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Ok, ppl know my story, I finally ended an exclusive relationship with this venus in Scorpio man. 6 months on and his words were still the same. Didn't want a relationship and attachments. Months of me pouring my heart and soul to this guy. Did everything I could to prove my feelings were true..... Even bought him an expensive gift when he got redundant and yes he was touched. Being a cap moon he shown me affection. Our kisses were intense and extremely passionate. From the Beginning he said he wasn't ready cause the timing was off, fair enough we let our relationship built over time and he became my best friend. I couldn't take it anymore and my trust for him slowly faded from his mind games.... His way of luring me back in and can't give me that commitment I was after... Yesterday we talked and I told him I will delete him off Facebook too and we should just end everything so I can move on from him. Obviously I gave him a chance to say if wanted to end things with us but he never did so I kind of spoke on his behalf( for my own good).. Ofcoz, after I deleted everything (moon in aqurius) he posted this on Facebook ...* you are never as big a deal as you think, but you are never as small as they play you... Know your worth and make them pay you*..... It's a quote and he said *true talk*... 🙂 nice one right—? Ofcoz I didn't give him a chance to say whether it was ok if I was to walk out of his life I just decided to do it for my own self respect.... I'm the only person he trust at the moment.... So yay I am being totally mean..... But I had enough.....
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Ok, ppl know my story, I finally ended an exclusive relationship with this venus in Scorpio man. 6 months on and his words were still the same. Didn't want a relationship and attachments. Months of me pouring my heart and soul to this guy. Did everything I could to prove my feelings were true..... Even bought him an expensive gift when he got redundant and yes he was touched. Being a cap moon he shown me affection. Our kisses were intense and extremely passionate. From the Beginning he said he wasn't ready cause the timing was off, fair enough we let our relationship built over time and he became my best friend. I couldn't take it anymore and my trust for him slowly faded from his mind games.... His way of luring me back in and can't give me that commitment I was after... Yesterday we talked and I told him I will delete him off Facebook too and we should just end everything so I can move on from him. Obviously I gave him a chance to say if wanted to end things with us but he never did so I kind of spoke on his behalf( for my own good).. Ofcoz, after I deleted everything (moon in aqurius) he posted this on Facebook ...* you are never as big a deal as you think, but you are never as small as they play you... Know your worth and make them pay you*..... It's a quote and he said *true talk*... 🙂 nice one right—? Ofcoz I didn't give him a chance to say whether it was ok if I was to walk out of his life I just decided to do it for my own self respect.... I'm the only person he trust at the moment.... So yay I am being totally mean..... But I had enough.....



Okay, so what was your question? Or were you just venting a bit and just needed to get off some steam? I can let you in and give you some insight, more than you probably want to hear. I can tell you where he's coming from when it comes to "not wanting to be in a commitment relationship" right now. I am a Venus in Scorpio myself and while I am very passionate, I am also very honest about what I want in life at any particular moment or period of time. And when we Scorpio guys say we don't want commitment right now, if ever, then we don't. And there's no changing that. I'm sorry for your getting hurt and about how you feel, but he told you straight up about what he was wanting. Again, I'm sorry for how you feel. But to answer your last statement: I don't think you're being mean, you're just stic
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@/silver scorpio. I wanted to vent for a bit yes, as his last post made it seems like I was playing him in some way. He was honest but yet I couldn't resist wanting those passionate kisses to something more. I knew It wouldn't work cause the more I'm with him... the more I wanted him to b loyal to me n without the title he had every right to play around if he wanted to. According to him he didn't but still, I gave so much but got nothing back it was painful. In saying so, he's changed so muh since then... Cause of me I'm not sure but he seems to want to share with me when he has succeeded things in some way n even gave me a forehead kiss. I just couldn't believe 6 months of us sharing moments, he has no feelings for me what so ever— That's so mean fr a Scorpio so I just decided to walk cause maybe he just didn't want a relationship ** with me ** full stop and I know I am worth it and deserve so much more.....,😢
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Not to be mean, but you should hear the truth.

When a man sees something special, he will move heaven and earth to be her. Finances, timing, blah blah will not stop him from committing. All that he's not ready is non sense. I'm not saying you're not special, but what you're really mad at is yourself for allowing a "situationship" to happen. A man will never upgrade a woman he's in a "situation" with to girlfriend or wife status because there's no incentive. You're giving him the benefits now. Thinking that he will eventually committ because of all the goodness you give him never works. The fact that he plays mind games shows that obviously he doesn't respect you. You're with him because of the potential. He's aware and is consciously half assing it. You're putting in major work where the prize is only getting him to do normal shit...something average that you should be getting now. Why go through all that?

Placements and astrology don't matter. At some point, you have to be real. When you demand respect, and ask for what you want from the start and don't compromise, he either steps up or he doesn't. If he doesn't, keep it moving and find a man who is willing to give what you want now. Relationships are THAT SIMPLE. Good luck!
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Not to be mean, but you should hear the truth.

When a man sees something special, he will move heaven and earth to be her. Finances, timing, blah blah will not stop him from committing. All that he's not ready is non sense. I'm not saying you're not special, but what you're really mad at is yourself for allowing a "situationship" to happen. A man will never upgrade a woman he's in a "situation" with to girlfriend or wife status because there's no incentive. You're giving him the benefits now. Thinking that he will eventually committ because of all the goodness you give him never works. The fact that he plays mind games shows that obviously he doesn't respect you. You're with him because of the potential. He's aware and is consciously half assing it. You're putting in major work where the prize is only getting him to do normal shit...something average that you should be getting now. Why go through all that?

Placements and astrology don't matter. At some point, you have to be real. When you demand respect, and ask for what you want from the start and don't compromise, he either steps up or he doesn't. If he doesn't, keep it moving and find a man who is willing to give what you want now. Relationships are THAT SIMPLE. Good luck!

My points exactly. Wish me luck to walk away without looking back.... I hve allowed myself to drag on for wayyyyy too long.... Time to walk for good... Hard but must be done T-T
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Placements and astrology don't matter. At some point, you have to be real. When you demand respect, and ask for what you want from the start and don't compromise, he either steps up or he doesn't. If he doesn't, keep it moving and find a man who is willing to give what you want now. Relationships are THAT SIMPLE. Good luck!



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as a sun taurus and venus gemini, i can say that i've been in a mutual situationship that got to my head and made me think i wanted more...even though i knew better, and i really didn't because i knew he wasn't right for me. but anything scorpio related is quicksand. trust me, it won't take you long to get over this. sometimes the heart wants to walk out into traffic, but your mind pulls you back and saves the day. 😉

and yes, to everyone's point, he said he didn't want a relationship, and that's what it was, is and will be. scorpios - and men in general (not all, my cancer was totally different), they choose you, not the other way around. we women are the one's with the power to keep them or throw them to the curb. (i just let out a secret! delete! abort!).
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Not to be mean, but you should hear the truth.

When a man sees something special, he will move heaven and earth to be her. Finances, timing, blah blah will not stop him from committing. All that he's not ready is non sense. I'm not saying you're not special, but what you're really mad at is yourself for allowing a "situationship" to happen. A man will never upgrade a woman he's in a "situation" with to girlfriend or wife status because there's no incentive. You're giving him the benefits now. Thinking that he will eventually committ because of all the goodness you give him never works. The fact that he plays mind games shows that obviously he doesn't respect you. You're with him because of the potential. He's aware and is consciously half assing it. You're putting in major work where the prize is only getting him to do normal shit...something average that you should be getting now. Why go through all that?

Placements and astrology don't matter. At some point, you have to be real. When you demand respect, and ask for what you want from the start and don't compromise, he either steps up or he doesn't. If he doesn't, keep it moving and find a man who is willing to give what you want now. Relationships are THAT SIMPLE. Good luck!



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as a sun taurus and venus gemini, i can say that i've been in a mutual situationship that got to my head and made me think i wanted more...even though i knew better, and i really didn't because i knew he wasn't right for me. but anything scorpio related is quicksand. trust me, it won't take you long to get over this. sometimes the heart wants to walk out into traffic, but your mind pulls you back and saves the day. 😉

and yes, to everyone's point, he said he didn't want a relationship, and that's what it was, is and will be. scorpios - and men in general (not all, my cancer was totally different), they choose you, not the other way around. we women are the one's with the power to keep them or throw them to the curb. (i just let out a secret! delete! abort!).

Wow you just described me to the dottttt!!! Me venus is trouble.. My moon saves me most of the time... Hopefully it won't take me long.. I just figured out my psyche is in scorpio hence I jumped right in where's there's soul+ connection involved... Everything makes so much sense..Taurus sun I know better... atleast I'm not overwhelmed by emotions.. I should be okay 🙂 thank u!!
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Posted by SunTauVenGem
Ok, ppl know my story, I finally ended an exclusive relationship with this venus in Scorpio man. 6 months on and his words were still the same. Didn't want a relationship and attachments. Months of me pouring my heart and soul to this guy. Did everything I could to prove my feelings were true..... Even bought him an expensive gift when he got redundant and yes he was touched. I just decided to do it for my own self respect.... I'm the only person he trust at the moment.... So yay I am being totally mean..... But I had enough.....



See this is where some women just don't get it right here^^^^
You first state you ended an "exclusive relationship"...there never was a relationship. I bolded why above.

Once he TOLD YOU he didn't want a relationship or attachments, that was your clue to move on. You chose not to and instead bought him an expensive gift and continue to throw yourself at him. That is not HIS fault or HIS shortcomings. It's yours and I'm sorry but that doesn't equal self respect, nor give you the right to bash Scorp in Venus does it?
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My points exactly. Wish me luck to walk away without looking back.... I hve allowed myself to drag on for wayyyyy too long.... Time to walk for good... Hard but must be done T-T



Well if you decide to look back just remember how bad it feels clinging onto something that's not there. ..and please don't walk..RUN it's healthier. Use that postive energy on someone who does want it.
Good luck!
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Ok, ppl know my story, I finally ended an exclusive relationship with this venus in Scorpio man. 6 months on and his words were still the same. Didn't want a relationship and attachments. Months of me pouring my heart and soul to this guy. Did everything I could to prove my feelings were true..... Even bought him an expensive gift when he got redundant and yes he was touched. I just decided to do it for my own self respect.... I'm the only person he trust at the moment.... So yay I am being totally mean..... But I had enough.....



See this is where some women just don't get it right here^^^^
You first state you ended an "exclusive relationship"...there never was a relationship. I bolded why above.

Once he TOLD YOU he didn't want a relationship or attachments, that was your clue to move on. You chose not to and instead bought him an expensive gift and continue to throw yourself at him. That is not HIS fault or HIS shortcomings. It's yours and I'm sorry but that doesn't equal self respect, nor give you the right to bash Scorp in Venus does it?
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Ok, ppl know my story, I finally ended an exclusive relationship with this venus in Scorpio man. 6 months on and his words were still the same. Didn't want a relationship and attachments. Months of me pouring my heart and soul to this guy. Did everything I could to prove my feelings were true..... Even bought him an expensive gift when he got redundant and yes he was touched. I just decided to do it for my own self respect.... I'm the only person he trust at the moment.... So yay I am being totally mean..... But I had enough.....



See this is where some women just don't get it right here^^^^
You first state you ended an "exclusive relationship"...there never was a relationship. I bolded why above.

Once he TOLD YOU he didn't want a relationship or attachments, that was your clue to move on. You chose not to and instead bought him an expensive gift and continue to throw yourself at him. That is not HIS fault or HIS shortcomings. It's yours and I'm sorry but that doesn't equal self respect, nor give you the right to bash Scorp in Venus does it?
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Sorry I dont agree with this point of view. Yes she naive in the way she held on to hope that he would change his mind. But the man certainly did not behave like he had any integrity either. Yes, he was 'honest' in that he told her that there was no future to this relationship. But couldn't he tell by the OPs behaviour that she was hoping for otherwise? Then continuing to be with her and take take all that she has to give makes him a jerk in my book. And the self righteous quote on facebook lol.

This was a messed up, self-obsessed, immature man. If he was any shape or form representative of scorpio qualities, then its obviously the worst ones.

OP these are the bad experiences and bad people that we have to encounter to grow. Take it as that and move on.
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Whoops! My message got cut off: So here it is in it's entirety. Okay, so what was your question? Or were you just venting a bit and just needed to get off some steam? I can let you in and give you some insight, more than you probably want to hear. I can tell you where he's coming from when it comes to "not wanting to be in a commitment relationship" right now. I am a Venus in Scorpio myself and while I am very passionate, I am also very honest about what I want in life at any particular moment or period of time. And when we Scorpio guys say we don't want commitment right now, if ever, then we don't. And there's no changing that. I'm sorry for your getting hurt and about how you feel, but he told you straight up about what he was wanting. Again, I'm sorry for how you feel. But to answer your last statement: I don't think you're being mean, you're just sticking to your principles and moving on. There's nothing wrong with that. You just felt it was time to go. I'll talk more about this tomorrow.
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Posted by SunTauVenGem
Ok, ppl know my story, I finally ended an exclusive relationship with this venus in Scorpio man. 6 months on and his words were still the same. Didn't want a relationship and attachments. Months of me pouring my heart and soul to this guy. Did everything I could to prove my feelings were true..... Even bought him an expensive gift when he got redundant and yes he was touched. Being a cap moon he shown me affection. Our kisses were intense and extremely passionate. From the Beginning he said he wasn't ready cause the timing was off, fair enough we let our relationship built over time and he became my best friend. I couldn't take it anymore and my trust for him slowly faded from his mind games.... His way of luring me back in and can't give me that commitment I was after... Yesterday we talked and I told him I will delete him off Facebook too and we should just end everything so I can move on from him. Obviously I gave him a chance to say if wanted to end things with us but he never did so I kind of spoke on his behalf( for my own good).. Ofcoz, after I deleted everything (moon in aqurius) he posted this on Facebook ...* you are never as big a deal as you think, but you are never as small as they play you... Know your worth and make them pay you*..... It's a quote and he said *true talk*... 🙂 nice one right—? Ofcoz I didn't give him a chance to say whether it was ok if I was to walk out of his life I just decided to do it for my own self respect.... I'm the only person he trust at the moment.... So yay I am being totally mean..... But I had enough.....



😕 smh....

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...what you're really mad at is yourself for allowing a "situationship" to happen. A man will never upgrade a woman he's in a "situation" with to girlfriend or wife status because there's no incentive....
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@/silver scorpio. I wanted to vent for a bit yes, as his last post made it seems like I was playing him in some way. He was honest but yet I couldn't resist wanting those passionate kisses to something more. I knew It wouldn't work cause the more I'm with him... the more I wanted him to b loyal to me n without the title he had every right to play around if he wanted to. According to him he didn't but still, I gave so much but got nothing back it was painful. In saying so, he's changed so muh since then... Cause of me I'm not sure but he seems to want to share with me when he has succeeded things in some way n even gave me a forehead kiss. I just couldn't believe 6 months of us sharing moments, he has no feelings for me what so ever— That's so mean fr a Scorpio so I just decided to walk cause maybe he just didn't want a relationship ** with me ** full stop and I know I am worth it and deserve so much more.....,😢


He's. Not. A. Scorpio.

I'm not sure how many times it needs to be said Sag Sun with a Scorpio Venus =/= Scorpio Sun. Wtf?
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Placements and astrology don't matter. At some point, you have to be real. When you demand respect, and ask for what you want from the start and don't compromise, he either steps up or he doesn't. If he doesn't, keep it moving and find a man who is willing to give what you want now. Relationships are THAT SIMPLE. Good luck!



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To make this short, I don't think I can say anything that hasn't already been said by the people on this thread except that you should leave and never look back. Don't respond to any calls or anything just go, get out and do what you gotta do to get over this. It's as simple as that and you sound like you've already taken steps to do that, so kudos to you!

And to agree with PhoenixRising: A Scorpio Venus does NOT mean Scorpio Sun. If he is a Sag man, then that is completely different than a Scorpio man. All Scorpio Venus means is that he is passionate in the love category and that's it! The Sun sign still trumps all. I hope this helped.
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Thank you all for taking your time out to respond to my post. I know he is not a Scorpio but he does act out like a Scorpio and with his in Capricorn he's not much of a sag at all. He notices little things I do or feel or act in public setting. Observing from the side . I am moving on though I have told him straight and clear that it's all or nothing now and I need to move on from him... I am not saying it's his fault at all in this situation... I cared bout the man.. He became my bestest friend... I didn't just lose a person I loved but I also lost my best friend... I am secretly hoping that me disappearing will tricker something in his heart or mind n that he will want b back as a girlfriend but I'm not waiting.. It took me a long time, we had that deepest bond connection... I knew him from the get go and he doesn't trust anybody. He's extremely insecure and place low value of himself... He's changed so muh , n achieved great things over the last 6 monts n I think my duty is over... Obsessed yes, totally... My psyche in Scorpio was all over that relationship.... I am healing.... Slowly... Thnks for all the supprt
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@/silver scorpio. I wanted to vent for a bit yes, as his last post made it seems like I was playing him in some way. He was honest but yet I couldn't resist wanting those passionate kisses to something more. I knew It wouldn't work cause the more I'm with him... the more I wanted him to b loyal to me n without the title he had every right to play around if he wanted to. According to him he didn't but still, I gave so much but got nothing back it was painful. In saying so, he's changed so muh since then... Cause of me I'm not sure but he seems to want to share with me when he has succeeded things in some way n even gave me a forehead kiss. I just couldn't believe 6 months of us sharing moments, he has no feelings for me what so ever— That's so mean fr a Scorpio so I just decided to walk cause maybe he just didn't want a relationship ** with me ** full stop and I know I am worth it and deserve so much more.....,😢


He's. Not. A. Scorpio.

I'm not sure how many times it needs to be said Sag Sun with a Scorpio Venus =/= Scorpio Sun. Wtf?
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Hehe... I love scorpio what can I say 😉
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@/silver scorpio. I wanted to vent for a bit yes, as his last post made it seems like I was playing him in some way. He was honest but yet I couldn't resist wanting those passionate kisses to something more. I knew It wouldn't work cause the more I'm with him... the more I wanted him to b loyal to me n without the title he had every right to play around if he wanted to. According to him he didn't but still, I gave so much but got nothing back it was painful. In saying so, he's changed so muh since then... Cause of me I'm not sure but he seems to want to share with me when he has succeeded things in some way n even gave me a forehead kiss. I just couldn't believe 6 months of us sharing moments, he has no feelings for me what so ever— That's so mean fr a Scorpio so I just decided to walk cause maybe he just didn't want a relationship ** with me ** full stop and I know I am worth it and deserve so much more.....,😢


He's. Not. A. Scorpio.

I'm not sure how many times it needs to be said Sag Sun with a Scorpio Venus =/= Scorpio Sun. Wtf?

Hehe... I love scorpio what can I say 😉
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The love is felt. Almost suffocating. It's also making you lose perspective.
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Ok, ppl know my story, I finally ended an exclusive relationship with this venus in Scorpio man. 6 months on and his words were still the same. Didn't want a relationship and attachments. Months of me pouring my heart and soul to this guy. Did everything I could to prove my feelings were true..... Even bought him an expensive gift when he got redundant and yes he was touched. I just decided to do it for my own self respect.... I'm the only person he trust at the moment.... So yay I am being totally mean..... But I had enough.....



See this is where some women just don't get it right here^^^^
You first state you ended an "exclusive relationship"...there never was a relationship. I bolded why above.

Once he TOLD YOU he didn't want a relationship or attachments, that was your clue to move on. You chose not to and instead bought him an expensive gift and continue to throw yourself at him. That is not HIS fault or HIS shortcomings. It's yours and I'm sorry but that doesn't equal self respect, nor give you the right to bash Scorp in Venus does it?



Sorry I dont agree with this point of view. Yes she naive in the way she held on to hope that he would change his mind. But the man certainly did not behave like he had any integrity either. Yes, he was 'honest' in that he told her that there was no future to this relationship. But couldn't he tell by the OPs behaviour that she was hoping for otherwise? Then continuing to be with her and take take all that she has to give makes him a jerk in my book. And the self righteous quote on facebook lol.

This was a messed up, self-obsessed, immature man. If he was any shape or form representative of scorpio qualities, then its obviously the worst ones.

OP these are the bad experiences and bad people that we have to encounter to grow. Take it as that and move on.
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Moon in Capricorn... selfish yes....
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@/silver scorpio. I wanted to vent for a bit yes, as his last post made it seems like I was playing him in some way. He was honest but yet I couldn't resist wanting those passionate kisses to something more. I knew It wouldn't work cause the more I'm with him... the more I wanted him to b loyal to me n without the title he had every right to play around if he wanted to. According to him he didn't but still, I gave so much but got nothing back it was painful. In saying so, he's changed so muh since then... Cause of me I'm not sure but he seems to want to share with me when he has succeeded things in some way n even gave me a forehead kiss. I just couldn't believe 6 months of us sharing moments, he has no feelings for me what so ever— That's so mean fr a Scorpio so I just decided to walk cause maybe he just didn't want a relationship ** with me ** full stop and I know I am worth it and deserve so much more.....,😢


He's. Not. A. Scorpio.

I'm not sure how many times it needs to be said Sag Sun with a Scorpio Venus =/= Scorpio Sun. Wtf?

Hehe... I love scorpio what can I say 😉


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@/silver scorpio. I wanted to vent for a bit yes, as his last post made it seems like I was playing him in some way. He was honest but yet I couldn't resist wanting those passionate kisses to something more. I knew It wouldn't work cause the more I'm with him... the more I wanted him to b loyal to me n without the title he had every right to play around if he wanted to. According to him he didn't but still, I gave so much but got nothing back it was painful. In saying so, he's changed so muh since then... Cause of me I'm not sure but he seems to want to share with me when he has succeeded things in some way n even gave me a forehead kiss. I just couldn't believe 6 months of us sharing moments, he has no feelings for me what so ever— That's so mean fr a Scorpio so I just decided to walk cause maybe he just didn't want a relationship ** with me ** full stop and I know I am worth it and deserve so much more.....,😢


He's. Not. A. Scorpio.

I'm not sure how many times it needs to be said Sag Sun with a Scorpio Venus =/= Scorpio Sun. Wtf?

Hehe... I love scorpio what can I say 😉


The love is felt. Almost suffocating. It's also making you lose perspective.
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Nod head.....
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Posted by SunTauVenGem
Thank you all for taking your time out to respond to my post. I know he is not a Scorpio but he does act out like a Scorpio and with his in Capricorn he's not much of a sag at all. He notices little things I do or feel or act in public setting. Observing from the side....


Understood. You do realize however that other signs also have this trait and are fully capable of demonstrating them. I think too many people that "love" Scorpios hype up their traits and get lost in the bullsh*t.

Posted by SunTauVenGem
I am not saying it's his fault at all in this situation... I cared bout the man.. He became my bestest friend... I didn't just lose a person I loved but I also lost my best friend... we had that deepest bond connection...


Hmph. Well you coulda fooled me because it certainly reads that way. It's unfortunate that your friendship is lost, but in all honesty that didn't have to happen. That deep connection would have made a beautiful friendship, but in true fixed fashion you couldn't let go of what you wanted although all signs (including this man's own words) said "stop", "chill out", "baby girl have several seats". Case and point:
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I am secretly hoping that me disappearing will tricker something in his heart or mind n that he will want b back as a girlfriend but I'm not waiting...I think my duty is over...
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Un huh. So basically you're not done, just hoped to manipulate him into being in a relationship by saying "you're done"--yet Scorp's are the master manipulators...as I stated, every sign is capable of the same traits. And 😕 I thought we covered the "girlfriend" piece.
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Anyway, all of that aside. Learn to be okay with being in a loving relationship that doesn't have to be sexual. When you add sex to the mix it should be icing to the cake--the cake comes first though. Make "him" (meaning anyone other than this man) earn your time and affection. You seem very sweet and I am sure that will be appreciated and respected by the right person. He wasn't the one. Not because he's necessarily a bad guy, simply because he wasn't the one for you.
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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Not to be mean, but you should hear the truth.

When a man sees something special, he will move heaven and earth to be her. Finances, timing, blah blah will not stop him from committing. All that he's not ready is non sense. I'm not saying you're not special, but what you're really mad at is yourself for allowing a "situationship" to happen. A man will never upgrade a woman he's in a "situation" with to girlfriend or wife status because there's no incentive. You're giving him the benefits now. Thinking that he will eventually committ because of all the goodness you give him never works. The fact that he plays mind games shows that obviously he doesn't respect you. You're with him because of the potential. He's aware and is consciously half assing it. You're putting in major work where the prize is only getting him to do normal shit...something average that you should be getting now. Why go through all that?

Placements and astrology don't matter. At some point, you have to be real. When you demand respect, and ask for what you want from the start and don't compromise, he either steps up or he doesn't. If he doesn't, keep it moving and find a man who is willing to give what you want now. Relationships are THAT SIMPLE. Good luck!



This is probably one of the best paragraphs I have ever read on this site.
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Just a small interjection.....My ex has a Scorpion Sun/Merc/Venus with Cappy moon and ill be honest he is just about the "coolest" person Ive ever met emotionally. Very placid, very cool, withdrawn. Same thing happened to me but there was some what of a relationship going on. But I spent half my time trying to crowbar him open and F that. Im a Gemini and I dont have time for that crap.
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Thank you all for taking your time out to respond to my post. I know he is not a Scorpio but he does act out like a Scorpio and with his in Capricorn he's not much of a sag at all. He notices little things I do or feel or act in public setting. Observing from the side....


Understood. You do realize however that other signs also have this trait and are fully capable of demonstrating them. I think too many people that "love" Scorpios hype up their traits and get lost in the bullsh*t.

Posted by SunTauVenGem
I am not saying it's his fault at all in this situation... I cared bout the man.. He became my bestest friend... I didn't just lose a person I loved but I also lost my best friend... we had that deepest bond connection...


Hmph. Well you coulda fooled me because it certainly reads that way. It's unfortunate that your friendship is lost, but in all honesty that didn't have to happen. That deep connection would have made a beautiful friendship, but in true fixed fashion you couldn't let go of what you wanted although all signs (including this man's own words) said "stop", "chill out", "baby girl have several seats". Case and point:
Posted by SunTauVenGem
I am secretly hoping that me disappearing will tricker something in his heart or mind n that he will want b back as a girlfriend but I'm not waiting...I think my duty is over...


Un huh. So basically you're not done, just hoped to manipulate him into being in a relationship by saying "you're done"--yet Scorp's are the master manipulators...as I stated, every sign is capable of the same traits. And 😕 I thought we covered the "girlfriend" piece.
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Yes, I am done being with him and is not being on the same page.. It's only been a day ofcoz I miss the man like crazy .. With the friendship.. He was and is my best friend. but if I go back to talking to him, I will want more.. We will go back to square one.. The cycle will start all over.. and I don't want that no more.. I chose the easy way out to cut all tires to make it the easiest for me like we never met... him on the other han
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Anyway, all of that aside. Learn to be okay with being in a loving relationship that doesn't have to be sexual. When you add sex to the mix it should be icing to the cake--the cake comes first though. Make "him" (meaning anyone other than this man) earn your time and affection. You seem very sweet and I am sure that will be appreciated and respected by the right person. He wasn't the one. Not because he's necessarily a bad guy, simply because he wasn't the one for you.

I will try my very best for the next man... however with this man.. We kiss 80% the rest is sex...... That's what I miss.. The kisses ** drools** got to pretend it never happened .....
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Just a small interjection.....My ex has a Scorpion Sun/Merc/Venus with Cappy moon and ill be honest he is just about the "coolest" person Ive ever met emotionally. Very placid, very cool, withdrawn. Same thing happened to me but there was some what of a relationship going on. But I spent half my time trying to crowbar him open and F that. Im a Gemini and I donthave time for that crap.

I figured, no matter what sun or what venus. Having a cap moon is a big factor.. It takes over their personality.. Emotionally repressive, cool, detached
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""sexy. Intriguing. Addictive. Exhausting. Overwhelming. Intense. Passionate. Never kissed a man like that in my life... The only one thing I will miss"".


i let go of a guy like this 14mths ago...at first it was difficult but the sense of relief i now have (only miss the sexy stuff now and then) far outweighs any yearnings i may have had to go back to it

let go and trust you will be left with something far greater


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hoelfully by then I can look back and give myself a big pad on the bak... Thank you!
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Just a small interjection.....My ex has a Scorpion Sun/Merc/Venus with Cappy moon and ill be honest he is just about the "coolest" person Ive ever met emotionally. Very placid, very cool, withdrawn. Same thing happened to me but there was some what of a relationship going on. But I spent half my time trying to crowbar him open and F that. Im a Gemini and I donthave time for that crap.

I figured, no matter what sun or what venus. Having a cap moon is a big factor.. It takes over their personality.. Emotionally repressive, cool, detached
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Yeah its honestly a terrible placement. I mean that in no disrespect to other Cappy moons but OMG....Its like dating a rock sometimes.
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Honestly I think you needed to pay more attention to the sun sign.

Sagg likes to play games... they are very hot and cold. I have dealt with two or three... can't remember, but EVERY SINGLE one would drop off the face of the earth, or act disinterested after a while.... if you don't like the games.... don't stick around.

I think it's best that you move on, even though it hurts. 😢
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Just a small interjection.....My ex has a Scorpion Sun/Merc/Venus with Cappy moon and ill be honest he is just about the "coolest" person Ive ever met emotionally. Very placid, very cool, withdrawn. Same thing happened to me but there was some what of a relationship going on. But I spent half my time trying to crowbar him open and F that. Im a Gemini and I donthave time for that crap.

I figured, no matter what sun or what venus. Having a cap moon is a big factor.. It takes over their personality.. Emotionally repressive, cool, detached



Yeah its honestly a terrible placement. I mean that in no disrespect to other Cappy moons but OMG....Its like dating a rock sometimes.
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replaced all feelings with an extremely dry humour.... n funny faces.. You just don't know if they are truly happy or sad... It's all covered up.. Scary really.
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Honestly I think you needed to pay more attention to the sun sign.

Sagg likes to play games... they are very hot and cold. I have dealt with two or three... can't remember, but EVERY SINGLE one would drop off the face of the earth, or act disinterested after a while.... if you don't like the games.... don't stick around.

I think it's best that you move on, even though it hurts. 😢

@ heart rocket. Thank you .! Yay cud b his sun playing game I don't know but I am moving on slowly .😢
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To Xin, PR, EXO and others, thanks 🙂 Just giving a little Sag truth lol.

At the OP, don't get me wrong. We all want love in the end. But you need a solid foundation and someone who is willing to build with you. Be wary of charms because they are deceptive. It's ok to dream. It gives you hope. But always keep your mind firmly planted in reality as well. You'll find the right man 🙂



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Posted by heartlocket
Honestly I think you needed to pay more attention to the sun sign.

Sagg likes to play games... they are very hot and cold. I have dealt with two or three... can't remember, but EVERY SINGLE one would drop off the face of the earth, or act disinterested after a while....

This is the wrongest thing ever about Sag Sun. You are all over Scorpio yourself. If any games at all you did start them. A Sag may try to give up if they feel the success is too expensive for them (impatient fire sign and joy oriented pals). They try to forget the past, move on and start new things. If they do not ran into a better love object their ambition and the flirt (and hope keeping little things you do) could bring them back to you.

On the other hand if you met some Sag Sun playing games, how do you know they don't have Scorp inside? Or aspects which make them challenge others?

Sag is sporty. They hang around for a good challenge. That means nothing.
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He's. Not. A. Scorpio.

I'm not sure how many times it needs to be said Sag Sun with a Scorpio Venus =/= Scorpio Sun. Wtf?

I agree Scorpio Venus =/= Scorpio Sun.
But is astrology that precise?
Haven't we seen people or situations where another placement or an aspect is often acting more than their Sun sign? Like how peaceful Pisces Moon overwrite even fight loving Sun signs?
What about situations? While arguments my Virgo sister is shining all with her Mars and Venus in Scorpio.
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Posted by Xin
Just a small interjection.....My ex has a Scorpion Sun/Merc/Venus with Cappy moon and ill be honest he is just about the "coolest" person Ive ever met emotionally. Very placid, very cool, withdrawn. Same thing happened to me but there was some what of a relationship going on. But I spent half my time trying to crowbar him open and F that. Im a Gemini and I dont have time for that crap.

This is an example of how positive aspects give better vibes.

Girls have the choice. Are they ready to wait a very long time for the happy end? Are they ready for the drastic change of how "happy end" looks like? If not then...
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