What are the chances of him returning

That sounds really bad about him. He has some really wonderful qualities too and stood by me through a lot of stuff as well. I do realize that I'm not perfect either and seemed to bug him. Just couldn't put everything into that box at once so went with what would give you an idea of the situation.

Thanks xdimplez. I really have learned my lesson. I don't think I could be in a relationship with him again unless things changed a hell of a lot, but I just like to have an idea of which way things might go. I think someone said in another thread that he might be keeping the door open in case things don't work with someone else and I wouldn't be surprised. I am using the time to learn from it so I can have a better relationship next time regardless of who it is with.

Thanks Tiziani...I've never heard of that before, but I had a feeling about that.

beautifulmountain..

What are the chances of him returning?

1. Don't chase.(chaser are always lose their chance of winning the Scorpio)
2. Be strong.(Be grounded and don't give him drama)
3. Tell him you loved him. ( this is the sign of your Strength, so express it)
4. Tell him you wish him a Good Lucks ahead ( this means you are not against him)
5. Don't contact him ( this is the last thing you have to do, once you do this. chances are he will
comeback..)

Good Luck.

Why do you keep making threads? Did you forget you updated us a week ago? Not exactly a slow fade..


11/13/2013 10:16:15 PM Quote | IP

Posted by beautifulmountain
Just wanted to update...

He never came back and I doubt he will. I just discovered he has posted a profile on a dating site. He never bothered to tell me it's over, although I figured.

I'm ok but some days are hard. I found out he's been flirting with other girls the whole time we were together and cheated on me. He also lied to me about many things and it seems like his so-called love for me was not really that at all

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/have-you-ever-really-messed-up-and-he-came-back-4411772/#4413341<BR>
So what's up? How much more reassurance do you need that he's a schmuck?

Posted by beautifulmountain
My question was slightly different. Didn't realize I needed to add it to the old thread.

Actually you've deleted your question, so it now makes this thread mute doesn't it?

You need to move on and away and stop torturing yourself with this guy. If you can't do that, while you are sitting there hoping and praying he comes back into your life, ask yourself WHY you want someone like that in your life who WILL hurt you again? Don't you deserve better? If not, WHY?