URGENT HELP: Scorpio girl DEPRESSED and SUICIDAL

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leo_boy123
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I know this Scorpio girl and she has recently broken up with her bf. She has told me that that was the last nail in the coffin which made her world crashing down and want to die. As a friend, I have tried to look on her side and tell her that it will not solve anything and tried to be on her side and make her feel happier, make her feel that there is someone out there she could talk to. Recently I have found out that I kind of have emotions towards her and she also likes me. However she did tell me that she is not normal now, not stable and everyday she cannot go on 5 minutes without thinking of killing herself. She seemed fine for a while we talked everyday then one day she told me she was trying to be normal so that she wouldn't need to go to see the doctor. She said that she needed to become stable first and that there is something wrong with her brain. She did assure me that her family will care for her and she wouldn't do anything stupid because of her family. Since then I haven't heard from her and sent her a few messages with no reply. What should I do? Give her some space? Let her be? I am concerned that if she kept everything inside and not talk about it it will do her harm since she has no close friends except one. What should I do? As a friend, I want her to overcome this and become what she says a "normal" person again. (She told me that she seem to have depression issues, suicidal thoughts, cannot sleep and has headache quite often. She uses painkillers and used to use sleeping pills a lot. She doesn't want to go see the doctor.)
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I am also finding it odd for her to be so heart broken but admitting liking you...

Normally woman who about to commit herself because of a man - she can’t see anyone else - all other men don’t exist at the moment! Until she is healed or dead!

I don’t see how can she be freshly hurt and liking you...very odd. Is she mental case? Besides her ex? Maybe that’s why he dumped her? Find out...please. And don’t jump in. It doesn’t sound kosher.
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Posted by Gemitati
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None of us can help you. Seek professional help immediately
Does it matter that OP is NOT the one with suicidal thoughts? And he clearly said she doesn’t want to see a doctor!!! Have you read the post?

None of us can help YOU, LN...that’s for sure!
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Babe can you read? Where did I write for her to see a doctor. I advised HIM to talk to a professional.

Not looking to have help from a thot. But if I change my mind you’ll be the first to know.
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
None of us can help you. Seek professional help immediately
Does it matter that OP is NOT the one with suicidal thoughts? And he clearly said she doesn’t want to see a doctor!!! Have you read the post?

None of us can help YOU, LN...that’s for sure!
Babe can you read? Where did I write for her to see a doctor. I advised HIM to talk to a professional.

Not looking to have help from a thot. But if I change my mind you’ll be the first to know.
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Read my post below. And advise o smart one HOW to seek help for someone who don’t want help? Just a post below...
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Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
None of us can help you. Seek professional help immediately
Does it matter that OP is NOT the one with suicidal thoughts? And he clearly said she doesn’t want to see a doctor!!! Have you read the post?

None of us can help YOU, LN...that’s for sure!
Babe can you read? Where did I write for her to see a doctor. I advised HIM to talk to a professional.

Not looking to have help from a thot. But if I change my mind you’ll be the first to know.
Read my post below. And advise o smart one HOW to seek help for someone who don’t want help? Just a post below...
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A professional will know which avenues are best to take. That’s why they are the professional!
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Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by LadyNeptune
None of us can help you. Seek professional help immediately
Does it matter that OP is NOT the one with suicidal thoughts? And he clearly said she doesn’t want to see a doctor!!! Have you read the post?

None of us can help YOU, LN...that’s for sure!
Babe can you read? Where did I write for her to see a doctor. I advised HIM to talk to a professional.

Not looking to have help from a thot. But if I change my mind you’ll be the first to know.
Read my post below. And advise o smart one HOW to seek help for someone who don’t want help? Just a post below...
A professional will know which avenues are best to take. That’s why they are the professional!
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Here in US no one allowed to force treatment unless asked. Thought you knew...
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Posted by Nevamore
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Posted by Nevamore
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None of us can help you. Seek professional help immediately
Listen to this. For real.
Like how? ‘Hello doctor! I have a friend who is suicidal but she doesn’t want your help. Just sayin’...good day...’—

Like that?
Fuck off.
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Lol. Why? He couldn’t get it up? Keep trying and fuck be back on!

Good luck with your fuck! 🖕
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Jesus Christ guys, give it a rest, the poor guy is asking for help not to witness a cat fight

OP, your friend needs someone to listen to her outside of the family.....I was like that when younger. I am good now. You could do some research and ask around for the name of a good therapist, counsellor and gently suggest it to her. In the meantime, just let her know you are offering the hand of friendship to her . She is a Scorpio.....we hit rock bottom many times during our lives and come out of it stronger each time. If she could read about the sign, she may gain more of an understanding around why she is going through difficulties. Astrology has had a profound effect on me and helped so much...



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leo_boy123
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Thank you all of you for the replies and advice. She kind of couldn't let go and some how I kind of helped her forget about her ex. I told her that I will make her happy and I will never do anything to hurt her. We both feel that we have something. She did say she likes me, i am a nice and sweet person. But at the moment she just cannot think normal. She said that I should have my own life and when she gets back her normal life then we can talk about together. I cannot really see her at the moment since I live in another place far from her but doing my best to take the necessary process to go see her. She did apply for some visa to come see me but I do not know if she is still going to come or not. She was married young and divorced and then got hurt by her current ex. With many social stigmatization and other issues such as work and family pressure it seems the only way she thinks right now is to kill herself. It is really hard for me to know what I should do, that she will really not harm herself. She telling her aunt that one day she might kill herself so asking her aunt to take care of her parent is just scary to think about. I have tried to read around on how to help but it seems that the advice for a Scorpio girl and mainstream depression is like opposite to each other. Her mom now knows and wanted her to go to another city with them to see a good doctor but she refuses.. She believes that the only one who could help herself is herself. That's why she tried hard to act normal around everyone for a few weeks but just couldn't keep up with all the pressure. I don't know what to do anymore.. I want to help her, don't want to see her suffer and do not want to lose her (as a friend to suicide). LibraMudra, I will do as you say if it means that it is the best for her at the moment.