I know it isn't blaringly obvious when they're interested so how does one pick up clues they are interested and / or want more of you?
Telltale signs scorpio likes you
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Posted by Rabbit
If they like you...you spend most of your time lying on your back, out of breath, your heart pounding, and stuck to the sheets from sweat.
If they like you or if they are interested in you?
I'n referring to a 27 yo scorp lol not a frat boy! And I wanna know if he LIKES me, not interested...
I know he's interested He texts me everyday and we see eachother 2-3 x a week but how will I know he LIKES me?
As far as stalking goes,
He drove by my house last night and texted me to tell me lol... I told him he was a creeper
I know he's interested He texts me everyday and we see eachother 2-3 x a week but how will I know he LIKES me?
As far as stalking goes,
He drove by my house last night and texted me to tell me lol... I told him he was a creeper
Posted by Rabbit
He's in the interest phase.
Intelligence gathering...
How do I get to the next phase? 🙂 lol
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
ask him.
I've asked him if he is seeing anyone else and he said no
So I'll have to muster up more courage to ask if he likes me
I wish it were more obvious. I mean I think he likes me but I wish he would just say so!
He's also a cancer moon so I see that a lot he's pretty indirect but his mercury and venus are also in Scorpio
Posted by RabbitPosted by abritta3Posted by Rabbit
He's in the interest phase.
Intelligence gathering...
How do I get to the next phase? 🙂 lol
Listen to Elle and the crazy Gemini chick...
Just be upfront.
We like that.click to expand
Next time we are in person I will ask him then
Posted by abritta3
I'n referring to a 27 yo scorp lol not a frat boy! And I wanna know if he LIKES me, not interested...
I know he's interested He texts me everyday and we see eachother 2-3 x a week but how will I know he LIKES me?
As far as stalking goes,
He drove by my house last night and texted me to tell me lol... I told him he was a creeper
To me I think u already have ur answer.....I wouldn't waste my time doing any of this stuff if I didn't like u 😉
But like the others said if u really wanna know for sure just ask 🙂

Posted by abritta3Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
ask him.
I've asked him if he is seeing anyone else and he said no
So I'll have to muster up more courage to ask if he likes me
I wish it were more obvious. I mean I think he likes me but I wish he would just say so!
He's also a cancer moon so I see that a lot he's pretty indirect but his mercury and venus are also in Scorpioclick to expand
to be absolutely honest, I hate that question "do you like me".. maybe it's just me, but if a girl can't tell through my actions, it's not even worth it.
actions>words any day.
Feel him out... does he do little things for you here and there to make your life easier/ more convenient - does it make you smile? Does he check in on you via text/ phone call to see how your day is doing? Little things like these go a long way for us. Well for me at least. This would mean i'm interested and care about you.
Basically as long as my lady is good i'm good and I don't expect anything in return. Foreal
He likely won't voice his feeling via words until he's 100% certain of the situation, just be patient. Time will tell. Don't try and rush anything with us.
All this may not apply to all Scorpio guys, but it does with me.

Anyone read the Collector by John Fowles? It's like that but less creepy and dramatic.
They will submerge in your universe and drag you in theirs. Merging.
To keep the stereotype alive: 😛
"The Collector is the story of the abduction and imprisonment of Miranda Grey by Frederick Clegg, told first from his point of view, and then from hers by means of a diary she has kept, with a return in the last few pages to Clegg's narration of her illness and death.
Clegg's section begins with his recalling how he used to watch Miranda entering and leaving her house, across the street from the town hall in which he worked. He describes keeping an "observation diary" about her, whom he thinks of as "a rarity,".He buys a van and a house in the country with an enclosed room in its basement that he remodels to make securable and hideable. When he returns to London, Clegg watches Miranda for 10 days. Then, as she is walking home alone from a movie, he captures her, using a rag soaked in chloroform, ties her up in his van, takes her to his house, and locks her in the basement room.
When she awakens, Clegg finds Miranda sharper than "normal people" like himself. She sees through some of his explanations, and recognizes him as the person whose picture was in the paper when he won the pool..Clegg tries to please Miranda by providing for her immediate needs. He buys her a Mozart record and thinks, "She liked it and so me for buying it.".About her appreciation for the music, he comments, "It sounded like all the rest to me but of course she was musical."
When the first month has elapsed, Miranda dresses up for what she hopes will be their last dinner. She looks so beautiful that Clegg has difficulty responding except with cliches and confusion. When she refuses his present of diamonds and offer of marriage, he tells her that he will not release her after all. She tries to escape by kicking a log out of the fire, but he catches her and chloroforms her again, this time taking off her outer clothing while she is unconscious and photographing her in her underwear.
They will submerge in your universe and drag you in theirs. Merging.
To keep the stereotype alive: 😛
"The Collector is the story of the abduction and imprisonment of Miranda Grey by Frederick Clegg, told first from his point of view, and then from hers by means of a diary she has kept, with a return in the last few pages to Clegg's narration of her illness and death.
Clegg's section begins with his recalling how he used to watch Miranda entering and leaving her house, across the street from the town hall in which he worked. He describes keeping an "observation diary" about her, whom he thinks of as "a rarity,".He buys a van and a house in the country with an enclosed room in its basement that he remodels to make securable and hideable. When he returns to London, Clegg watches Miranda for 10 days. Then, as she is walking home alone from a movie, he captures her, using a rag soaked in chloroform, ties her up in his van, takes her to his house, and locks her in the basement room.
When she awakens, Clegg finds Miranda sharper than "normal people" like himself. She sees through some of his explanations, and recognizes him as the person whose picture was in the paper when he won the pool..Clegg tries to please Miranda by providing for her immediate needs. He buys her a Mozart record and thinks, "She liked it and so me for buying it.".About her appreciation for the music, he comments, "It sounded like all the rest to me but of course she was musical."
When the first month has elapsed, Miranda dresses up for what she hopes will be their last dinner. She looks so beautiful that Clegg has difficulty responding except with cliches and confusion. When she refuses his present of diamonds and offer of marriage, he tells her that he will not release her after all. She tries to escape by kicking a log out of the fire, but he catches her and chloroforms her again, this time taking off her outer clothing while she is unconscious and photographing her in her underwear.

Just kidding Scorps, please don't chloroform me.

I have no idea what you're on about, I kid you not.
Posted by VivaciousScorpioPosted by abritta3
I know it isn't blaringly obvious when they're interested so how does one pick up clues they are interested and / or want more of you?
It is blaringly obvious. You have to be completely socially inept to not be able to pick up on it.click to expand
Socially inept, huh? Well what about that damn mask they always say Scorps wear?
I think he likes me but the only way I'll know for sure is when he SAYS so
I asked for advice bc I'm not a Scorpio - I'm a cancer and therefore I wanted input on some signs that I can look for
Lots of good insight here though from everyone.

Posted by VivaciousScorpio
Take a joke.
Just smile and wave.
😛
That sounded eerily like "Take a dick"

^I said the second shit and he was totally on board with it so I approve Rabbit's message.

Posted by GetMisted
Question:
What does it matter if he likes you or not, unless of course you like him?
Ego.
What is wrong with your IQ, beluga.

abritta3..you can hold my hand and join the stupidity train with me.
I never realized when my Scorp friend hit on me and he did it for 4 years.
In my defense, I was really, really young.
I never realized when my Scorp friend hit on me and he did it for 4 years.
In my defense, I was really, really young.

^Yeah, I remember the story.
Smart woman.
Smart woman.
Posted by abritta3Posted by VivaciousScorpioPosted by abritta3
I know it isn't blaringly obvious when they're interested so how does one pick up clues they are interested and / or want more of you?
It is blaringly obvious. You have to be completely socially inept to not be able to pick up on it.
Socially inept, huh? Well what about that damn mask they always say Scorps wear?
I think he likes me but the only way I'll know for sure is when he SAYS so
I asked for advice bc I'm not a Scorpio - I'm a cancer and therefore I wanted input on some signs that I can look for
Lots of good insight here though from everyone.click to expand
Trust ur instincts. U think he likes u....so he most likely does....ur clearly picking up smtg.
There's definitely smtg we give off...a vibe maybe Idk what it is but it's there. I wasn't sure my signals were being received so I told my friend I was interested n him & he said "I know." Obviously he cld see it or feel it or whatever.
If u don't want to ask where he stands then tell him how u feel. He will likely reciprocate.
Good luck 🙂


Oh no.. Don't damn the Virgos 😢

What is it with cancers and Scorpios?
My heart goes out to you sister!
My heart goes out to you sister!
Sooo what frustrates me and confuses me is he will text me to say
What are you doing tonight?
And I'll fill him in. Sometimes I'm just home reading, sometimes I'm out to dinner with a friend and then he will be like "cool" or change the subject...and sometimes he asks to see me
My brain is like whoa what?
What are you doing tonight?
And I'll fill him in. Sometimes I'm just home reading, sometimes I'm out to dinner with a friend and then he will be like "cool" or change the subject...and sometimes he asks to see me
My brain is like whoa what?
Posted by kim30
What is it with cancers and Scorpios?
My heart goes out to you sister!
Haha well my Aries moon is impatient and effs everything up
Not to mention that it's in my 3rd house so I'm all like COMMUNICATE DAMN IT

I don't know the emoticon for the disgruntled side-eye, rabbit. But if I did!!! Oh... if I did. I'd post it right now.

Posted by Andalusia
I don't know the emoticon for the disgruntled side-eye, rabbit. But if I did!!! Oh... if I did. I'd post it right now.
But I love you!
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by abritta3
Sooo what frustrates me and confuses me is he will text me to say
What are you doing tonight?
And I'll fill him in. Sometimes I'm just home reading, sometimes I'm out to dinner with a friend and then he will be like "cool" or change the subject...and sometimes he asks to see me
My brain is like whoa what?
Easy u need to be playful and answer are u asking me out. 😉lolclick to expand
Lol good one
And to the emoticon comment - I love rabbits 🙂 haha
Posted by RabbitPosted by Andalusia
I don't know the emoticon for the disgruntled side-eye, rabbit. But if I did!!! Oh... if I did. I'd post it right now.
A simple -_- worksclick to expand
._. This works too

-_-

I'll just stick with gifs.
Posted by Rabbit
No lie...The Virgo basically gave me an ultimatum like that.
I was bring a bit passive trying so hard to NOT fuck things up.
She just got sick of it and was like dude wtf?
How long did you "play the game" with her before she confronted you?
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by abritta3
Sooo what frustrates me and confuses me is he will text me to say
What are you doing tonight?
And I'll fill him in. Sometimes I'm just home reading, sometimes I'm out to dinner with a friend and then he will be like "cool" or change the subject...and sometimes he asks to see me
My brain is like whoa what?
Easy u need to be playful and answer are u asking me out. 😉lolclick to expand
+1
He could b waiting for u to initiate doing smtg. Or he could b curious about what u r doing when u r not together....kinda keeping tabs....seeing if ur out w other guys etc.

Posted by Andalusia
I'll just stick with gifs.
oh use to love that show
Posted by RabbitPosted by abritta3Posted by Rabbit
No lie...The Virgo basically gave me an ultimatum like that.
I was bring a bit passive trying so hard to NOT fuck things up.
She just got sick of it and was like dude wtf?
How long did you "play the game" with her before she confronted you?
I don't recall...maybe a month?click to expand
Haha wow!
That's where him and I are at... A month or so... Give or take a week
He's kissed me but not made any sexual moves on me so either he's not into me that way or idk what lol
I'll be really sad if he isn't bc he is smoking...
Anyways I don't think he's not into me that way I think he's just cautious
He did tell me he's been cheated on and he hates liars

I.heard Scorpio men like a.clear sign your into the fucking. Like if he.kisses you just move his hand down there.
Posted by kim30
I.heard Scorpio men like a.clear sign your into the fucking. Like if he.kisses you just move his hand down there.
Hahaha sweet! 🙂
Posted by Rabbit
The sexual advance part...
I didn't really make any moves for a while.
I wouldn't necessarily worry about that. He could be holding off for your signal to make the move. Just because he respects you enough to not be a jerk about it.
Good to know
His best friend (Scorpio moon) dates my best friend and he told her he "must like me" bc he didnt just fuck me from the start
I was like well ok then!
Posted by RabbitPosted by abritta3Posted by kim30
I.heard Scorpio men like a.clear sign your into the fucking. Like if he.kisses you just move his hand down there.
Hahaha sweet! 🙂
Or grab his hair and force his face into whatever area you prefer it to be at the time.click to expand
Haha I'll keep that in mind 😄
Posted by GetMisted
I'm rather submissive in the sexual advance department.
I'm a cancer with Leo mars - I can't relate lol

That's bullshit.nobody said I believed it. What I said is what I HEARD from a Scorpio. Was sharing a tidbit.

Interested in what? Rubber dolls?

Posted by Rabbit
If he offers to share his cheeseburger with you...
He likes you.
What does it mean when he serves a nice luncheon buffet for multiple guests and chides you for not eating enough. When you protest you ate well and enjoyed your lunch, he shakes his head and recites approximations of exactly what (and how much) you ate? When you stare in stupefied silence, he declares he was watching you via surveillance cameras?

Posted by CreoleGeishaPosted by Rabbit
If he offers to share his cheeseburger with you...
He likes you.
What does it mean when he serves a nice luncheon buffet for multiple guests and chides you for not eating enough. When you protest you ate well and enjoyed your lunch, he shakes his head and recites approximations of exactly what (and how much) you ate? When you stare in stupefied silence, he declares he was watching you via surveillance cameras?click to expand
that's happened. Minus the cameras.

Posted by RabbitPosted by scorchedearth
women smh
But...but...it's our magnetism!!!
They can't help but drop panties for us!!!!click to expand
Good lord, Really?, lmfao

Posted by abritta3Posted by VivaciousScorpioPosted by abritta3
I know it isn't blaringly obvious when they're interested so how does one pick up clues they are interested and / or want more of you?
It is blaringly obvious. You have to be completely socially inept to not be able to pick up on it.
Socially inept, huh? Well what about that damn mask they always say Scorps wear?
I think he likes me but the only way I'll know for sure is when he SAYS so
I asked for advice bc I'm not a Scorpio - I'm a cancer and therefore I wanted input on some signs that I can look for
Lots of good insight here though from everyone.click to expand
I haven't caught up on reading the rest of the comments after this one....but...BUT, you're a CANCER and you aren't sure if he likes you? He's Scorpio. You're Cancer. Both water signs. Both intuitive.
Are you a broken Cancer? 'Cause I just can't figure out how you could miss the signs and signals with him......
I'm getting a headache now.

Posted by RabbitPosted by MoonArtistPosted by abritta3Posted by VivaciousScorpioPosted by abritta3
I know it isn't blaringly obvious when they're interested so how does one pick up clues they are interested and / or want more of you?
It is blaringly obvious. You have to be completely socially inept to not be able to pick up on it.
Socially inept, huh? Well what about that damn mask they always say Scorps wear?
I think he likes me but the only way I'll know for sure is when he SAYS so
I asked for advice bc I'm not a Scorpio - I'm a cancer and therefore I wanted input on some signs that I can look for
Lots of good insight here though from everyone.
I haven't caught up on reading the rest of the comments after this one....but...BUT, you're a CANCER and you aren't sure if he likes you? He's Scorpio. You're Cancer. Both water signs. Both intuitive.
Are you a broken Cancer? 'Cause I just can't figure out how you could miss the signs and signals with him......
I'm getting a headache now.
That's the moscato. It cause headaches.click to expand
My house hasn't had alcohol in it for a couple of weeks...and moscato, if it's the dryer versions, makes my tummy hurt, not my head.
Posted by MoonArtistPosted by abritta3Posted by VivaciousScorpioPosted by abritta3
I know it isn't blaringly obvious when they're interested so how does one pick up clues they are interested and / or want more of you?
It is blaringly obvious. You have to be completely socially inept to not be able to pick up on it.
Socially inept, huh? Well what about that damn mask they always say Scorps wear?
I think he likes me but the only way I'll know for sure is when he SAYS so
I asked for advice bc I'm not a Scorpio - I'm a cancer and therefore I wanted input on some signs that I can look for
Lots of good insight here though from everyone.
I haven't caught up on reading the rest of the comments after this one....but...BUT, you're a CANCER and you aren't sure if he likes you? He's Scorpio. You're Cancer. Both water signs. Both intuitive.
Are you a broken Cancer? 'Cause I just can't figure out how you could miss the signs and signals with him......
I'm getting a headache now.click to expand
Definitely not a broken cancer -.- wtf does that even mean
And you stated you hadn't caught up reading
Do that then try to comment 🙂
Geez

Ok, caught up and the Aries moon makes sense on why you might not be feeling him and instead want the verbal. I'm Cancer moon (cancer sun, cancer rising) so verbal isn't my primary mode of communicating, especially if it's from an emotional base.
I'll reiterate what everyone else has said: he's interested and as long as he continues to find you interesting AND likes the deeper parts of you then he'll definitely LIKE you. You'll know it because you'll be the only one he spends that much time talking to or spending time with on a voluntary basis.
I'll reiterate what everyone else has said: he's interested and as long as he continues to find you interesting AND likes the deeper parts of you then he'll definitely LIKE you. You'll know it because you'll be the only one he spends that much time talking to or spending time with on a voluntary basis.
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