Smitten with a Scorp

Hey,
I need your guys advice! I am TOTALLY smitten with a scorpio sun, aquarius moon. I'm aquarius sun, scorp moon. We have the most intense connection, which we've both mentioned. We speak on the phone a few hours a day, text from when we get up to when we go to sleep. We both rely incredibly on each other and share our inner most worries and concerns etc. She says she doesnt know what it is about me that makes her open up to me but that i totally get her and understand her. Seriously, she is AMAZING. She is hella smart, funny, witty, kind, caring etc etc. I feel like she is too good for me. I am worried about saying anything to her in case it ruins what we do have. She is recently out of a long term relationship and i dont want to put pressure on her. She says that she thinks i'm awesome, and amazing. I think she flirts with me but I'm useless at telling. She texts me just to ask what I'm up to, and when we stopped at a friends the other night (they shared the friends bed, i had the spare room), she text me minutes after going to bed saying "night xx" even though we'd just said goodnight in person. One of our other friends likes her, and had a go at her for spending "too much time" with me. She got really angry at them and told them it was none of their business who she spent time with, and that she couldn't control who she formed a bond with.

This is totally messing my head up! My stomach is constantly flipping. How do I know—! What if we just have a really close friendship.

LoL yep, she likes ya. Typical scorpio behavior. I would not be doing those things with someone I wasn't crushing on, BAD. But don't rush things.. it will ruin it. And SHE'S not going to slow you down. You have to do it. Be the fairy tale gentleman out of the movies.. take her out, romance her, and then DONT move too fast with either 'I love you' or physical. And she'll be yours.

I forgot more detail - obviously there is loads, we've known each other nearly 6 months, but i'm trying to keep very recent. Yesterday, we were both in odd moods - i was feeling very sensitive and she had a black scorp mood on. We clashed in that she was being very cold and i was being over sensitive. I apologised and she was cold
for a bit, then we cleared it up before i went home - she said she'd
Been really unfair, that she was letting her ex's manipulation of situations like that cloud her reaction to me, that she knew i'd got a lot on my plate anf there was no excuse for being a b**ch etc. She said that because we were really close it was easy to lash out at me. We properly made up and i went home. It took me about 2 hours to get home and my phone died on the way. When i got in, i had several texts saying things like, "i'm worried, please dont be upset with me, i'm sorry i was horrible" etc. When i spoke to her she said she had been really worried and frightened that i was really pissed off with her - which isnt in my nature at all. It seemed like i meant more to her than just a friend. I am driving my mates mad with my endless analysis! Haha (i AM an aqua!)

I didnt make it clear, sorry, we're both girls. I can still be a fairytale gentleman though haha

Yeah, we're both gay. My scorpio moon is a right pain but i do love the combo haha

She tells me about other people that find her attractive. I thought it was to make it clear that we're friends, but my best mate says its to make it clear that shes good enough for other people. Shes never like "oh i'm really into soandso", but more "xyz sent me a msg on facebook asking me on a date. I might go" but then never does. I am seeing her tomorrow, what signs should i look out for. I am utterly useless with this stuff hahah!

She hasnt been on a date - just tells me people ask her out. Then, she brushes it off at a later date. My friend says its so i know shes "wantable" and that other people find her attractive and that i should move. We spend so much time together and i love her as a friend, i dont want to ruin that over a misplaced iterpretation. In my gut i know she likes me but i've got to not be proud and stubborn and risk rejection!

Oh sorry didn't mean to assume. Yeah, even after reading this whole thread, my original viewpoint still stands. Go for it girly!

Oh and, the talking about other potential dates thing.. she's getting impatient and trying to make you realize that if you don't do something, she may not be around much longer.