@atearth
13 Years
The speed of a Scorpio
Do Scorpios Move On Quickly?
Scorpios often look like they move on quickly, but in real situations many people notice they keep their feelings private and may not be fully over it right away. They can go quiet, stay guarded, or act detached while still processing what happened. So the speed is often faster on the surface than it is underneath.
Basically I'm saying moving fast makes a breakup easier, but most rebound relationships won't last for a Scorp UNLESS the other person is able to slow the Scorp down and make them feel real things beyond the superficial lust and infatuation that comes then fades so quickly.
i agree,
in my last relationship i grew distant from my boyfriend, after i broke up with him on my terms i went for a virgo very very shortly after.. at first i think i was just using it as a rebound but i ended up falling in love with him cause he gave me balance in the relationship and slowed me down!
in the past i just used boys as rebounds but then would get sick of them if they bored me.
funnily enough it's the moving fast thing that makes me stop still, lol!! i seem to meet someone, click instantly and then it goes straight to maximum intensity and so now i force myself to ignore the instant clicking and pursuant intensity on the basis that it's probably not real. i slow MYSELF down these days. methinks virgo rising has a part to play in this.
Posted by QUlETstorm
We like to move on quickly because it helps numb the sting of a breakup. Sometimes when we move quickly after a breakup, it's more or less just a rebound, unless the person is able to slow us down emotionally......most rebound relationships won't last for a Scorp UNLESS the other person is able to slow the Scorp down and make them feel real things beyond the superficial lust and infatuation that comes then fades so quickly.
+1
Posted by atearth
I have a question for you Scorpio people out there.I have a friend that I was interested in who happened to be in a relationship with a Gemini for six months. As I predicted it ended a week or two ago. Now the Scorpio is in another relationship. Although I not sure who with.
I was speaking to a friend who is a Scorpio, who said that Scorpio like things fast. I don't know, but surely you have to give some space for someone how has just ended a relationship and not pounce on them within minutes of finding out that they are single, right?
That happened to my scorpio who broke up with me telling me he is engaged to be married by his parents..
but right now, he fell for another girl!! I asked him about her but he denies. the thing is, I saw it from Fb that the girl posted on his FB calling him "Thanks LOVE" and "I love Mr. Perfect!" WTH!! And on Skype, he never posted status before, right now, he says "Maybe i can be that guy!!" But just as I bomb him with that status, he changed it to "Who the hell hacked my account?? Better mind your own business!!" He's just trying to cover it up. I can see the girl's profile before and just after I told him that, she has changed her setting to Private. Why does he still want to hide?? He just jumped into another relationship with another girl. And yet, this girl does not stay here, he met her when he was at her country for vacation (I guess they started the 2nd time when he went there again and i heard his friend that he will be going there again!)
By the way, the girl is an Aries.
Posted by atearth
I have a question for you Scorpio people out there.I have a friend that I was interested in who happened to be in a relationship with a Gemini for six months. As I predicted it ended a week or two ago. Now the Scorpio is in another relationship. Although I not sure who with.
I was speaking to a friend who is a Scorpio, who said that Scorpio like things fast. I don't know, but surely you have to give some space for someone how has just ended a relationship and not pounce on them within minutes of finding out that they are single, right?
6 months isn't a long time..I think the space thing is when you have been with someone over a year or married for a while to get your bearings straight. Also depends how it ends. If it's mutual, no hurt feelings...next. Sounds like he was over the gemini before they split.
Posted by xxnightbynight
facebook drama. - i hate facebook. it ruins lives.
Facebook is a breeder for narcissists. It's a joke. I pick up the phone and still mail letters and note cards and YES..send pictures that I print out. Human touch..that's been lost in technology😢
That really doesn't seem like typical Scorpio behavior- we do not usually move on fast unless we feel like we need someone else to make us happy. Which is very unhealthy. The Scorpio characteristic would most healthily be to steadily take things slow and develop a clearness of mind before starting something new. When relationships are started too quickly after the wake of a previous one- all the left over negative energy can be brought into the new relationship.
this period in a scorpio's romantic sphere is nothing serious, we are probably focused on our own life than trying to start something long-term.......rebound
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I have a question for you Scorpio people out there.
I have a friend that I was interested in who happened to be in a relationship with a Gemini for six months. As I predicted it ended a week or two ago. Now the Scorpio is in another relationship. Although I not sure who with.
I was speaking to a friend who is a Scorpio, who said that Scorpio like things fast. I don't know, but surely you have to give some space for someone how has just ended a relationship and not pounce on them within minutes of finding out that they are single, right?