TRUE FEMALE Scorp Coming Out of Me!

All my life I have been a people person. Charming, outgoing. Make friends easily, etc. I also have had a tendency to avoid conflict. I would bite my tongue sometimes or surpress my feelings. Lately I have noticed that I have become a lot more vocal with my feelings. I have also become more anal with my job. At work, I have beoome more directive opposed to taking directions. My patience has also decreased. I have a lower tolerance for stupditiy and have now started calling people out on there stupid ish. Dare I say the TRUE SCORP is coming out in me or am I just getting older and over it. Lol.

may suggest, natural?

I know how it feels to be a Scorpio, am one myself 🙂 I've been through different stages from very loving, shy, kind, angry... and when too angry after been taken advantage of for too long and too many times, I started showing my angry teeth at people, just to show what I'm capable of, but have not been that way because of strength, NOT weakness....


Just for your own happiness, I will suggest that you try pushing on your breakes, because Scorps can be intimidating. You don't want to be unfair to people. You don't want to develop a limited mind, because we are very capable of burrying our heads in the sand. You want to develop your intelligent/wise Scorpio side.


Believe me.... the intelligent side of Scorpio will make you way happier in the long run.

🙂

FUMRedFairy_tales, I hear ya! I have caught myself at times and had to calm myself down and not be too mean. To one specific co-worker in partiucular. It's like this constant balancing act. I think Scorps have a harder time with the balancing act than other signs.

I know exactly what you mean about not having a tolerance for stupid people ..... like Fum for example.


A box of rocks is smarter than her.

P-Angel!!! I see you have not changed a bit!!! Lol. How the heck are you doing—?

I cannot image why a person would change for the worse ... and for a person to stop defending theirselves would be for the worse.


I am fine, glad you are back.

So, how is that Virgo of yours?

ARe you two married yet?


I missed your wisdom here, I'm sure many did.

My wisdom? I was the one getting the wisdom from you all!! 🙂

Virgo and I split a while ago. Maybe in late October! Him and I were not compatiable. I also pushed ALOT. Did a lot of the chasing. Bad girl! Lol. I was trying to fit a round peg in a square hole. Trying to breathe life into something that was already dead. Was a completely exhausting process and I have no one to blame but myself. You live and you learn right! 🙂 I defintiely lived and learned.

I am now with a Libra. Have been for about 7 months. I have learned to lean back and allow him to "chase" me. I am done with all the pushing and controlling. Lol. I let him do the leg work. He likes to do it and I can relax. Lol. 🙂

I thought for sure you and Virgo were going to suffer through the distance .. glad to hear that you changed course.

A Lirba man? Hope all is well with him.


You're looking really good, btw .... a new look for you?

Posted by P-Angel
I thought for sure you and Virgo were going to suffer through the distance .. glad to hear that you changed course.

A Lirba man? Hope all is well with him.


You're looking really good, btw .... a new look for you?

Lol @ suffer through the distance. Um no. I got tired of the suffering. I am glad that I changed course as well. It was a mess. But I learned a lot. So, it was not a wasted venture.

This Libra is very interesting to say the least. We have fun together. We trust one another and we are just ourselves with each other. i love it!

Thanks! Yes it is a new look. I recently lost 50 pounds and lightened my hair. Lol.

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Posted by natural25
FUMRedFairy_tales, I hear ya! I have caught myself at times and had to calm myself down and not be too mean. To one specific co-worker in partiucular. It's like this constant balancing act. I think Scorps have a harder time with the balancing act than other signs.

So true... I'm quick tempered because my emotions get the best of me, and then I feel guilty or ashamed of acting out that way. I try like hell to balance myself and literally feel like I have an internal war going on within myself.

It's embarrassing. :/

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Hmm. Have you tried any techniques to help calm your temper?

Yes, being honest with yourself about it IS the first step. Its important that we are all aware of who we really are...the good the bad and the ugly. Lol. It is also good that you have ppl in your life to help keep you grounded! Picking battles....thats a tough one. Knowing when to stop. Taking a step back and not reacting on emoitons. All hard things for scorps to do. Lol. But definitely doable! Stay encouraged. We are ALL works in progress. Just continue to keep yourself in check about it. 🙂

Im telling you. Us scorpio women are firecrackers. Lol. I have noticed that scorp women born in November are really off the hook. Lol. I am an October baby. When were you born?

"October 28th.. "

I am Oct 25

"I am definitely a firecracker, but only when provoked. And I don't like to be! I'm sweet as pie the majority of the time, I can tell that you are too.. "

Why thank you!

"There are some female scorps that try so hard to be bad ass, like they're trying to prove something to someone and they really make an ass of themselves. The two that I know at my job that are that type were both born in November.."

I have a friend who was born in November. She is crazy! Wll curse someone out in a minute. Her and I have gotten into a couple of times. Never really heated bc I never let it go too far. But she is crazy. So angry! Like she thinks its attractive. She is also form NY. So.... Lol.

LMAO! Well I m glad that you are getting better!

I am a school counselor. So, although my job is stressful I mostly deal with kids. I cant stay mad or snap on them. They are too cute and they are my babies. Lol. And mostly men work in my office. They are really laid back and pretty much allow me to run the show. So, that makes it easier on me. Lol.

Oct 25 here...

didn't know there are so many of us on here 😄

MegString - Libra cups REPRESENT!!! Lol. 😉

opps I emant CUSP. Lol.

aquilascorpiusfemina - i will make sure to stay on your good side. Lol.

Tasha - 🙂

Fum - Yay we have the same bday!! 🙂

I'm gonna throw this out in the open even though its completely off topic.

Damn natural you are a fine woman. 😉

It never ceases to amaze me how many beautiful women are around here lol