Stalking Scorpio

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Im on a reputable dating site, and just having finished with a short term passionate scorpio, I find I have another scorp man on my tail. An obsessed stalking whacko.Late 40's, father of 2 kids whom he raises alone. before her went stalker on me, we chatted and he told me this:

-Was in love with a woman, who loved him back, but could not trust her. She was trustworthy and he admitted it was HIM who was obsessed with not being able to trust her so he broke it off and broke her heart.

- a year later he realizes he was wrong, it was his problem, and tried to connect with her, but she had just married someone.He was broken hearted, but isnt this kinda typical scopr behavior when he fear? Disappear, seek self introspection, revitalize, rebirth and return?

- Now he is doing online dating, seeking his mate, and found me. Within the first 30 ins of our first chat, he is fawning all over me with compliments, saying I am the woman for him, that he is enchanted by me..I was surprised at all the affection because the other scorps ive known are withdrawn and do not show much verbal affection early on.

- During second conversation, he is saying he wants to be beside me, has made plans for our meeting (lives 3000 miles away) and feels I am meant to be his. He is over his fear of mistrusting people. By this point, i really have no interest in him other than friendly chat. I try to tell him that but he seems to think he can convince me otherwise.

-Finally, he is complimenting my online pics, when he says one of the pics is so sexy that "it makes me hard". LOL..yup..thats when I determined he needs to go bye bye and I close contact. I block him on the site, but earlier I had given my email to him, and he proceeds to email me 4 emails within 24 hours, protesting his attraction for me, apologizing (after initially blaming ME for his nasty comment). He went so far as to google my email and found my online blog and was reading it daily.(tracking service tells me and i saw his city listed as a new visitor).

I am interested in knowing if this is common of scorpio men, it doesnt seem to be. The difference with this scorp and the other one is I was not into this guy in the slightest and wonder if he picked up on that and found me more of a challenge? Or is he just a kook?

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LadyLeo
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Posted by ellessque
Ladyleo,

i would suggest you look at his whole chart. i would say it is safe to say he may have scorpio in venus.

with my new journey you bet i will try to find a birthdate as soon as possible so i can get a quick evaluation. they want pics? then I want a birthdate/birthplace buddy!!! LOL

just because he has a scorpio sun all the generalizations are not typically true. it really is the make up of the entire chart that can give you a bit of insight. you also have to take in account his environment, upbringing, etc.

good luck! 🙂 i'm pursuing the same and i just loved the story you shared on my thread.

best thing now is to delete him....there are plenty more 🙂



Thanks Elle,

I do not have contact with this guy at all so wont be asking his b day, Was just so curious at his behavior.

have a good night.

and hey Dapper Dan...thanks for hijacking my thread with your escort crap. nice 😉
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LadyLeo
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Posted by WynterBourne
Posted by LadyLeo

-Finally, he is complimenting my online pics, when he says one of the pics is so sexy that "it makes me hard".



If you're posting sleezy pictures of yourself on a "reputable dating site", then you shouldn't be surprised that "obsessed stalking whackos" are the ones that are contacting you.





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Yeah, Im posting real sleazy pics of myself...oh, except, the dating site censors all photos, so f-c=-k off, pal. I said it was a reputable site.
I bet you also blame rape victims,too?

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Before I met the first scoprio onthe dating site, I was hardly into astrology at all. I knew about my sign, and believed about 80% of the Leo traits to be true to me. I knew a little about the men I have been with it, and again, believed about 80% to be true. I was not actively seeking one sign or another. Just looking for that "spark" in a man.

I had been on the dating site since just late Sept, dated a small amount, talking via chat rooms, im's, but nobody hit my fancy. Til scorp #1. First conversation, I found out he was a scorp and my antennae went up a bit because I dated a scorp few years ago, who stung me. Granted that guy was very freshly divorced, had a recent DUI/hit and run and just gotten sober in AA, a few months before. He still has ex wife drama and his head was just still foggy and emotionally unable to be in a dating partnership.

I overlooked the first guys sign, as I dont think its fair to judge a new man by a former man's behavior. And all in all, this guy was a good guy, just he had his fair share of issues with pending divorce, financial issues and more, however, he did manipulate a situation.

The stalker guy contacted me with full force obsession, I made no inclination that I was interested in him. People are more than their signs, they are affected by their life's experiences. They say Leo's all want luxury and gold, and wont settle for less. That couldnt be further from my truth. I am true to many Leo traits, thats for sure, but some of them I have overcome, like insecurity (to a great deal, not perfect), attention seeking (again, lessened), talkative (love to talk, but have also learned to listen a great deal). basically we are humans who can change.

Off soap box now.