Should I declare to a scorpio?

Not that I have any first handle experience in the matter 😛, but affairs with emotional attachment are only going to fuck up your life and theirs. It's just not worth it. Not to mention, you'd never be 100% secure with someone who would leave a spouse for you.

Just resign and leave that man alone. He's MARRIED!

^ Exactly.

Do you want to explain how you feel before you resign with the hope that he might reciprocate?

If not, then just resign. If you do-- well, that's not something you'd want done to you, I bet.

Or maybe you would be alright with someone hitting on your husband-- who knows?

I feel its the same way on the other side, I wrote. I get the "stare" all the time. Could it be just manipulative behaviour?
Shouldnt I try to clarify this issue before resigning?
Im not trying to steal someone, thats why Im resigning....

Scorpios?? Any inputs ??

Posted by mancee
Scorpios?? Any inputs ??

Hmm, I'd have to agree with those that say married men should be left well enough alone. If he's willing to leave her for you, then he'll be willing to leave you for someone else.

I'm a scorpio female, but in my experience so long as I'm happy in my relationship I don't stray. Hell, my eyes barely pick up on other men. That being said, if there are problems in my current relationship I'll seek outside interaction. Up until a point. I can't speak for every Scorpio but loyalty is a big factor for me and I wouldn't go so far as to actually cheat. And my marriage would have to be pretty far down into the crapper for me to give up on it.

All that being said. I don't think declaring your feelings for him will do you any real good. Even if he dropped everything for you, you'd still be left with someone willing to give up on their marriage and the emotional fallout from that on top of a new reputation as a homewrecker. Not saying that you are one, but that's what people will think.

As for resigning. If you feel like you can't handle working for him considering your feelings, then you need to do what is best for you.

^+1

He's not worth it. Get over him and move on.

selfish?
I actually see it as a very unselfish thing. better than leave without saying a word.
that woul be selfish!

Posted by mancee
selfish?
I actually see it as a very unselfish thing. better than leave without saying a word.
that woul be selfish!

Selfish is telling him about your feelings just so you can unburden them from yourself.

what would a scorpio expect me to do in such situation? :-)
just leave?

^^ Truth

Posted by mancee
selfish?
I actually see it as a very unselfish thing. better than leave without saying a word.
that woul be selfish!

Telling him how you feel or saying nothing at all-- these aren't your only choices.

You can easily resign without telling him your feelings.

And yes, you did say you *thought* the feeling was mutual-- but what if it isn't?

Don't you dare declare anything on a marries man, he's already been "declared". Go find someone single please, it's very self centered to do that, there is a lot of collateral damage and you're thinking of no one but yourself. You'd be hurting a lot of people. YOU would be the "other" woman, while his wife remains his world and everything after he's done using you, you'll suddenly be as valuable as a used tissue.

Oh awkward haha- well vice versa aswell.

stay away stay awayyy.
If you confess your feelings, then she will confess hers and it will be the absolute worst.
there is absolutely no way for it to end up good. unless you're Leann Rimes