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wagamama
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ok for those that has been following my previous post(need advice). i said i was going to move on from my 4yrs relationship with my scorp girl. Today i got a text from her saying "call me wen u get it" i was like WAT? only for me to get home and to see dat she sent flowers, chocolate and a teddy bear for my birthday( my birthday is on Saturday not today). she also sent a lil msg on the card saying " I LOVE AND MISS YOU...ur girl (her name)". i am yet to call her cos i was blown away . wat does this mean?
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scorpio740
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15 Years

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Posted by wagamama
@scorpio740 really its only been two weeks we broke up. in the entire 4yrs we have been together this is the most "stir up my mind" she has put me thru.

should i give her a call?



well.. as a courtesy, I would say thank you at least. =) asking her back is a whole different story. but this is a good opportunity to make her explain everything..follow your heart.. you know her best. =)

4 years eh? hehe.. that's normal..she realized the relationship is too valuable to just throw away. she missed you and wants you back. that's all. 2 weeks for me is a long time you know especially if the person and I talk to each other everyday.



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Posted by wagamama
ok for those that has been following my previous post(need advice). i said i was going to move on from my 4yrs relationship with my scorp girl. Today i got a text from her saying "call me wen u get it" i was like WAT? only for me to get home and to see dat she sent flowers, chocolate and a teddy bear for my birthday( my birthday is on Saturday not today). she also sent a lil msg on the card saying " I LOVE AND MISS YOU...ur girl (her name)". i am yet to call her cos i was blown away . wat does this mean?



So ... are you two just "used to" each other?

Perhaps y'ought to have a conversation about the affection she was not showing you
( because you were not showing her enough affection )

I dunno, Socrp girls ...what do all y'all think about that?
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wagamama
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So i braced myself(i had to cos she is always full of surprises) and called, i was not expecting anything but she always gets me. There was this excitement in her voice that i must have heard maybe the first few months of getting to know her. The tone of her voice was so unexpected i got swept...lol. i really dont know how she does it but i didnt like the way it was so easy.she place the convo like nothing happened and wen i tried to bring up the topic all she said was "dont want to talk about it, we never broke up" Wat? and the worst part of it was my reaction was shocking to me i could not say anything against it.all i was doing on the phone was agreeing to everything she said... lol. she also wants to come visit me next month she already had the dates planned and everything . I thought i did brace myself for the convo.
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scorpio740
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Posted by Asleep
Hmmmm

When you originally posted, I thought she may have dumped you out of a lack of security/long term commitment. So, she went celibate on you for 6 months, and finally dumped you? This was long distance, so when you visited nothing sexual happened at all?

It sounds like she hooked up with another dude, and came back when she realized it wasn't going to work or the dude was a prick.

I would say to find out what happened, and don't get terribly excited over an order she placed online for you. "I love you and miss you, sincerly your girl" I would've probably thrown the latter half of that message away until I knew what was up. Break up and then decide on your own you are back in? Naaaaah, don't work that way.

GL dude, I'm sure you have a better idea than any of us what the deal is!



yeah, I thought the same thing base from his story. It's like she was with someone while they were still together (or at least lost interest in him and dated other guys while they were still together) and finally broke it off 2 weeks ago. LOL.






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wagamama
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yea trust i thought about all dat but i guess the way she turned things around on the phone got me.... again during this period of celibacy i kinda had my eyes on her thru someone she is very close to, dats not to say an event must not have occurred. but knowing who she is, she is smart enough to know better. she explained the celibacy thing as a form of cleansing... but i have decided to play cool until she comes to visit next month.
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wagamama
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Posted by scorpio_chic
It's very possible she went on a date or two with another guy but that doesn't mean that she fucked him. And maybe dating another guy and seeing that he didn't measure up to this guy might have been exactly what it took for her to realize how she felt about him. But it doesn't necessarily mean she FUCKED the guy LMAO so many skeptics on dxp.

If it makes you feel better, just ask her up front waggie. But don't make assumptions because they could be so far off. Just because she doesn't wanna talk about it doesn't mean she was out wylin. She probably is just embarrassed that she seems so indecisive & flip-floppy.



i think the scorp females on this board will really understand wat and y she did wat she did. i try to see things from her side dats y i come here to read about scorp and seriously 95% of wat i have read is wat she does... i know we will eventually talk about it, i see this action she is showing as being apologetic without saying "im sorry" which in a million years i can never get her to say. i just let her show it.
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scorpio740
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15 Years

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Posted by scorpio_chic
It's very possible she went on a date or two with another guy but that doesn't mean that she fucked him.



OH NOES, you date another guy while you're with me? or even flirted/entertained another guy while you're with me? that means betrayal for me girlfriend..she fukced him or not.. life's not going to be easy on this woman if she's with me.. hmm..let's see how wills he react IF I swayed my feelings and Date another woman.. don't worry, I won't Fukc her.. I know better *smile* see if this girl will forgive you after that.. lucky her wagamama is a nice dude.

Posted by Asleep
Yeah..
Considering she doesn't want to talk about WHY they broke up! "Oh, you don't want to talk about it? Can take these ol' cheap ass chocolates back for a refund!"
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High 5 asleep!!!! ^^^^