Getting over a scorpio

Well I'm not just trying to get over a scorpio. I'm trying to be ok with being single.
It's hard though because I have a lot in common with this scorpio and felt that instant connection.. But now things are getting complicated and I feel a need to pull away or I could end up in the same situation I was with my ex leo where I wanted to date him, but we never did and all we did was have sex. Just sucks that I feel this terrible anxious feeling at the pit of my stomach...
Sorry, just venting. Right now my bff is going through her own problems so there really is no one to vent this out to :/

Thank you 🙂 I have mad a mental not to just date and exclude sex until I am ready for it. Right now me and a friend are working on being ok with just being single, but ya know if someone who's right for me come along I will welcome it and take it slow. Always nice to have somewhere I can come to tho and get advice or just vent

Oops I meant to say "to just date." The "not" shouldn't be there

i hear what your saying my fellow sag. scorpios are hard people to get over. i have a feeling, scorps who have been with saggis feel the same way that you do.

last wednesday i had it out with my scorp. and it actually helped my moving on process. i noticed i kept getting the same speech with him and i was the only one changing her tune. so i let by gones be by gones.

Well I think I'm going to try one more thing before I throw in the towel. He didn't really do anything, I just really like attention. But if we're wanting two different things it'll have to still to a friends only level. Strange that we're both going through things with scorpios

@happykitsune,

ive just removed myself from the situation. that doesnt mean that he has.

i got tired of waiting with little to no evidence that things were progressing.

@happykitsune you should try your one more thing, I know it's reverse with me being the scorp and him being the sagg but that's what I did I tried one more time and things are working out. I did go three months without any contact with him first but I was going a little crazy during that time and I had to speak to him so luckily faith brought us back together so yeah try one more thing if that doesn't work just still try to be finds. I love to be single I don't know why it's so easy for me I feel care free when I am dingle. No one to answer to so to speak, I can flirt with who ever, do what-ever it's great but then it's those days that you get lonely and you don't want just anybody you want that somebody.

@DMV someties that what you have to do just let it go, me and my sagg are trying but believe me we both have reached that point because we both feel like we are trying our best and we feel like the other is giving nothing, it's always that power struggle for no reason if you ask me.

For instance I spoke to the sagg Fri night it was my granny birthday I got home around 1am I knew he was working night so I call him, he didn't answer but txt why are you up. I told him why at first he didn't believe me then I think he did so he call me after that we talk for a while, the next day I got sick after work I was so weak honestly I couldn't pick up my phone for two days I didn't want to either so I just txt him this morning and he got upset like why haven't I talk to you for a couple of days. I explain to him he is like wat eva, it has been time when has been busy or whateva and has done the same thing but oh if I do it that's a problem so it's a power struggle I will call him later he will be fine but why all the attitude, only cause he think I went out a party all weekend long.............

Posted by DMV
i got tired of waiting with little to no evidence that things were progressing.

AMEN, sister! I got tired of waiting, too. Two weeks pass and the son of a bitch texts me last night, "Thinking of you". I'd like to tell him where to shove that text!

Sounds like a lot of strain between scorpios and sagis :/

I am gonna give this last thing a try and then if I don't get the right results I'll pull myself away from the situation and maybe somehow we'll stay friends. I have no problem with staying friends, but some people aren't mature enough. We'll see if he's one of them

Well why did you break-up? Think about that.

If you're refering to me we have never been in a relationship before.

I clearly told him what I wanted about a month ago tho and he said we'd take it slow. I went into more detail on another post, but anyway, it's been about a month now and still no word of getting together.

girlfriend, its up to you if you want to wait or not. after a whole year with my scorp, no real progression. like the sap that i am, i even marked our anniversary date where i think we made our connection. it wasnt the first time we had sex by the way.

but what can ya do? with my scorp, i feel like its better to have known what we shared than to just ignore it all. its better to have loved than not to have loved at all. 🙂

for a sag/scorp relationship to work. the SCORP has to be ready to progress and look love in the eye, no fear. The SAG has to simmer down and become a tad obedient, not 100% but enough to give the scorp a level of confidence of control.

this can take a long time...

talking about it also helps. so if you need to vent and your friends dont get it...vent to us..

Thanks, that's greatly appreciated.

My last attempt to keep this going is going well so far. I sent him a text saying I'd trade him a back scratch for a neck massage since my neck has been killing me the last couple of days. Dunno what it is. Sleep has been bad too :/
He's working out tonight so chances are he'll be very sore and won't be able to lift his arms lol. He said "we will see how I feel tho" so I guess that keeps me a little hopeful. I need to make this next hang out, whether it be now or later, productive tho...I don't want to scare him off, but I guess if he's really not into a relationship and gets scared off it's for the best I suppose. I'm more so the chicken about asking about these thing tho. I just need a big boost of confidence and some clever way to go into it without making it sound like I'm nagging, because I want this to be something he wants and I want it to be a fun thing to get into. I really like him, is it so wrong that I want to make it official because I don't care about being with anyone else?

Posted by DMV
girlfriend, its up to you if you want to wait or not. after a whole year with my scorp, no real progression. like the sap that i am, i even marked our anniversary date where i think we made our connection. it wasnt the first time we had sex by the way.

A whole year? Hmm, well I guess for me that shouldn't be a surprise because I waited for a leo for about 3 yrs. Then again we had been in a serious relationship prior to the wait.

Idk if I can do it now...the scorpio must have one hell of a hold on you

hes more scared of you than you are of him.

whats his moon sign again?

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by DMV
girlfriend, its up to you if you want to wait or not. after a whole year with my scorp, no real progression. like the sap that i am, i even marked our anniversary date where i think we made our connection. it wasnt the first time we had sex by the way.

A whole year? Hmm, well I guess for me that shouldn't be a surprise because I waited for a leo for about 3 yrs. Then again we had been in a serious relationship prior to the wait.

Idk if I can do it now...the scorpio must have one hell of a hold on you

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i love him. it wasnt a difficult decision. loving him isnt easy, butat the time he was worth it to me.

He has a moon in cancer. How does knowing that help me tho?

Posted by DMV
i love him. it wasnt a difficult decision. loving him isnt easy, butat the time he was worth it to me.

Ah, that makes more sense. I love my leo too, but obviously it didn't work out. It made the 3 yrs seem worth it tho. Guess I should take something out of it and realize no matter how long you wait if they don't make a move soon it probably isn't going to happen. At least I've never heard of any stories where it did happen

ok for a cancer moon, you have to provide and atmosphere of nuturing! be affectionate and loving. no fear!

his cancer moon is how he is in his emotions. so to get to those emotions, treat him like a cancer.

LOVE, FOOD, NURTURE, SEX, AFFECTION

oh and cancer people are drawn to the chest. so closeness from your chest to his, is good. cancer men are about BOOBS!

Sounds like I'll need to give him a hug when I see him next then. I don't really give him hugs, dunno why :/ But I'm gonna give it a try and also be more nurturing. Thanks! 😄

Why do you wanna be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Or why can you get over someone you never were in a relationship, like did you even get close?

Posted by Sagittarius89
Why do you wanna be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Or why can you get over someone you never were in a relationship, like did you even get close?

Never said he doesn't want to be with me. It's weird. He wants to be around me yet he doesn't tell me how he's feeling.
I'd be getting over him because I really like him and I feel close to him now. Not just in the love sense, but as a friend as well.

Posted by Sagittarius89
Why do you wanna be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? Or why can you get over someone you never were in a relationship, like did you even get close?

i know it sounds crazy and all..like just get over it already.

but it is infact a hard pill to swallow.

i always thought time heals all wounds, but not with a scorpio who you loved.

So the plan is on hold right now. Apparently he was too tired from working out to hang so I'm going to send him a text today asking how he's feeling and suggest something for his sore muscles, maybe bring some tigerbalm to him. That should show how nuturing I can be

excellent idea!

offer to even bring him over a home cooked dish!

saggis catch on so quick!

I wish :/ I live in the dorms so cooking isn't an option. I mean if he gives me the option of using his kitchen sure I'll go for it

I'm not saying that.

It's grievous trying to get over someone. I've been dating a scorp for 2 years and we live together. It's gonna kill me to let go.

I'm just saying things can really be mind over matter if you let them.

Or if you do a emotional transference and put it on to someone else it sort of solves the problem. Not that it's healthy at all but I've done it when I couldn't logically figure it out.

And I'm not even saying this has anything to do with your situation, I'm just saying in general with getting over someone.

But these lasts post seem to say it isn't over between to you two.

aww and the venus in capricorn....goes back and forth on its feelings all the time....again this is a long and painstaking process. lol

Posted by Sagittarius89
I'm not saying that.

It's grievous trying to get over someone. I've been dating a scorp for 2 years and we live together. It's gonna kill me to let go.

I'm just saying things can really be mind over matter if you let them.

Or if you do a emotional transference and put it on to someone else it sort of solves the problem. Not that it's healthy at all but I've done it when I couldn't logically figure it out.

And I'm not even saying this has anything to do with your situation, I'm just saying in general with getting over someone.

But these lasts post seem to say it isn't over between to you two.

ts our scorpio moon. me and happykitsune have scorpio moons. hard to let go. this could go on for years!

as scorpios tend to never get over their exes...scorpios moons have those same fixed emotions.

What is your moon sign in?

Oh I see. Mines in Leo lol

Is it really like that for you guys? My bf has a scorp moon

holy shit. hes a scorpio sun and a scorpio moon? whats his venus, mars, mercury?

Posted by Sagittarius89
Is it really like that for you guys? My bf has a scorp moon

you guys dont have issues with control and communication?

Yea we do alot.

Yes sun and moon. Why? I don't know about the others

Yes sun and moon. Why? I don't know about the others

i was just curious to where his venus is at...sun scorpio/moon scorpio usually has other major scorp placements.

So that's why it takes years to get over an ex :/ The only reason I got over my first is because I found someone else and projected my feelings onto him...it ended up killing the relationship down the road tho when I still had issues with trust. Definitely not a healthy way to go about it like you said Sagi89. That's why I took the time to get over my ex leo (granted he's moved on to another serious relationship so that made it easier) but this makes it better for me so I'm not clinging to the guy and looking for him for constant support. Feels good to be self-sufficent, but stinks when you're lonely and just want someone to cuddle with and be told how amazing you are.

So heres a question. I gave him the suggestion to use tiger balm for his sore muscles but really only got an "Oh I see" after I explained it. Soooo, should I even attempt to say anything further? Somehow I feel like it'd be in my favor not to say anything..

He didn't know what tiger balm was... I'm the girl, shouldn't I be the one clueless about it? /facepalm

Yeah I left it at that. I had other plans so no use in wasting my time worrying if I'd get a proper response back or not.

@king of libra: what are you refering to? You sayin' I'm not sweet, cuddly, and sexy? >:O

Oooh gotcha. You must get the mean bitchy ones. I only know one sag and shes a whore...other than that they are pretty elusive here as well :/

Beats me. Probably in Texas...just a guess tho

I do like to travel. I especially like the trips that are planned last minute so people wonder where I went 😆

I like to hang out where I'm comfortable tho. Usually at home. Probably my moon in scorpio. Anywhere open I feel exposed x.x

And it's /facepalm. Gah, don't you play WoW?! 😛

@kingoflibra,

if your looking for a saggi...stand on the street, the person walking fast, humming, or singing/talking to herself is usually the saggie lol

Are you an october or september libra?

@happykitsune,

hes being a jerkface. let him be a jerkface by himself with himself. sometimes when these scorpios ge tin bad moods, they wanna take everyone down with them!

Posted by happykitsune
I do like to travel. I especially like the trips that are planned last minute so people wonder where I went 😆

I like to hang out where I'm comfortable tho. Usually at home. Probably my moon in scorpio. Anywhere open I feel exposed x.x

And it's /facepalm. Gah, don't you play WoW?! 😛

i also enjoy last minute excursions....more exciting

You really think my Scorpio was in a bad mood? And didn't really think of it that way..hmm..