How to confront a scorpio woman?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by leorisingpiscesmoon on Tuesday, March 29, 2016 and has 10 replies.

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@leorisingpiscesmoon
10 Years

I had a friend that a scorpio well more like an associate, she and my ex guy friend (whom yes I got some goodies from) are now friends? When me and him went to dubai she was all flirty and such. Then she calls him to com pick her up from a bar. Now I'm not the most calmest person. However I feel like she crossed a line. I went to put her in her place, since we work together give me some tips on how you like to be approached?

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@M143
12 Years1,000+ Posts

I think you are the same girl who has a Taurus Bf and had a close friend Scorpia ? If not, then
you leo girl needs to know your man. Ask him. Not her.

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10 Years

The guy was someone I was dating, just started but I was really into him. We all went to Dubai together. Me and him had sex and it continued for a while its been about month. He recently became an ex as I mean as of about 2 hours ago. lol
I had a big crush on him for a while now.

She was a friend, we would go to her house for game night, I brought him along too. We always hung out, she is fashion associate at our job we work together.

The problem well... she was out with friends one who is a close friend of mine, she was bored and she called my guy to come pick her up. When she asked our friend to get in the car she said " No I'm not riding with him why should I" her reply was "Don't work we wont tell her (me)?"

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10 Years

Posted by M143
I think you are the same girl who has a Taurus Bf and had a close friend Scorpia ? If not, then
you leo girl needs to know your man. Ask him. Not her.

Nope not her, but I didn't check my guy, I just cut him off I don't deal with disrespect, I felt it was disrespectful.

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@leorisingpiscesmoon
10 Years

Agreed she is but I have a temper so when she says something to me how do I approach it. She knows or have an idea that I know and so now she is mad at the others for telling me.

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@TachibanaSan
10 Years1,000+ Posts

as a scorpio woman,
i tell you to be upfront
and honest with her.

but i ask you now, dear.
was there a rule that says
she was not to touch your
left overs? he is ex boy, no?
or was she supposed to just
know not to go for him?

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@TachibanaSan
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by leorisingpiscesmoon
The guy was someone I was dating, just started but I was really into him. We all went to Dubai together. Me and him had sex and it continued for a while its been about month. He recently became an ex as I mean as of about 2 hours ago. lol
I had a big crush on him for a while now.

She was a friend, we would go to her house for game night, I brought him along too. We always hung out, she is fashion associate at our job we work together.

The problem well... she was out with friends one who is a close friend of mine, she was bored and she called my guy to come pick her up. When she asked our friend to get in the car she said " No I'm not riding with him why should I" her reply was "Don't work we wont tell her (me)?"

that is the problem.
never bring your person
around your friend for any
extended period of time.

this i do not trust.
my time with my man
is mine only; i do not
have other women there.

my time with my friends
is my time with them alone.
you never know when you
inadvertently causing two
people to get closer without
your knowledge.

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@leorisingpiscesmoon
10 Years

Posted by TachibanaSan

Posted by leorisingpiscesmoon
The guy was someone I was dating, just started but I was really into him. We all went to Dubai together. Me and him had sex and it continued for a while its been about month. He recently became an ex as I mean as of about 2 hours ago. lol
I had a big crush on him for a while now.

She was a friend, we would go to her house for game night, I brought him along too. We always hung out, she is fashion associate at our job we work together.

The problem well... she was out with friends one who is a close friend of mine, she was bored and she called my guy to come pick her up. When she asked our friend to get in the car she said " No I'm not riding with him why should I" her reply was "Don't work we wont tell her (me)?"

that is the problem.
never bring your person
around your friend for any
extended period of time.

this i do not trust.
my time with my man
is mine only; i do not
have other women there.

my time with my friends
is my time with them alone.
you never know when you
inadvertently causing two
people to get closer without
your knowledge.

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Agreed

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@leorisingpiscesmoon
10 Years

Posted by Gobshite
If you're still with him, this really comes down to trust. He should be who you're discussing this with, not her.

Put away your catty side and focus on the bigger picture.

We are not together, I did discuss it with him. Which is why we aren't talking. Her being my coworker and a friend I thought was wrong. I guess that line of respect doesn't really exist anymore. So I get it. I wasn't trying to be catty didn't think I was. Thank you

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@leorisingpiscesmoon
10 Years

Posted by Gobshite

Posted by leorisingpiscesmoon

Posted by Gobshite
If you're still with him, this really comes down to trust. He should be who you're discussing this with, not her.

Put away your catty side and focus on the bigger picture.

We are not together, I did discuss it with him. Which is why we aren't talking. Her being my coworker and a friend I thought was wrong. I guess that line of respect doesn't really exist anymore. So I get it. I wasn't trying to be catty didn't think I was. Thank you

Well, in that's case, the answer's pretty simple. You keep your distance until you can completely break off ties with her.

While they are perfectly within their rights to see each other, they obviously didn't take your feelings into consideration. Not cool.

As for saying anything to her, there's really no point. All you'll achieve is more drama.

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You are completely right.