She's had this before a few months ago and now again. She is in a 4th day of sadness. In her own terms, she said she "doesn't know what's wrong with her". She's having open communication with me, but is definitely on a sad energetic wavelength right now. She's withdrawing from her friends and just wanting to stay home when she gets back from work and do nothing.

Now, I totally get this and respect her need to feel her emotions and live them fully so she can process whatever she needs to and come out the other side. I simply want to ask all the Scorpio women, what do you need from your man during these types of phases?

Thanks!

Sometimes when were bummed out we dont like bringing down the people around us so we disengage from friends, family, lovers.. Just let her know that youll be there whenever she needs you while giving her the space she needs.

Posted by Ernestos80
Hey everyone,

I'm seeing a Scorpio woman who's going through a bout of sadness. She's had this before a few months ago and now again. She is in a 4th day of sadness. In her own terms, she said she "doesn't know what's wrong with her". She's having open communication with me, but is definitely on a sad energetic wavelength right now. She's withdrawing from her friends and just wanting to stay home when she gets back from work and do nothing.

Now, I totally get this and respect her need to feel her emotions and live them fully so she can process whatever she needs to and come out the other side. I simply want to ask all the Scorpio women, what do you need from your man during these types of phases?

Thanks!

*Distraction of some sort (life problem you're having, something fun, general convo) nothing too physical and don't ask me over and over again about what's wrong or what I'm feeling. I will avoid you.

Thank you all for the replies. They're much appreciated. I feel like it's a balance of the 2 here. I do believe she needs some space to not be smothered, but no more than a day or two. It makes sense to keep the topic light and fun when we do talk. If she brings up her sadness I can ask how I can help.

We're currently not in the same city because of work. So I've got phone calls and messages to communicate with her. Whilst just being there for her in person would be great, logistically that's not an option right now.

when i get this way,
i need my husband
to leave me alone.

i know he's there and
i know he cares and
wants to help.

somethings i need
to feel through alone.
there is nothing that
he can do to make
these feeling pass.
he respects that and
lets me have my time.

Posted by TachibanaSan
when i get this way,
i need my husband
to leave me alone.

i know he's there and
i know he cares and
wants to help.

somethings i need
to feel through alone.
there is nothing that
he can do to make
these feeling pass.
he respects that and
lets me have my time.

I can understand this. As a Cancerian I know that those alone periods are necessary and no one can "pull you out" of them. I agree that she needs some time to process what she's going through. She knows I'm here for her, that's already been established on many ocassions. From talking to her yesterday, I could get her to laugh a little and open up. But she was always going to go back to dealing with her feeling of sadness. She just needs a little time to withdraw from everything. I'll be here for her even though I'm not physically with her right now.

Posted by Fox
do you know where her moon is?

I'm not 100% on her moon, but I think it's Taurus. She's a Sagittarius in Venus as well. I don't intend to withdraw, but to allow her space if she needs it. I'm simply continuing the normal communication patterns I've got with her. But respecting her space if she's not talkative or replying to messages. She knows I'm here for her.