Scorpios Thoughts on loneliness?

I found this on tha web and i have to say i respect this Scorpio just read it's cool it's true.

Are you afraid of loneliness?

Ever wonder why we are so afraid of loneliness?

Don't boost that you are surely not one of them!

The plain truth is: Many of us, in fact, the majority are afraid of loneliness. The fear of loneliness, so great that even the shyest person find comfort in Internet chat rooms which have become so popular throughout the world. And no doubt at all, many lonely persons want to be connected to the outside world but yet they do not want to trust the world outside. So they think it is always safer to chat with the virtual world?

The human fear of loneliness is very ironical. Consider this fact: We come fully naked and alone into this world. The day will come that we have to leave alone from this world. Yet it is the living in this world which we can't tolerate to be alone!

So the social disease of the fear of loneliness catch on. In simpler term for the younger generation, they do not want to be left out alone from groups. Loneliness has become a peer pressure. By the time you reach teenage, you must have a girl friend like most of your peers. No girl friend? You must be gay. Or you can't walk alone in the streets or shopping malls. You must be seen in company. Or else your peers will think you are damn weird.

Is fear of loneliness again, the reason we see why some modern church worships are packed with young people? Seeing most of these young churchgoers on one hand, holding the bible but on the other hand, holding the hand of a girl or boyfriend? Or afraid of letting your friends know you just went to watch a movie all alone?

What went wrong? What has happened to us? What has happened to our society? This fear of been identified as lonely is now the social disease which has reached incurable stage.

Wait....we urinate alone. We shit alone. We bathe alone. But we can't shop alone? And we can't watch a movie alone? Sleep? Well... it is true for those sexually active, like in Paul Anka's song "I don't like to sleep alone".

What we did not realise may be we bother too much into what other people think of us. Been alone is NOT a sin or a curse. It can be a blessing. We still need our space for privacy.

Ever realise something? It is a fact that in the moment of loneliness or privacy, we find our true self. Because many of us, especially the young when in the company of groups or with their boy- or girlfriends, tend to behave in the way to please them. They become simply NOT themselves. They become someone else for the sake of that someone.

Only in this populated society, we find our courage to live alone, not affected by gossip or peer pressure. We find our thinking pure, not intoxicated by the words of other people or have to be suspicious most of the time of what people said or think of us.

Teenage Kuanyin starts her holy life in loneliness in the mountains before she ascends to the heavens. A woman who shows no fear. No worries of the man-eating beasts in the mountains. Rain or shine, unmoved by the fear of loneliness. Her mediation stays foot. Her chanting thoughts continuous.

If we are to be so fearful of loneliness all the time, how are we going to face the day when we are to die alone? Let nature takes its course. If we are not meant to be lonely, even if we want to be alone, we may not have the chance to do so.

Posted by sb_cap
We aren't alone when we come to this world. Ignoring your mother at such a young age must have some repercussions.

it's not in that literal sense ur mixing apples and oranges its talking about this society and how u always need to be under people 24/7 its saying u don't have to be in peoples ass tha time sometimes u just have to be by ur self so can u clear ur mind to kno who u are as a person.

Im a Scorpio and I much rather be alone.

People are draining.

I like to do what I want, when I want and not have some leech clinging onto me.

This was perfect for me. And I've clung to people in my life that I should have let go of........simply out of the fear of abandonment or lonliness. sad

Posted by fall&rise
For me loneliness is a bliss. If i am considered as unsocial, unbalanced etc. treetrunk the sociaty. I am not gonna lick asses of people for the sake of making friedship with someone who i know that intelectually and spiritually not in the same level with me, i was like that from the very first day when i was born. Never felt the neccessity to belong to a group either, not in elementary school, not in highschool, not in any area of my life never felt the urge at all. It is better when i am alone, i load energy to my great spirit and take care of my body. There is plenty of usefull, precious free time for me when i am alone, why should that bother me? Why should that scare me?

this was so profound i love you u real yo i can relate to this completely thats y i made this topic any-who keep being you u will never be happier owwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww lmao

Posted by eden 3

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Posted by eden 3
hey legend- i am not fearful of being alone i cherish it. it just doesn't happen enough 😢

deems there u go again bragging about being left alone... ;P

scorpio not fearful of being alone? shocked tbh 🙂 x

hi 🙂 xo

honestly I love being alone *sighs* probably cuz I rarely am.

my husband & friends r offended when I say I just want to be alone....cuz when I try shaking people with excuses they don't work *shrugs* now I save a lot of time by just saying I need to be alone.

I find the beach mentally relaxing I luv to snorkel too the silence is precious and helps ur mind rest. this is what I need to quiet my mind...if not I may go crazy.

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"Waits by tha beach waiting for eden"

Posted by Uni
hehe i'm a scorpio too and i adore beeing alone..like others said..more time for myself...no one to bother you and stuff like that..you do what you want when you want and no one can stop you 🙂 so..i am for loneliness too 🙂 i don't need others to feel better...

spoken like a true scorp i dont like wen people kiss ass to have friends its wack and it shows that ur afraid to be ur self if ur not a social person so fucking wat be you.


thanks for answering ma thread

I think it`s a common notion that Scorpios like their solitude.
I agree with Eden. I personally become saturated by social interaction with family, friends, colleagues and lovers alike quite rapidly. Hence, I cherish my solitude. At times I do feel like associating with my mates and colleagues, and I will then try to rule the group.

As for, "What has happened to our society!?", I find that an odd, un-thorough, and dare I say "young", remark. For as long as humans, cro-magnons, homo sapies etc etc have lived, we have always sought to be part of a group. It's survival pure and simple. So honestly, I think you or whoever the author is, is a bit out of bounds with that "analysis".

In my view, people who do not fit into groups are nature's losers and natural selection will weed them out, people who don't want to be in a group and is strong enough on his own is probably a scorpio 🙂 and people who delve, enjoy and need group dynamics, do it instinctively out of survival. But to state there has been a change in our society... Not so, only our technology has changed.

Any questions or comments will be warmly received.

Actually being totally alone is sounding better and better all the time.
I'm tired of trying to explain myself to people. I am who I am and I make no apologies for it.

Posted by Hemingway
I think it`s a common notion that Scorpios like their solitude.
I agree with Eden. I personally become saturated by social interaction with family, friends, colleagues and lovers alike quite rapidly. Hence, I cherish my solitude. At times I do feel like associating with my mates and colleagues, and I will then try to rule the group.

As for, "What has happened to our society!?", I find that an odd, un-thorough, and dare I say "young", remark. For as long as humans, cro-magnons, homo sapies etc etc have lived, we have always sought to be part of a group. It's survival pure and simple. So honestly, I think you or whoever the author is, is a bit out of bounds with that "analysis".

In my view, people who do not fit into groups are nature's losers and natural selection will weed them out, people who don't want to be in a group and is strong enough on his own is probably a scorpio 🙂 and people who delve, enjoy and need group dynamics, do it instinctively out of survival. But to state there has been a change in our society... Not so, only our technology has changed.

Any questions or comments will be warmly received.

i love ur feedback i think is dat tha person is saying we always need entertainment 24/7 but i can be wrong but dats wat i think sometimes we need to be by our self to kno who we are as a being cuz we can get lost in other people lives and forget about our own purpose.