Motivating a scorpio?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by taurusgoddess on Monday, July 24, 2006 and has 10 replies.

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@boyfromutrecht
20 YearsAries

my friend Scorpio is allway's quiet....

i just start talking to him and he till now allway's talked back when i talked about something interesting enough.

just talk and you'll get response..

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Motivating a scorp how??My advice is to play sort of a mind game where you talk about something and the advantages of it around them but don't make any indications that you want them to do it-put ideas in thier head kind of thing,but not always will happen if it doesn't do anything for them personally.Scorps don't like to be told what to do but can be open to asking them for a favor or whatever also....so in otherwords don't command them to do anything but if they know you'd want something they may consider it just cause they may want to do something nice for you😉

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@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

I like your style Tiamat, and I think that's something I could do. My issue is that he moved away and once he's set up, he's flying back & we're driving the 1200 miles to the mountains together. 🙂 (can't wait, can't wait!!!)

But he is taking forever getting setup! And the last thing I want to do is rush it and then have fights once we're there because he's been too unmotivated to make things comfy and unstressed. He's the one who decided to move & convince me to follow, why should I be stressing out here?!!

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@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

Wow, I think my huns getting motivated!!! 🙂

I think the key thing is that scorps don't want to settle with things until they are sure. When they are doing nothing, I see it as laziness, but really it's them taking their down time so they are ready when the best thing comes along. eg. scorp sis waited till now (age 33) to have a serious bf, and they're practically married...my babe passed some jobs to now get one with good pay & full benefits.

Go hard or go home?

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

"Go hard or go home?"

Pretty much yeah,some of it is recharging the energy also.I kinda want to paint ball people in the rear at work cause they're slackers while im not allowed to slack cause I put it on myself by doing that.So unfair when your bosses like you😢