Scorpios - only one true great love?

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Curious as to whether Scorpios agree they have one truly great love who even if they are not together for whatever reason, they consider their "ONE" and no one else can measure up? In talking to my ex to firm up our separation (getting out of my lease, etc.) he has opened up to me that he thinks he lost the great love of his life in college (she broke up with him and moved across the country) and that in some respects he doesnt think he"ll truly be able to love anyone else -- that seems incredibly sad to me. I thought maybe he was rare, but in the past few weeks, I've been researching Scorpio men and reading some anecdotes, I've found a lot of men still pining for one ex or another and stringing along some poor, unsuspecting woman. I somehow don't see the Scorp women doing that as much as the men seem to do, but maybe it is somewhat the same for Scorpio women as well?
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Nah not me...Many people come and go throughout your life and with them come lessons and experiences..I have immense love for anyone who comes into my life that I have admired or respected in some way...all the others just pass through..I don't believe in the concept of soulmate..I think it's a pile of crap..and I am not of the forever mindset..although it's nice if something lasts forever..as it doesn't, I am not dillusional.
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MM, it is easier for us scorp girls, with us being black and white maybe, either we are with you or we aren't and we can not be with you and remain friends.

However, it seems to be more of a lose/win situation with scorp men of a sort. If they lose you completely it seems like they lost in some way? I don't quite know how to explain that. So they just keep holding on for years even if you treat them like shit, actually the more you treat them like shit the more they increase the attachment. Trust I know. 😢
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QS..I know what you mean..I went out with scorp guy..my first boyfriend in fact..now having had our reunion 10 years later just by chance..the little shit will not just disappear..regardless of the amount of abuse I dish out to him..such a loser..get a fuckin life already!

Jeez..I have absolutely no respect for a man who cannot understand NO and respect it. Have they no dignity?!
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I have often wondered you know..lol..I seriously do not understand why people can't let go..That part of scorpio I cannot relate to I am afraid..it's not hard, you gather your shit up and move on..life is about motion...keeping the choo choo going..lol..

I have a hard time forgiving a wrong..but I dont care enough to keep stewing over it..if opportunity presents itself, I will screw them over however sitting conjuring up plans and withering away is such a waste of time..

What fire sign would you place me at?

Do majority of planets in house 1 constitute a fiery personality?
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Yes house 1 = aries rulership

oh yes..I am loyal..and you are right..I am intense **although not sure what about** but it is flitting..as are most things in my life..get bored way too quickly..

The funniest sentence I heard you speak was the fact that you can't even finish a sentence without getting bored..lmao..brilliant!.

you know that little paper fish thing you get often in a xmas cracker and you put it on your palm and it curls or does whatever..I always get "fickle" 😢
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fickle + scorp 😛
well to be fair most water signs re not materially intense, it's emotionally but I guess you're balance so know when swim off.

get bored way too quickly..

lol that's why I can't finish sentences - you can get more out of it if I write it...

noticed it in high school - I used to breeze through essays and got really good marks for english reports or descriptions --- but try getting me to talk --- if you get a grunt, that's a lot...
so I'm thinking of the sentence, anything shiny goes by, I might be lost... or I hink loads of arieses think very fast so sometimes can't find the sentences quickly enough...

anything could happen mid-sentence - no matter how hard try to control myself