Sick and tired of everyone...

bagging on emotions. And emotional people. And scorpios for being emotional. We have a heart, and a body, and a mind, and a soul. All of these things should be integrated into the person you are. If people didnt have emotions, there would be no love in the world, no passion, no intense wonderful memories of times past. There would be no intensely passionate kissing and people would wander around like robots going "I must think with my head, I must think with my head".
I am a scorpio. I am emotional. Im sick and tired of people bagging on me for caring about things. So maybe we are too intense sometimes, maybe we can cry to often, maybe we do take some things too personally. But come on, we are people, we are humans, if you dont connect personally, then you are not a "person" who has connections. I am proud of who I am. People should feel lucky to be cared about so much. In the end, when you die, you dont think of all the rational decisions you have made in your life or all the chatter bugs you met at a party or the people who just fly in and fly out of your life because they are looking for the next flirty fun adventure. You think about people who absolutely love you to a fault, and you think how you love them, and thank god those people are who they are.

Um, dancing bread, life = light?

And life = dark....

we all suffer in our own way, we all get sick, we all eventually die. Without darkness light would never exist. You cannot go through life in the light or you will be blinded.
You have to accept the dark too.

I have to admit. I am new to this board. I have no idea what cookiemonster means. Please enlighten me!

I've known many people from so-called emotional signs who are very manipulative and selfish, but they tend to not to want to see it


what if you DO see it...is that better or worse?

Does anyone here know if emotional signs use more anti-depressants or anti-anxiety medications? I agree with alot of what is being said. Everyone has their own way of manipulating people. Some people I know are sooooo kind and sooooooo helpful. That is there way of manipulating people. Getting someone under there thumb.

Anyway, I do agree that actions always speak louder than words, but words do hurt. I am not trying to say that I should always be forgiven for acting like an idiot or that i should always be forgiven for hurting someones feelings when I am mean to them. As a matter of fact, I know when I am like that and I feel awful and do apologize for it if and when it ever happens.

However, sometimes I am made to feel like I am crazy because I express these emotions. I am wondering if emotional people are made to feel bad about themselves, which leads to self hate, which leads to being more pent up, which leads to emotional outbursts because being pent up cannot last forever. Its a viscious circle sometimes.

So, question, do emotional people feel like they have to be non emotional. Thereby taking drugs to help alleviate emotions?

that is not true. anti-depressants or anti-anxiety pills do dull emotions. they are not as intense of emotions and you are not as passionate a person. I speak from experience here. I know what it is to be on these medications at one time or another in my life. And I always remember not being able to care about too much when I was on them, the house could burn down and I wouldnt care (dramatizing for sure right there but you get the drift). I remember feelings like I wasnt myself. Like I wasnt being who I am. Like I was mad that people could not just accept me for me.

I am not on them. I dont need them. I am simply asking in general if emotional signs seem to be more prone to taking them.

Ive never run across a Virgo before. But you are very literal arent you Brandon?

Nature or nurture? or both? is that the question at hand now?

Both of course. One will always beget another. You can be a depressive personality from the start and bad experiences will just magnify it. Or you can have a really traumatic bad experience and become depressed.

and then of course you could have both happen to you.

I wish this werent so Brandon. But I dislike you. You are a rude person.

Im not taking it personally. I dont even know him. Im just calling it like I see it.

ummm... i've seen it happen. though im thinking this person also had a personality prone to intense reaction.

Branhs right unless your clinically proven to have a disorder the only thing your doing is setting yourself up for an addiction or worse.In my little brothers case with ADD as a child,they should've avoided putting him on anything cause the side effects of the drug they had him on caused bi-polar disorder st the worse level being homocidal and suicidal tendancies.Plus the drugs put him at risk for schizophrenia(luckily didn't happen though).Those drugs especially if you don't need them only leads to other problems.Hes an aquarius.


The emotional signs aren't any more likely to get disorders than any other sign but yes there are some that do.A cancer I knew killed themselves but my aqua brother almost killed himself also and would've if my mother didn't see him and interfere.