Venus in Scorpio. Silence and power?

... Silence - Power? How to not play along with it or the best way to play along but reduces the power game?

Power Games, like all games, get old after awhile.

Posted by SunTauVenGem
... Silence - Power? How to not play along with it or the best way to play along but reduces the power game?

Well not making a thread asking this question would be a start. I'm not trying to be rude when I post this. I post this to simply explain the very fact that you've created this thread means you are already playing along.

Disengage. Enjoy that other dude you were seeing and just live your life.

P.S. You often reference this guy as Scorp because of his Venus sign. That may be your mistake. Amongst a few other things.

I've heard that Taurus people have a hard time letting go, but this is ridiculous. Is this about the guy with a mental disorder?

Whatever shitty behaviour you're getting is now on you. Just let it/him go. Damn. Arent you tired of this crap already?

No no. I'm not talking about silences for a long period of time. I just mean 1 hr or hours.. etc... Or pretending through messages it doesn't matter to him when face to face he knows all facts and genuinely care n always watching out for me.. and always reading messages.. They are just more silence type and he admitted that it is the *power* and he likes having it.

Posted by WaterCup
I've heard that Taurus people have a hard time letting go, but this is ridiculous. Is this about the guy with a mental disorder?

Whatever shitty behaviour you're getting is now on you. Just let it/him go. Damn. Arent you tired of this crap already?

Mental disorder? No no that guy was out of my life a long time ago. he gave me full silent treatment and totally iced me out for good.. This is different I'm talking bout hr of hours of silence. nothin more. he will respond to questions though just not as talkative as my venus wud lyk him to be.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by SunTauVenGem
... Silence - Power? How to not play along with it or the best way to play along but reduces the power game?

Well not making a thread asking this question would be a start. I'm not trying to be rude when I post this. I post this to simply explain the very fact that you've created this thread means you are already playing along.

Disengage. Enjoy that other dude you were seeing and just live your life.

P.S. You often reference this guy as Scorp because of his Venus sign. That may be your mistake. Amongst a few other things.

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no we are good apart from him just being very quiet. His moon is capricon... full of mystery.. if I ask he responds if not then just quiet. He likes tobe Persued proven with facts in person... I ended things with the other guy. He also has V I S but he's nothing like one. Very saggy and very communicative.

What's funny is that I told him in person how he likes the power. and he said.... **power **... Like it's his fav ice cream or something. yay i learnt over time that it's just his way of having the upper hand.. if I ignore or he senses that I'm moving away.. He just comes closer n as soon as he gets my attention.. He just go on this silence mode.. today I said gud morning. He saw it and no response at all.. Met with me out dancing (Him singin ) all night and was watching me n my every move... he also tortures me on purpose.. To increase that sexual tension so I crave him more... well after weeks it does pay off and I love it how I can't figure things out and how explosive when we finally meet ... but after a while like today I don't really care anymore... It's almost like I'm done with this whole mind game and power game of his... so I'm going to be distance because I'm just tired of it n not because I'm playing mind game back. ..

Posted by Impulsv
I mean automatic he's playing powere game, vindictive , manipulating ect .... It's his Pluto, it's his Scorpio in mercury, it's whatever in Scorpio lol

Indeed... I just want to know the best way to * deal with it *... I got my plan.. 1) act as if nothing is wrong.. Talk like normal ( which is what I did tonight)... Or 2). Slowly become distant. Not as much contacts ( play it back on Him) ....or 3) just call him out on it and explain that I don't appreciate being ignored?... So far I been doing number 1... Leaning towards number 2..... not sure which one I shud stick with. I'm really sick of this mind game... In person he shows otherwise that he misses me etc n when i c him I know he wants me but when it's not together it's like his saggy comes out.. And when I wanna walk his venus comes out.... 🙂

I think the best advice is to be honest with him about your feelings for him and where you want the relationship to go. Don't play the games, it will hurt you more than it will hurt him.

~Or~ take Impulsv's advice, but that's not likely... Lol

I think having his venus he could sense that I am getting tired of it hence he's more responsive than he used to be... knowing that it will only drive me away. I have been honest about my feelings and he has been responsive towards to. thanks all I will see how this goes 🙂

Posted by Impulsv

Posted by SunTauVenGem
What's funny is that I told him in person how he likes the power. and he said.... **power **... Like it's his fav ice cream or something. yay i learnt over time that it's just his way of having the upper hand.. if I ignore or he senses that I'm moving away.. He just comes closer n as soon as he gets my attention.. He just go on this silence mode.. today I said gud morning. He saw it and no response at all.. Met with me out dancing (Him singin ) all night and was watching me n my every move... he also tortures me on purpose.. To increase that sexual tension so I crave him more... well after weeks it does pay off and I love it how I can't figure things out and how explosive when we finally meet ... but after a while like today I don't really care anymore... It's almost like I'm done with this whole mind game and power game of his... so I'm going to be distance because I'm just tired of it n not because I'm playing mind game back. ..

Best way to handle a game of power is take urself away from it. Completely not distance removal!

But u won't cuz u love the game quoted above. " I love it how I can't figure thing"

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So u r saying. Don't distance myself but just ignore the game and don't let it get to me?..Yeah I'm getting better at it. Nothing like getting power game advice from a Scorpio woman !! I am learning.. You are the master ! 😉

Posted by FixedWater
~Or~ take Impulsv's advice, but that's not likely... Lol

It's getting there naturally.🙂