virg-scorp

Hello this is gonna my first post in this forum, i am a virgo guy who is looking for advice right now..
first off ill tell you guys about my dillema

There is this scorpio girl i really like, I met her at work...well we are not co-workers actually...i worked in a grocery store and she worked in a bread store, every time they close down they give us there leftovers. One day a girl delivered the bread and I just fell head over heels for her so much that i asked her out the next time i saw her, she was kinda reluctant at first and shy when i asked her out but thats to be expected since i am a total stranger but i tried my best to be polite when i asked her out. The next day she came over our store and she agreed to go out with me, Our first meet up together and everything got so awkward for me...she asked me to pick her up in her place and there i pretty much met her entire family. I was really happy when i found that we have so much in common, we are both into video games and animes, we both have a shy personality and we enjoy more of our time spending indoors than outdoors. we only meet each other once or twice a week since we are bot busy with our lives in school and work. Our usual hangout is in my place where we play games and watch movies together. I have already confessed my feelings to her and she told me she sees us being together someday and she beginning to like me as more than a friend but she doesnt want it right now and then she said shes just slow. I told her that i would wait for her answer.


Now few months have passed already since i asked that and i want to see where i stand with her now.....nowadays when we hang out we have this friendly atmosphere between us and there is nothing wrong with that...its just i dont know if am going to the direction of being just close friends with her or having a relationship with her...im just afraid that later on she might just see me as a friend and not someone she can have a relationship with.
Should i just say fuck it and ask her where we stand now or just keep biding my time and just continue building our friendship.

This is simple.


Scorpio women love to be chased and hate to be ignored by the person they like.

so, stop chasing, and begin ignoring.

If feelings for you are present .... she will definitely do a 180 and make you realize her intentions with you.




Right now, you are playing right into her hands - you put forth the effort in caring and nurturing a relationship, which is you chasing her - you give her full attention and await on her decision as to the fate of any relationship potential .. and so long as you do that, she will continue to evade, because it all suits her ego the way it's going.

So, stop playing into her hands, and let her do some work, let her have to come to you.

To answer some of the questions shes 18 and just starting college and im 24 and currently working, she is doing 5 subjects in school and i was afraid we might not see each other anymore but she told me that we can meet up every fridays cause she said that is her freedays, also i think she is a very typical scorpio because she doesnt give her trust to another person easily and she is pretty shy, I remember when i told her what i felt about her she said aside from her family i am the only other person she is really comfortable with. but yeah the only time we get to really communicate is when we are together cause she doesnt own a cellphone (she things its a hassle to have one), she doesnt go online much in fb or anything else and if she did its just to check on her acquaintances and she never chats with anyone, and when we talk on the phone its just to confirm what day and time we can meet up again.