Some people just need to learn.

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Nothing to harm him of course, He is a really sweet guy. I just need some good mind games. I haven't play these games in a while so I'm rusty on that topic. What he did was chased me and chased me, however my guard was never let down cus us scorp don't do that. But I have read how they like to disappear on people. So my thing is this he has never disappeared on a Scorp woman before. But he gone find out what it's like. I don't mess with people, I stay in my own zone. Until you bring it out so now its out.
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As a Scorpio rising Libra Sun.... I used to be excellent at mind games. And can spot one a mile off. My advise to you is to stop right now. If you need to play games with people to win them over, the relationship is seriously flawed. It will never work. You mentioned he chased you and you didn't give in. Now that he has moved on you have lost the "game". This is the only reason you want him. Not because he is a nice guy... you want him to play your chasing game with you again. He got bored... found someone who is not playing games with him and moved on. You should do the same. A libra will only move on (dissappear if they know the relationship will never work)
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EvatheDiva Piscean
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Posted by Fiji
How to play this game of relationship. I met a Libra Man, and he is in and out. But leaving him and playing tit for tat is just too easy for me. A Scorp revenge is never good. But this is what it as came too. So I need some good playing the field games.
Drop him! I broke up w/my boyfriend (LIBRA) of (drum roll, please) two weeks! NEVER again w/a Libra!!! 😡

Every time I hear the song on the radio ("Another one bites the dust" I sing this one out loud in my SUV)

I am going on my second date with a nice Cappy man. Men are falling from the sky for me (or from POF....my fishing rod is HOT). 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by Sagsagsags
@EvatheDiva hey what's up baby? I thought everything was going well?
Hi. Me too! Both of us riding off in the sunset. He went back to his fiancée (he lied, told me it was his girlfriend). Well, the smart Piscean I am, I went to Spokeo and the dude was married three times!! Again, typical Libra (Liar and "indecisive") he told me he was married twice. I texted him before BLOCKING him on FB & my cell, "You lied to me, you were married three times: 02 September 1983, 10 June 1992, and 12 December 1994". BLOCK!

Sigh!! "Another one bites the dust!". Again, it's true. I have been on two dates (once last week and again tomorrow) with a nice Cappy man. My mom is Cappy; so it's not hard to me to determine "Hmmm, what's up w/this Cappy man?". He's a hardworking man (NEVER been married; we talked about this), and he called me, "Bonita" just last night. We went on ride on his bike last Saturday and we went to a Mexican restaurant of which he had always wanted to go to. Tomorrow, we plan on going to an Italian chique restaurant....oooo la la!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Thanks for asking Hon. Makes me feel "empathized/sympathized".
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Posted by Sagsagsags
@EvatheDiva hey what's up baby? I thought everything was going well?
Hi. Me too! Both of us riding off in the sunset. He went back to his fiancée (he lied, told me it was his girlfriend). Well, the smart Piscean I am, I went to Spokeo and the dude was married three times!! Again, typical Libra (Liar and "indecisive") he told me he was married twice. I texted him before BLOCKING him on FB & my cell, "You lied to me, you were married three times: 02 September 1983, 10 June 1992, and 12 December 1994". BLOCK!

Sigh!! "Another one bites the dust!". Again, it's true. I have will/be on two dates (once last week and again tomorrow) with a nice Cappy man. My mom is Cappy; so it's not hard for me to determine "Hmmm, what's up w/this Cappy man?". He's a hardworking man (NEVER been married; we talked about this), and he called me, "Bonita" just last night. We went on ride on his bike last Saturday and we went to a Mexican restaurant of which he had always wanted to go to. Tomorrow, we plan on going to an Italian chique restaurant....oooo la la!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Thanks for asking Hon. Makes me feel "empathized/sympathized".
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Posted by Sagsagsags
@EvatheDiva hey what's up baby? I thought everything was going well?
Hi. Me too! Both of us riding off in the sunset. He went back to his fiancée (he lied, told me it was his girlfriend). Well, the smart Piscean I am, I went to Spokeo and the dude was married three times!! Again, typical Libra (Liar and "indecisive") he told me he was married twice. I texted him before BLOCKING him on FB & my cell, "You lied to me, you were married three times: 02 September 1983, 10 June 1992, and 12 December 1994". BLOCK!

Sigh!! "Another one bites the dust!". Again, it's true. I have will/be on two dates (once last week and again tomorrow) with a nice Cappy man. My mom is Cappy; so it's not hard for me to determine "Hmmm, what's up w/this Cappy man?". He's a hardworking man (NEVER been married; we talked about this), and he called me, "Bonita" just last night. We went on a ride on his bike last Saturday then had dinner at a Mexican restaurant of which he had always wanted to go to. Tomorrow, we plan on going to an Italian chique restaurant....oooo la la!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Thanks for asking Hon. Makes me feel "empathized/sympathized".

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How to play this game of relationship. I met a Libra Man, and he is in and out. But leaving him and playing tit for tat is just too easy for me. A Scorp revenge is never good. But this is what it as came too. So I need some good playing the field games.




Been there, done that. Libra indecision is like a roadblock; you don't try to push through it with no telling what's on the other side that created the barrier in the first place, you just take a different road. Choose a different path/choose a different person/choose a different experience. Plain and simple.

Libras are like butterflies; pretty to look at, damn near impossible to catch, and they fly away as fast as they can when you chase them. So instead of fixating on the damn near impossible catch, go enjoy your time doing something else. Do not overwhelm and stress yourself with the pure fuqery of an indecisive Libra mind. Move forward with your life and your mind while they stay paused, stuck, confused, and immobile with theirs. It's the only way you can win and gain a true sense of accomplishment with the situation.



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Oh I LOVE this example!! Can you add "creepy" red eyes, oily butterfly wings, bad breath, and a FAT butterfly image? Too late! Already in my head! 😆

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Posted by Fiji
How to play this game of relationship. I met a Libra Man, and he is in and out. But leaving him and playing tit for tat is just too easy for me. A Scorp revenge is never good. But this is what it as came too. So I need some good playing the field games.




Been there, done that. Libra indecision is like a roadblock; you don't try to push through it with no telling what's on the other side that created the barrier in the first place, you just take a different road. Choose a different path/choose a different person/choose a different experience. Plain and simple.

Libras are like butterflies; pretty to look at, damn near impossible to catch, and they fly away as fast as they can when you chase them. So instead of fixating on the damn near impossible catch, go enjoy your time doing something else. Do not overwhelm and stress yourself with the pure fuqery of an indecisive Libra mind. Move forward with your life and your mind while they stay paused, stuck, confused, and immobile with theirs. It's the only way you can win and gain a true sense of accomplishment with the situation.



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Oh I LOVE this description!! Can you add "creepy" red eyes, oily butterfly wings, bad breath, and a FAT butterfly image? Too late! Already in my head! 😆

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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An eye for an eye makes the world go blind. Its easy to want to hurt other people when you're hurt but its not necessary. Im a scorpio rising and i understand it sucks that you might feel abandoned(?) and want him to come back chasing. But mind games dont work on libras. They do it well too. Ive dated one before, it never ends.
But they aren't in a relationship a friendship gone sour. And she wants to make sure he doesn't do whatever he did to her to anyone else. Must of been a douche.
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Fiji
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yea he is a trip at times, but not in the way that is o my god I'm going to go cry. Dam we are friends for the record. I will not let him get too close to me in that way. So once again we are not in a relationship. I have access to his place. Did I ask for that, no? It was granted to me for some reason. I'm not trying to marry the man nor do I want him to marry me. All I wanted was some games. If Libras are good at playing games good that means I have a challenge.
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wait... WHAT—!! Was he engaged when he was with you and he didnt tell you, or he went back to his fiancee after he was with you? Last time I remember you told me you were going camping and planning to have sex? Did you do it?

Goddamn.. that is so wrong in so many ways! You dodged a bullet right there hun, lucky you! you should be thankful, now I feel bad for his fiancee, poor soul ?

Yeah, Cappy seems to be a better option. Hope this one is the right one for you. My cappy bff never cheats, stray and always put efforts into her relationship. One of my bff is also married to a Cap, he's a good husband!..

And now here comes the final verdict... LOL ? Are you going to take back what you said about libra man is way better than a sag man? LMAO ? kidding ??


LOL! NO! They are both D*iCKs 😆

Thanks! Of course we had sex! If you can call that! Remember, I said I would leave a man if he had a little D*iCK..he did! Guess his FIANCE was on his mind. All he ever talked about! We'd pass by a church and he'd say, "Look! that's the church she attends". "She just called me" (when he'd sit beside me). "She wants me to come over since she gave me the wrong camping equipment". "She told me she will make your life miserable, Eva" "Watch out for her in FB, she will try to contact you". EVERYTHING was treetrunking SHE, SHE, SHE! Well, now he can shove her up his arse!!!! (ass). Eva calming down now.

Yeah, this Cappy is such a gentleman! No hanky panky as that's what I've read about the so far. When we met at Starbucks he was drinking his java and looking at me on the side of the coffee cup while he was bringing said cup to his mouth. He looked so attentive, cute, and well, cute!! I keep LOL to myself each and every time he would drink his java.

Yeah, he was ENGAGED to her for five years! Makes sense because if he lied to me as being married only "twice" that's the reason for their breakup/fights. She wants to marry and he doesn't want notch #4 on his belt. He said she threw him the engagement ring back at him, met me a month ago (get this! she even got him arrested and he VOWED never to go back to her....typical LIBRA!! I-N-D-E-C-I-S-I-V-E!!

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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@EvatheDiva

wait... WHAT—!! Was he engaged when he was with you and he didnt tell you, or he went back to his fiancee after he was with you? Last time I remember you told me you were going camping and planning to have sex? Did you do it?

Goddamn.. that is so wrong in so many ways! You dodged a bullet right there hun, lucky you! you should be thankful, now I feel bad for his fiancee, poor soul ?

Yeah, Cappy seems to be a better option. Hope this one is the right one for you. My cappy bff never cheats, stray and always put efforts into her relationship. One of my bff is also married to a Cap, he's a good husband!..

And now here comes the final verdict... LOL ? Are you going to take back what you said about libra man is way better than a sag man? LMAO ? kidding ??


DANG DXPNET! I have to type this again!! WAHHHHHHHHhhhhhhhhhhhhh 😡

Yeah, he was engaged (five years). She threw the engagement ring at him a month ago, she had him arrested, he vowed never to take her back, blah, blah, blah, moved in with Justin, his friend. Met me, told me he WASN'T on the rebound, blah, blah, blah, yadda, yadda, (LIAR!). I went (smart Piscean) to Spokeo and found out he was married three (3) times! I called him out on this and then blocked him on FB and my cell. Each and everything that came outta his mouth included "She". We'd pass by a church and he'd say, "That's the church she attends", "She wants to see me because she gave me the wrong camping tent". I told him, "we can use mine". Of course we went on a romantic trip and yet, he couldn't RISE TO THE OCASSION....now I know why! He had "She" on his mind. Again, when I hear the song, "Another one bites the dust" I sing that outloud. Now I understand why they fought so much. If he lied to me about being married three times (he married in 1983, 1994, and 1996) he's lying to her too. I wouldn't feel sorry for her! She's Libra too! So that's what I think. She wants to marry and he won't. Spokeo doesn't show his divorce decrees; chances are he's a bigamist.

He's in the same catergory as the Saggy ex-boyfriend! 😎

This Cappy man is different. We'll see how this one goes. Thanks for your gracious "understanding" as most Saggies are/should be. Have a nice weekend! 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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An eye for an eye makes the world go blind. Its easy to want to hurt other people when you're hurt but its not necessary. Im a scorpio rising and i understand it sucks that you might feel abandoned(?) and want him to come back chasing. But mind games dont work on libras. They do it well too. Ive dated one before, it never ends.
But they aren't in a relationship a friendship gone sour. And she wants to make sure he doesn't do whatever he did to her to anyone else. Must of been a douche.
There is no stopping a douche's douching. The only one who can stop a douching doucher is the doucher himself and that usually requires a smack in the face that only karma can deliver which unfortunately, does not operate on our time. Sadly, we can't just give karma a swift kick in the azz and tell her to hurry her azz up.

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You are a lover not the fighter type too eh?
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LMAO ? Your message went thru, love,both of them ?

Yeah a guy who keeps telling story about his ex all the goddamn time should be marked as "emotionally unavailable". It's a red flag.. red flag everywhere!!! ? I wonder if his fiancee knows he was messing with you though.. poor soul, love could be so blinding sometimes.. no, Libra girl could be so naive sometimes when love hit them hard, i hv 4 Libra bffs. When in love, they need to be slapped soooo many times until they wake up to see the truth and it still wont work!

Who the hell is spokeo though? amber khan? was she also the one who told you the exact date of his marriage? Goddamn that girl is legit!

Goodluck with a Cappy, hope this is the right one for you love! Dating and short lived relationships are exhausting and mentally draining, I don't feel like I'd have the energy to pick up the pieces again for 1 more failed relationship LOL ?

Of course Sags are understanding. You were just messing with a defect product of our sign LMAO ??



1. Spokeo is an online site where you pay $ 1.00 for the first month. You type their full name, if you know their date of birth, etc. It gives you info if they are sexual predators, how many times they were married, names of family members, old home/cell addresses/numbers, etc. I use this as I am Piscean (AKA Nancy Drew)

2. Well, as Piscean I slap men w/my wet fish tail. In my eyes, they don't exist anymore. He went from fillet minion to CHOPPED liver. Just like they say, "Best way to get over someone is to get "under" them". As Pisceans we love the attention; and this Cappy man is doing that to me. 😆

3. Saggies are not the type to say, "I told you so". Ya'll are cool! 😏

4. Yeah, his fiancée knew about me. He sent her a pic of me and she was in awwwwwww. "How could he find this one so fast?!" (her speaking to her pathetic self). I think he was using me to get back to her. It worked. Se la Vie. Yep, I know about your bffs and how "dense" they can be (again indecisive; the scales pivoting up/down).

5. Thanks again for your well wishes. I will certainly keep you posted.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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EvatheDiva Piscean
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Lol, you're adorable. Justa cyber-huggin everybody! Libras are the epitome of butterflies. I try not to stereotype and prejudge zodiac signs, but I never take them seriously. Amazing friends and family members but based on a general consensus I've gathered over the years; as lovers, they'll be gone like the wind. -_- One day, everything is all fine (or seems to be), the next day, they vanished so well Houdini would be proud. They tend to suck at just simply openly communicating with honesty like the assertive dialogue makes them anxious so they just avoid it...I get that some people are like a deer in headlights during confrontation, but that ish is just tacky and cowardly. Pass.



Thanks, Hon. NEVER AGAIN w/a Libra! 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I like the comment, "Deer in headlights" yep! 😡