Venus in Scorpio copying you

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sagatastic
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Hey so I ended up sleeping with the this guy because it was insinuated that there would be cuddling which i needed alot of at that moment also I hadn't had sex in awhile. So afterward he finished but I didn't and there was no cuddling after. When I was trying to go home he told me the movie was almost over but it was not and at one point I said I thought you said it was almost over? I still waited for it to be before I left and he didn't seem to happy about it.

I tried to maintain a casual friendship kind of but long story short with his disappearing acts whenever he gets re added to my facebook and some unresolved mysteries involing him and another one of my guy friends, I unfriended him for good but we still have mutual friends and I noticed something weird.

There was a point I stopped using my real picture as a profile, and when I did that he changed his picture to a non picture too, and it would change here and there but it was never his face.

So a few months later I change my pic to an old one of my face and less than a day later he changed his profile pic to an old pic of his face making a similar expression.

Just to test it out to see if I was crazy a few days later I change my cover picture and profile picture all to donuts and my bio read donuts, donuts everywhere. About a day later he changed his cover picture to a saying about how there's nothing better than donuts or something.

I haven't talked to him at all in this time. So...is he making fun of me or like why tf is this happening? lol

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Sounds like he wanted your attention, and look at that, he got it!

What's your next move hun ?

He clearly wanted you to stay and watch the film with him, and the no cuddles after sex, perhaps he just isn't a cuddly kind of guy, not everyone is.

Do you like him?..Want something more ? X

Personally I think he's acting a little odd with his actions because he doesn't know if his interest in you is reciprocated, testing the waters so to speak x
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sagatastic
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Posted by piscespoppy
Sounds like he wanted your attention, and look at that, he got it!

What's your next move hun ?

He clearly wanted you to stay and watch the film with him, and the no cuddles after sex, perhaps he just isn't a cuddly kind of guy, not everyone is.

Do you like him?..Want something more ? X

Personally I think he's acting a little odd with his actions because he doesn't know if his interest in you is reciprocated, testing the waters so to speak x


I used to like him but now I don't. If he can't communicate like an adult than no I don't like him. His antics are decent distractions thats all really until I find boyfriend. (or die?) either way if thats all hes doing he'll have my attention here and there on the internet while I'm sleeping with men..lol
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Posted by piscespoppy
Sounds like he wanted your attention, and look at that, he got it!

What's your next move hun ?

He clearly wanted you to stay and watch the film with him, and the no cuddles after sex, perhaps he just isn't a cuddly kind of guy, not everyone is.

Do you like him?..Want something more ? X

Personally I think he's acting a little odd with his actions because he doesn't know if his interest in you is reciprocated, testing the waters so to speak x


I used to like him but now I don't. If he can't communicate like an adult than no I don't like him. His antics are decent distractions thats all really until I find boyfriend. (or die?) either way if thats all hes doing he'll have my attention here and there on the internet while I'm sleeping with men..lol
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If you don't like him why are you checking on his Facebook and creating a thread about it—
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Posted by sagatastic
Hey so I ended up sleeping with the this guy because it was insinuated that there would be cuddling which i needed alot of at that moment also I hadn't had sex in awhile. So afterward he finished but I didn't and there was no cuddling after. When I was trying to go home he told me the movie was almost over but it was not and at one point I said I thought you said it was almost over? I still waited for it to be before I left and he didn't seem to happy about it.

I tried to maintain a casual friendship kind of but long story short with his disappearing acts whenever he gets re added to my facebook and some unresolved mysteries involing him and another one of my guy friends, I unfriended him for good but we still have mutual friends and I noticed something weird....



I may be fuzzy on a few things given I don't mess with FB like that anymore, but if you "unfriend" someone aren't their activities (e.g. profile change etc) removed from your feed? So, unless you're going out of your way to look him up, how do you know what he is or isn't doing? Especially if you're saying these profile pics change as frequently as they do. Seems he's accomplishing exactly what he intended, he's on your mind. No matter how fleeting, he has space up there in your head. You even created a thread about him...

Sure he could step up and talk to you, but why do that when he's getting what he wants with such little effort?
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Posted by sagatastic
Posted by SirHorns
Posted by OceanBoy88
Imitation is the most sincere form of flattery . My venus in Scorp would copy me, imitate me, and lower her voice to my deepness. Not exactly like your scenario but still relative
How long did it take for you to find it not a cute trait anymore?


Why does he deserve donuts?
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Cause donuts are love. That's why.
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He wants your attention, I've done something similar with a chatting app thingy changing my picture to a similar theme lol

But that's more like a flirt... its obvious he's keeping tabs on your which depending on your personality you either love that or you get creeped out.

ViS usually have some stalker, snooping qualities. Id say we all do but to what extent you wouldn't know.



He wants you to talk to him because he feels probably bad for how things ended that way, he'll feel more secure and that would allow him to explain his feelings.

It's weird, but I'm like that too. He's waiting for you to initiate conversation, because he's feeling too vulnerable to do it himself right now.