Should I give up on this Scopio Man.

Long story short (kinda)

Pisces woman here seeing a Scorpio man. We met each other about six months ago and maintained an fwb as neither of us had any expectations. He went away for the summer but we texted almost daily. He always asked how I was, and I was the more indifferent one. Lately things have started to fall apart. I think I have started to grow feelings for him. I get jealous when I care for someone. He is secretive and it pisses me off, when he's on his phone I can feel him noticing me noticing him. I saw the name of a girl on his phone, and wanted to see what she looked like. When I googled her, I found a baby registry with both their names on it.

The due date was a month before we first met. I approached him about it and he was weirded out, distanced himself. I still don't know what it's about. I'm going through somewhat of a depression. I feel myself getting more clingy, and I got mad when he didn't want to hang out because I had a cold. More distance. I break down and ask him if this is going anywhere and he says no although his previous behavior was so boyfriend-ish. I know my mood swings are distancing him. He is a busy man but I know he ignores me now at times. How do I get things back to the way they were? And is it even worth it to try or should I just let him go? I like him but I know I am not ready for a relationship but our chemistry in and out the bedroom is so good that I feel like I can't let this go. Has anyone else gone through something similiar?

Me

sun- pisces / venus - pisces / moon- cancer/ rising- sag

Him

sun-scorpio/ venus-virgo/ moon- taurus/ rising-(maybe pisces)

He has a baby and won't admit to it? That's a huge red flag right there.

A baby also means a baby mama. There is a possibility that they are still in a relationship and he's just a cheater. It's hard to find out the truth if he won't communicate about the situation at all.

I have certainly made many mistakes in relationships so I know that it's easier said than done but I sincerely think that you should cut all ties immediately. It sounds like he wants nothing more than sex and there is a pretty good chance that you are not the only woman that he is sleeping with.

I'm sorry that u feel so bad.. But.. This guy is way too secretive & now he's being an asshole.. Stop contacting him , it will make u feel even worse than u already do

Posted by littlefish333
We met each other about six months ago and maintained an fwb as neither of us had any expectations. He went away for the summer but we texted almost daily. He always asked how I was, and I was the more indifferent one. Lately things have started to fall apart. I think I have started to grow feelings for him. I get jealous when I care for someone. He is secretive and it pisses me off, when he's on his phone I can feel him noticing me noticing him. I saw the name of a girl on his phone, and wanted to see what she looked like. When I googled her, I found a baby registry with both their names on it.

The due date was a month before we first met. I approached him about it and he was weirded out, distanced himself. I still don't know what it's about. I'm going through somewhat of a depression. I feel myself getting more clingy, and I got mad when he didn't want to hang out because I had a cold. More distance. I break down and ask him if this is going anywhere and he says no although his previous behavior was so boyfriend-ish. I know my mood swings are distancing him. He is a busy man but I know he ignores me now at times. How do I get things back to the way they were? And is it even worth it to try or should I just let him go? I like him but I know I am not ready for a relationship but our chemistry in and out the bedroom is so good that I feel like I can't let this go. Has anyone else gone through something similiar?

Me

sun- pisces / venus - pisces / moon- cancer/ rising- sag

Him

sun-scorpio/ venus-virgo/ moon- taurus/ rising-(maybe pisces)

You seem confused with what a fwb entails. You are a fuck buddy, your not in a relationship. Who he texts, where he goes, what he does...your not entitled to this information. And yet you've took it upon yourself to snoop on his life and confront him. This is not part of the fwb contract. You've overstepped and he's distanced himself. He signed up for convenient sex, not to be interrogated.

He has been clear and confirmed along the way that fwb is all it will ever be. Your the one whose caught feels and broken the agreement between you two.

I don't mean to be harsh, but he has been nothing but truthful in his dealings with you. But you have been deceitful in breaking the agreement and wanting more from him, intruding on his personal life and hiding your feelings instead of having an honest conversation with him.

Consider that fwb is not for you. It's enevitable that over extended periods of time spent with someone feelings will develop. Then things get messy and painful and usually end in heartbreak and resent.

Learn from this. Choose to go about things differently in the future. Believe that you deserve the whole package not just crumbs.

^^^ this

You signed up for your vagina to be used for free in a FWB.

You are getting what you wanted. If you no longer want that then you need to end that contract.

You asked him if it's 'going anywhere' and he said no. He's honouring the contract you both signed up for. It won't change.

Your personal situation is becoming worse. He's not helping. You're not helping yourself.

You have a lot of Pisces there which doesn't help you be realistic. Stop playing the victim and take ownership of your life.

YES

Seems there is nothing to stay for