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Scorpios in sex? Less Verbal?
Do Scorpio males tend to be less verbal in sex
Many Scorpio men prefer slower, more intimate sexual experiences with soft touching and minimal verbal communication. They often focus on emotional depth rather than loudness or rough handling. Variations exist, but this tends to be a typical trait among Scorpio males who value connection over noise.
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naw...mine was calm like that 2...he wasnt quiet, but more into subtle remarks here and there. he would talk when i was giving a professional or he was staring into my face while i was cuming, or to comment on my body when i rode him...he liked the view from below..
What's his Moon, Venus and Mars sign?
Posted by FlorasSecret
What's his Moon, Venus and Mars sign?
Not sure on his moon. You need his birth time to find out that right?
His venus is cap, mars is scorpio. Same as mine
Posted by DMV
naw...mine was calm like that 2...he wasnt quiet, but more into subtle remarks here and there. he would talk when i was giving a professional or he was staring into my face while i was cuming, or to comment on my body when i rode him...he liked the view from below..
Yeah...Idk it thats weird, but sometimes we'd talk will I was on top. More of just teasing...but still...idk
Glad I'm not the only one who has a calm scorpio
naw, you dont need his birth time for the moon sign...
Posted by ellessque
you both have mars in scorp?both of you are being reserved, not sure how far you can go with the other. remember, scorp in mars has no boundaries...but we may have had past partners who were not used to that and got burned or judged.
give it time and enjoy every fricken moment. two scorp in mars? GOOD STUFF.
and theyre both venus in caps....which is lucky because that placement takes love seriously...
*my scorp is a gemini moon and mars in leo...he almost always cant shut up.
and hes very good with words.
Posted by DMV
naw, you dont need his birth time for the moon sign...
What do you need for a moon? I could have sworn it was time of birth o.o
naw, time of birth is for the rising sign, house placements, aspects
http://www.0800-horoscope.com/birthchart.php
the date and place is really all you need for most of the placements...particualry moon and sun..
well no, for his rising sign to be accurate,...you do need his birth time.
whats his moon?
I love verbal sex.
my pisces had verbal sex. he was very much into talking.
which makes sense. mutable signs love to communicate.
lol That's a unique explanation for it.
Man oh man do we take astrology far on this site! 😛
Seriously though, quiet sex is kinda boring...unless its really intense and good and the heavy breathing is all you hear...but for the most, I like the nasty,dirty,dontyoudareeverrepeatwhatwassaidhere kinda sex 🙂
Ah no I didn't mean to post that. Sry I am reeeeeaaaalllly tired. I'll look up his moon later
I hate verbal sex. It's so theatrical *says the leo* I don't mind if the girl is loud, in fact it is encouraged.... but I'm the quiet type. I guess I'm more of a director Leo than actor Leo.
Anyway, sex is communication in itself if you do it right 😉
His moon is in cancer. Does that mean he's super moody? o.o
So let me get this right.
Doesn't know how to lick a girl out
Doesn't last long
Needs this aggrandizing
What's the star sign again ?click to expand
Actually my leo was very good at foreplay if you count eating a girl out. My scorp hasn't even done that yet. We just went right to sex. And the leo lasted longer than any guy I've been with. A few hrs is nice, but it got kinda boring after the first 2 hrs. I'm just glad it was more of a romantic session.
This scorp has a totally different way of having sex. He starts out doing the most sensual stuff like trailing his fingers on my stomach and slowly works his way from there to more intense foreplay then eventually sex like 30 mins later xD This is all after he's annoyed the heck outta me, then somehow gets me to come back and cuddles me. It's a weird and long process, but it keeps things interesting
Posted by ellessque
lol...pretty much.no wonder you didn't get a peep out of him.
o.O But he doesnt act emotional hardly ever. He does complain a lot, which seems rather cancerish
j/k 😛
Posted by pigeonpie
"Is this the general scorpio male's way of sex making or did I just get a calm one?"
Depends on the mood.
Plus I think dudes can be a little wary of straight up pummeling a chick (with all the hair pulling and similar) when it's early stages sometimes.
This isn't really that early in the game. We've been having sex since November....Oops maybe I shouldn't have told him to ram it into me 😛
So let me get this right.
Doesn't know how to lick a girl out
Doesn't last long
Needs this aggrandizing
What's the star sign again ?Actually my leo was very good at foreplay if you count eating a girl out. My scorp hasn't even done that yet. We just went right to sex. And the leo lasted longer than any guy I've been with. A few hrs is nice, but it got kinda boring after the first 2 hrs. I'm just glad it was more of a romantic session.
This scorp has a totally different way of having sex. He starts out doing the most sensual stuff like trailing his fingers on my stomach and slowly works his way from there to more intense foreplay then eventually sex like 30 mins later xD This is all after he's annoyed the heck outta me, then somehow gets me to come back and cuddles me. It's a weird and long process, but it keeps things interestingclick to expand
same here...my scorp was pretty whomp whomp...
it wasnt as nasty as i would hoped it would have been. he held back ALOT. foreplay consisted of power trips and mind games. sex consisted of me going down and me on top, and or me on the bottom.
Posted by ellessque
I was kidding....but get used to the whining. my brother is taurus/cancer moon. constant whining, to the point i just want to slap him. 😛
Yea, I guess I'll have to get used to it. I'm always teasing him about it, but I don't care really. I'd rather he whined if it meant he revealed more info about himself
i think there is a stalemate in your relationship with the scorp.
either hes really freakin in love and scared to death of you
OR
something that your doing is preventing him from unleashing the beast
Posted by DMV
i think there is a stalemate in your relationship with the scorp.either hes really freakin in love and scared to death of you
OR
something that your doing is preventing him from unleashing the beast
*sigh* well that is troublesome. Idk what could be preventing that...Guess I should talk to him. I've been actually talking to him in a more emotional sense lately. I tried it out last night and he took well to it. I'm just so used to deal with a leo who was so closed off to emotion after we broke up that it makes me feel like no guy really cares about my emotions. He really helped me feel at ease with expressing how I feel tho so I think I'm gonna continue to open up more
Posted by ellessque
you are dealing with a scorpio/cancer mix.he IS going to inherently hold back.
he's got the mystery of the scorpio and the evasiveness of the cancer.
you just have to be patient.
this guy is a leo's complete opposite.
plus, he's intuitive as all hell, stop comparing him because he WILL sense it.
i agree with you. he will reveal all in due time. just pay attention to what eh says and start writing it down so you can put the clues together and go Ah HA!
this helped me alot. theres always a recurring theme of what the problem is.
my money is on the fact that he admires you.
Posted by ellessque
no, we aren't turned off by showing of emotion. but we CAN sense when someone is holding back and we get quite perturbed with the situation and will retreat if they do it too much...and with the added cancer moon *shudders*put yourself out there, chicca. tell the guy what you are feeling.
be fearless!
scorpios are turned on by stronge displays of emotions handled with confidence. and the of course, geniuneness (sp?)
have his eyes gone "glassy" on you? while you talk to him about something deep or while hes opening up to you?
Posted by 25thDecan
Well one scorp I slept with...she got more vocal the dirtier and more debauched the sex became....because it was what she wanted. She wanted me to treat her like a whore....even with mild choking...
mild choking...good stuff
think about it like this.
you have the ultimate power to hurt him. so he is scared of you.
Posted by 25thDecan
Well one scorp I slept with...she got more vocal the dirtier and more debauched the sex became....because it was what she wanted. She wanted me to treat her like a whore....even with mild choking...stop spilling our secrets. you'll ruin the mysteriousness. 😛
click to expand
hahaha
What about the emotion of anger? He tends to annoy me a lot, purposely. And the only time I'll get a nice reaction out of him (like he feels bad and wants to comfort me) if I get in serious mode and tell him in a strict voice to stop it or if I look away with a sad face and sigh
Capricorn
Posted by happykitsune
What about the emotion of anger? He tends to annoy me a lot, purposely. And the only time I'll get a nice reaction out of him (like he feels bad and wants to comfort me) if I get in serious mode and tell him in a strict voice to stop it or if I look away with a sad face and sigh
ANY emotion!
good bad or indifferent. they want and NEED to see all of that from you. Love to a scorpio is good, bad, and indifferent.
scorpio men require tough love. give love to get love.
you can tell him off, but in a loving way. so that he understands exactly what your saying.
for example, "i fucking love you but you are a fucking dick and a jerkoff!" or "why do you always have to be an asshole to me when all i want to do see your face and smile!"
i strongly believe that in order for a scorpio to hurt you, they stil have to give a crap about you.
its when there is NOTHING. no movement, no response, no nothing. that is when your time has ended. he will seclude himself just to get away from you. rebirth.
Posted by ellessque
we like to annoy purposely. it's a turn on. i admit it. 😛we do things to get a reaction.
lol....
Posted by 69virgo
Get up against the wall....spread um....hands behind ya back...rip rip rip.....look at me..o_0....who's is it...poke it out for me so i can take it..damn its good..shit its wet...😛
please sir, can i have some more
*oliver twist voice*
Posted by DMV
you can tell him off, but in a loving way. so that he understands exactly what your saying.for example, "i fucking love you but you are a fucking dick and a jerkoff!" or "why do you always have to be an asshole to me when all i want to do see your face and smile!"
Hmm ok gotcha. I'll try it 🙂
This board got a lil too crazy lol
thank you 69virgo...thank you
Posted by ellessque
we like to annoy purposely. it's a turn on. i admit it. 😛we do things to get a reaction.
YES. ^.^
Damn this thread is a turn on lol. Mmm..
Just a lil' bit. *fanning self*
^^ Damn o.o
Well I thought simply telling him to be rough would work...no go. So last night I tried this thing where the more intense and rough it got or I wanted it the tighter I'd grip onto his hand, arms or back. So everything I'm getting here is I need to show more emotion..gotcha
Thanks! All of you guys have been a big help 🙂
Yeah no kidding. Dammit I need sex now. I don't care if my back is sore >.
"Hi, VB! Why do us earth signs get the prude definition? Is it our consistency?
Oh and VB.....I fancy a fantasy of smooth paleness in a skimpy red thong....like a matador's erotic cape....to be taken from the bullette from behind...like torture...slowly..."
Hello 25th!
I never have figured out the prude stigma. As an Earth, I know better. So do you. Perhaps it's the bit of buttoned up proper, the librarian in the tweed suit with silken curls falling around her face and the small smile on her face. They always say it's the quiet ones you should watch out for. Comprenez-vous? The gentleman in the buttoned up shirt and the banked fire swirling in his eyes.
As to the other..well...*raking nails up stomach*...ya ready Virgo?
Mmmmmhmmm. 🙂
I'm slowly learning to show my emotions and react more. I have a past with a leo who sorta messed me up in the way of using my emotions so I'm slowing getting to a good level of emotional sharing. Hard for me to show I'm upset about things because I don't like to seem uncalm and vulnerable. But apparently scorpios like to expose people and thrive on these emotions o:
Understood. But at this point the two of you must care for each other the way you are sharing this physical intimacy. Don't give up. Keep your pace. Maybe even communicate what it is and how you want to open up more....
That's a good idea. We talked a little bit the other night and I opened up more than usual, but kinda backed away before I really got to the heart of the matter. I told him I don't like to be vulnerable tho, which was hard for me to say. He didn't understand why, and I guess it was his way of telling me it's ok to be vulnerable with him
Wait.. what? People TALK during sex?? *three heads look*
This is my type of thread.
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Alright, so switching from having sex with a leo to a scorpio has probably been one of the most drastic changes in sex personalities.
I'm used to hearing a lot of noise coming from the guy, rough handling, very little foreplay, fast, and then I had to flatter the leo right after sex or he'd wonder if he did something wrong.
With this scorpio I'm the loudest one, that is if I even hear anything out of him and sometimes I just get the urge to say naughty things during and I'm used to responses, but nothing out of him. He hates any form of flattery after sex, foreplay is probably the longest I'm used to, slower movements, soft touching. I mean I guess I don't mind it, but it's kinda hard to get used to it.
Is this the general scorpio male's way of sex making or did I just get a calm one?