Taurus / Scorpio - Need you help!!

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I meet a Scorpio about a year a ago. We started to date in October, and the magic was there from the start I fell in love with her. She would give me that Scorpio stare and say things like "my heart feels so strong for you", once we had a miss understanding and i was very upset she called to say " I Love you, I'm in love with you" and people I love don't get upset I will do what ever it takes to make sure you feel good.

I seems like after that I would get the I love you's more often and then one weekend she pulled back, did not answer my calls, texts, and didn't call.

Monday i get an email saying I'm sorry for not reaching out this weekend. I called and we spoke and i could swear she was pushing me to start a fight so she would have an out. I wouldn't start the fight.

Since then she has told me that she wants me to be happy and she can not give me what I deserve. (A little background, she still lives with an old love, they have been apart for 5 yrs. I have meet all her friends and the "roommate" so I know nothing is really going on.

It's been 4 months and we talk every now and then , she will say things like i miss u so much, I miss cooking with you, I miss hanging with you and the dog. I miss making love with you...... She will make plans to hang out and guess what it never happens.

Is this Scorpios way of keeping a lover hanging on? Do you think she will come back to me again or does it sound like it's over.
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She tells me she is not seeing anyone, if she was it would be me (her words). When we do speak she makes a point to ask if i am seeing anyone, the last time she asked if we could go for a walk, i said i had a lot going on she immediately begged me to tell her if there was someone else, she said she felt something when she thought i had moved on but ended it saying "Who am I to Feel anything"

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Posted by nikki4242
She tells me she is not seeing anyone, if she was it would be me (her words). When we do speak she makes a point to ask if i am seeing anyone, the last time she asked if we could go for a walk, i said i had a lot going on she immediately begged me to tell her if there was someone else, she said she felt something when she thought i had moved on but ended it saying "Who am I to Feel anything"



Just let it go, it will only get worse! Constant drama, it`s just not worth it....




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@ Bellabull, no i do not like this at all. It's sad considering it do believe we would make a great match.

It's starting to remind me of an old relationship with another Scorpio that lasted 5 long years with all the drama. To this day the old Scorpio wants to be back together but you know a Taurus once we finally get it out of our system and let go there is no going back.

As much as i love the new Scorp, I feel myself mourning and moving on.

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Posted by BellaBulleautiful
BulLeo is right,they are dramatic and we are so very not.Leos and Scorps,for both all the world is a stage.the difference is Leo's stage is an amphitheatre in the center of town,while Scorpio's is in a dirty backroom in an underground location where only a few are invited.

but,we all must learn the hard way I'm afraid.



i absolutely adore leo`s though....they treat you like a queen and do everything for you when in love....it`s not like you`ll get nothing in return admiring them...
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I don't think virgo moons are bad when an earth person has one.



well, I have a virgo moon and I feel like an emotional retard sometimes....
virgo is ruled by mercury, virgo moon makes you have a more intellectual, analytical way in approaching your feelings and makes dealing with them more difficult...and you are supposed to be sort of shy!




true,but I bet you are solid as a rock and very down to earth.and you're not an emotional livewire.what could be better?
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I do love my virgo moon, it`s awesome!
I think it`s more reserved and distanced than shy anyway...
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BulLeo is right,they are dramatic and we are so very not.Leos and Scorps,for both all the world is a stage.the difference is Leo's stage is an amphitheatre in the center of town,while Scorpio's is in a dirty backroom in an underground location where only a few are invited.

but,we all must learn the hard way I'm afraid.



Genuine lol on that one, even though you may not have been joking 🙂
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double lol bells let us not forget the horrible bulls 😉

if I were to ball u up with all that u would be none to pleased.,.
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BulLeo is right,they are dramatic and we are so very not.Leos and Scorps,for both all the world is a stage.the difference is Leo's stage is an amphitheatre in the center of town,while Scorpio's is in a dirty backroom in an underground location where only a few are invited.

but,we all must learn the hard way I'm afraid.



Genuine lol on that one, even though you may not have been joking 🙂



double lol bells let us not forget the horrible bulls 😉

if I were to ball u up with all that u would be none to pleased.,.




oh now,...I cum in peas.
and I still love you. —
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haha, I luv u too! ok I admit it will be dark & underground but not dirty (unless u speak figuratively) & u should know! ur alwayson the VIP list ;P

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Cutiebullie, you hit the nail on the head.

I asked her why she pulled away and she said "becasue you did something that they all do just when I think i have found someone the be in a relationship with".

That took me aback, I asked her what it was and she would not say. She did say that these issues were not things she could not work out with me, but she isn't coming forawrd she has just stopped.

I want to keep coming towards her, but yes my heart has been broken so many times, and i'm thinking if i continue to come towards her she will just dissapper.

I feel stuck, wondering if i let her go if i will regret it for years to come.
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nik cutie bullie is right...I have only told 2 men I loved them...& I meant it

I don't think scorp women play with this emotion, it's all or nothing

if I sensed hesitation or holding back it would cause me to withdraw. as passionate as we r we need to c it in others. perhaps she is unable to change certain things in her life that would make "this" easier for her...she won't tell u this 😢 we r very self sacrificing

c her, look in her eyes & tell her u love her & will do anything to make it work

u won't even need to hear her reply u will c it in her eyes & u will know

I wish u much happiness
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morning bells 🙂

idk about the emotional manipulation thing srsly

I've been accused of it & of playing games

I haven't done either
I would Neva hurt someone I luv intentionally... I just need definites no wishy washy dudes unsure of themselves or others & unwilling to put in the effort that it would take to build something solid. it's not enough to care...

maybe why I married a Leo they seem very sure of themselves & their actions

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typical scorpio, im afraid. i fell in love with a scorpio man last year. and im a taurus. so i know. but we were never hold n cold. BUT we were just "friends". THAT was my fatal mistake. FWB. never let a scorpio man get u into that category. he wasnt mature. eveolved. he's the eagle, not the phoenix. yeah, i know a lot. i have a lil scorpio girl at home. lol
he lead me on. being the bull i wouldnt reveal feelings, too afraid of vulnerability. n afraid of losing my friend. i lived for that mental stimulation that only he could do. the challenging. im so like him it isnt even funny. we never argued. it was always upbeat. i tried to break free twice. just not lettin him see me for months. but we kept up the texting. day after day. sometimes up to 100 a day btwn the 2 of us. we never went 5 days without somethin. 2 months ago things changed. i felt it. but i had him on "not seeing me" mode for 2 months at that time. i saw him a month after that. best sex we ever had. then a week later, MIA. 3wks later i said that's it. i sent him a message, playfully askin him where the hell he has been. then got serious. told him i cleaned house. people were gone outa my life. even my BFF. no more drama. n that i was not doin Friends With Benefits anymore. not even casual dating. i wanted a man who wanted a REAL relationship. cu i was ready. then i made it light again, sayin at least he could tell me he was alive! GEEZ!

4 days later after i found out he had a whole other life with a woman. aint that a bitch. he didnt tell me. he found out i knew thru a friend. i know him. im intuitive enuff to know it aint over. he was plannin on keepin me on the side as he had b4. he will be back. some way. some day. men in my life always come back. some stay as friends. n he's the scorpio....well u know how that goes...lol i wanna know all i can about scorpio men. how they hide what they hide. that inner restlessness they have. i have it to. i swear i musta been a scorpio b4. i m so like him it isnt funny. only diff is...i talk. i'll tell u all about my life. but i wont tell u what i dont want u to see. n most times its my true feelings about YOU. i dont like being vulnerable. n not many people can figure me out. i change up. im unpredictable as hell. that isnt a taurus trait. im predictable in a lotta other ways, but with a man...i keep him on his toes.
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we never share boards bells

it's lk old times

I think scorps r misunderstood (this would explain our saturation)

I try not to respond in scorp female relationship threads cuz I will c this..,this amount of blame & stigma put on us by others who won't (trust me I know I dont even get me) ever know us...we dont try to be mysterious or deep or hard we just r...it's impossible for us to trust or give of ourselves freely cuz our pain can be never ending.,,

I wouldn't say we r sensitive another misconception of our sign u have to mean something to us to get to that point...we can block u & any feelings we have (it's a shell thing, c cancer board) u will Neva know how deep we have been hurt cuz u won't c us (the real us anyway) if u break our trust or hurt us when we let u in...we'll be gone
physically... or emotionally

we r proud & just & honest unless there is some outside or emotional impediment to our loyalty aka abuse alcohol instability... we r fixed after all





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the taurus may want to OWN u as a possession, but the scorpio wants to POSSESS u...mind, body and soul. FOREVER. remember that. lol what a pair arent we? if u find 2 EVOLVED people..it can work. they are the perfect compliment to each other.

im not like bella. im not direct. im not blunt. i always worry about hurting people's feelings. sooooo not taurus-like.lol my old bf is s a taurus n he's blunt as hell. n her forgets i cant take it n when we talk n i get quiet on the phone he says "i did it again didnt i? u aint no damn taurus!!!im tellin u!!!"

ok. whatever. i seem to love that spark the scorpio brings. i live for that mental stimulation. n i too, can push his buttons. but i do it subtly, n he loves every damn minute of it. he loves that i know how to challenge him. well he DID, anyway. last nite i said outloud...i need another scorpio to stimulate my mind!!! its been weeks since i had that!!!" 5 mins later...one found me online. i saw his pic...and just knew. n we already started the game. lmao im a lil happier now. he has no idea i know he's a scorpio. THIS is gonna be mental bliss....lol
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my bro is a Taurus & one of my best friends he is amazed at what I won't tell or show to those I luv...

he has said I'm cold & insensitive in the past as we grew older & matured I told him it was b'cuz he hurt me first...😢 I had to point out his mistakes he was oblivious to how until I circled the shit for him

was I over sensitive or was he selfish & inconsiderate? there r other options as well let's grab fire & air for their opinions too..,

it's perception based on how we handle our emotions

I tend to intellectualize mine & suspect others ;P
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Cutiebullie, you hit the nail on the head.

I asked her why she pulled away and she said "becasue you did something that they all do just when I think i have found someone the be in a relationship with".

That took me aback, I asked her what it was and she would not say. She did say that these issues were not things she could not work out with me, but she isn't coming forawrd she has just stopped.

I want to keep coming towards her, but yes my heart has been broken so many times, and i'm thinking if i continue to come towards her she will just dissapper.

I feel stuck, wondering if i let her go if i will regret it for years to come.




That's called emotional manipulation dude! it's a method of gaining control... come on ffs! RUN!!!!!!

On a side note:
good morning Scorps. 🙂no offense of course.
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yes they can. i have one female scorpio friend since hs. we never argue. i had a best male friend in hs. also scorpio, never disagreed either. so close we used to watch tv n cuddle. he opened up to me. so does my scorpio gf. even dated one scorpio in hs. he fell head over heels for me...and i walked away. one day..that was it. i was out. without warning. (seems the scorpio thing to do...but im a taurus.lol)

and my 1st best friend growing up...scorpio girl. best of friends. but yes she liked to manipulate when she wanted somethin her way. i never backed down. i was quiet but i was all taurus. sometimes i let her win. other times hell no. she'd get mad n leave n be back later when she chilled. when i see her today we laugh it up. i saw the phases of scorpio 1st hand. she was a piece of work as a scorpion, often stinging herself. the eagle...in high school. she stopped her tormenting of her parents n siblings n calmed the hell down. n now the phoenix, as a mom. that man i was with....eagle. he has some work to do.

so...SOME taurus' can do very well with scorpios. my daughter is one, too. i been dealin with them since i was 3.

and i'll be damned if that man i was with is gonna have the upper hand n control lol i will always be ready for when he shows up. that connection we had was way too big for him not to. i had a connection before him. lasted many yrs. MANY. the guy still loves me n admits he screwed up yrs ago. well.....mr scorpio n me had a connection 100 times more intense. i know what is coming. one day....n he isnt gonna win....n manipulate me. n i cant trust him. unless by then he is evolved into that phoenix n we r both single. n he proves to me he is trustworthy. i will always love him. i told him. 1st time i ever confessed 1st (taurus doesnt do that.)i dont burn bridges. he was always saying things about FATE....well FATE isnt done with us yet. im an old soul, n i know things.
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i must be that rare taurus. cu i m more sensitive than the scorpio man i know. he has said things or not shown compassion or common courtesy when i wanted it. im the one upset n he had no clue i was so sensitive. i know other men who did show that. so its not a man thing. out of us im the more sensitive one. if u dont text me back, im offended. if u say u r going to call n dont...im offended. if u blow me off, im offended. if u say u r gonna do somethin n dont...again....offended.

ive changed since last week...when im offended im not doin the taurus thing n holdin it in til i see red. im speakin my mind like my friend does. get it out in the open NOW.

i can get any male i know to open up n talk. even men who NEVER spilled ANYTHING to ANYONE. except that scorpio. cuz he was hiding his REAL life n being shady. but when i was with him....the emotions poured out. it wasnt all passion. i knew how to calm his restless soul. by just touching him. caressing him. no kissing. no sex. no talking. just touch. thats the only time i ever saw him completely relaxed. n he'd tell me....damn u sure do know how to take care of me. then id do somethin like smack his ass n he'd say "aw now why'd u have to go n do that! i was all chill-axed!" n he'd laugh, n i'd giggle n he'd turn around n grab me n hold me so close i felt like i was inside his soul. damn i miss that lying SOB. lol we could communicate with touch. never saying a word. it was awesome. but at times we did love talkin each other's ears off. we talked about all kinda stuff, even during sex sometimes. lol we were comfortable as all hell together. the timing wasnt right. that's all. the rest was real.

i will always admire the scorpio. n im raisin my lil one to not be so harsh on herself. n not to hide her emotions. she lives with 2 taurus....she is always showing her emotions. lol her brother n her r 7 yrs apart but she always gets her revenge...when he isnt expecting it. and i laugh like crazy n say "she got u mister!!!" but i do the same dang thing she does. always have. musta been what i learned from that scorpio best friend of mine.lol
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Posted by jerseygirl1965
i must be that rare taurus. cu i m more sensitive than the scorpio man i know. he has said things or not shown compassion or common courtesy when i wanted it. im the one upset n he had no clue i was so sensitive. i know other men who did show that. so its not a man thing. out of us im the more sensitive one. if u dont text me back, im offended. if u say u r going to call n dont...im offended. if u blow me off, im offended. if u say u r gonna do somethin n dont...again....offended.






Getting offended because someone is unreliable has nothing to do with being sensitive!
Isn`t Scorpio a water sign? And water is associated with emotions and nurture/passion, right?
I don`t know, probably depends on the rest of one`s charts, too!!
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well poop,cut me off and shut me up :/
here's the rest of my post.

yes,I do resent the hell out of what we went through.not just his part,but mine as well for letting it happen and go on.
my mother was sensitive as well,and she tried to put up the tough exterior as well.but underneath it all she was a soft,sensitive ball of goo.not many (maybe no one but me) got to see that.best woman ever —
but the fact is,I called them both on their bullshit,and stood my ground.they respect me for it,because Taurus and Scorps have that in common....we don't respect doormats nor assholes.



u said it bells we respect the strength & honesty of bulls...only if they mean something to us

I have 3 bulls who r very important to me in rl they earned this placement cuz I trust them & they know my true self cuz I luv em
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my aqua moon keeps me safe from sensitivity

bull Leo don't believe everything u read ...emotions don't mean sensitivity

I have to luv u for u to matter at all



That`s why I said you need to regard the entire charts!!!
But I`m right with Scorpio being a watersign along with Cancer and Picses, am I not? You even said it is your aqua moon that keeps you from sensivity!
Being sensitive is not a bad thing to me anyway!
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poor lil girl....lol...nope....poor taurus mom n brother. she knows how to get him in trouble real easy. she is the drama queen. BUT she dont run this show. her "taurus with scorpio smarts" mom does. lol i dont fall for all that BS. sometimes her brother doesnt either n starts laughin at her n she starts laughin right back as she's trying to "pretend" to cry. oh she is good. but i see right thru that act. lol u know the story of the boy who cried wolf. lol we roll our eyes. ya do need earplugs in my house when she starts her DRAMA. she is loud. lol

i could see it if me n my scorpio man had been together. 2 taurus' n 2 scorpios. what a household.lol me n my son butt heads every day. n they'd be off havin fun. lol scorpio sr. did have a great bond with her tho. he knew she was a scorpio n she took to him like i've never seen. she has always been very standoffish with ALL men. it was sweet. he ripped her lil heart out 2 tho. he has some big karma comin his way. i just hope his lil girl doesnt have to suffer becuz of it.
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bull Leo don't believe everything u read ...



Yeah, tell that to your fellow Scorpios
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I will scream it from the roof tops 😄


bells my closest peeps tell me that they can't wait til I wont hold back emotionally
I just don't "think" about doing it...I've had co workers lose their minds reg projects & work then turn to me freaking out saying stuff lk
"have a reaction, ur not a f'n robot, doesn't it bother u at all"

my replies r lk "it doesn't bother me psychotically...why do I have to react how u do? & why do u give a fuck how I handle disappointment"?

obviously I do feel emotions intensely when I want to but I can shut it down if I don't
Can it work?

What are some things to watch out for with the Scorpio man?

What are some thing that a Taurus woman should not do?
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hey guys, i'm new to these boards. glad to meet you all.

i was just wondering how a relationship between a scorpio guy and a taurus girl would work out? she's so sexy and it drives me nuts, but it feels like she's playing with me a little sometim
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Ok here's how it all went down. He sent me an IM yesterday morning "how's your day" Me, "good know that I have spoken to you" so a little more conversation and then he says he was going to take a nap, (he is off on Sunday and Monday)so I said ok maybe we
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Hi, "I am new to this", as others before me have stated. Just getting ready to end a lifetime with, "The Bull"....LOL....and have thought about scorpion men.
I think it's their passion that's calling to me. I'm a Capricorn and "Wildly Romantic at Hear
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