Capricorn and Scorpio

I recently got out of a relationship with one and lets just say it was very heartbreaking. I'm actually still pretty depressed over this. She left just because she wanted to be with her criminal of an ex boyfriend who has some serious issues. I don't know if she just used me to fill some kind of void in heart from her prev relationship or what but it was still great while it lasted. She usually tries to text me and call me and whatever just to see how I'm doing but I don't want to talk to her because it would just feel "awkward" and I wouldn't be able to talk to her without getting angry about it. I still like and I would take her back in a heartbeat but I still would feel "used". I think this match is great, but it depends on how willing you are to cut ties to the past and learn to move on and not be controlled by some overly crazy emotional shit that doesn't make sense to you anymore. To be honest Scorpios are great lovers, friends, co-workers. It's just that I shouldn't have become attached to her in the first place if I knew she was still hurting from a prev relationship. I don't know how to deal with it, it's very heartbreaking to even face it sometimes, but I try. Ever been in a relationship with a Scorp? How did it go? Did it last? And how did you patch things up afterwards?

I think that's a good point that your Scorpio needed to move on from her past before being fully present in the relationship with you. It's unfortunate that we can't do the emotional work for our loved ones that they may require before they can be a fully functional part of our lives.

I grew up with a Scorpio, but I have never been involved with one. I hear it can be a powerful connection, and that they are similar to Capricorns yet different.

I'm a Scorpio. To sum up your situation... if she left. That's a red flag because your Scorpio lady

still loved her ex. I am sorry to hear this. But heal your heart first. If her presence still hurting

you? then don't talk to her unless your healed.

Caps and Scorpio are good match. But She still in love with her ex. So let it go.

Posted by M
She usually tries to text me and call me and whatever just to see how I'm doing but I don't want to talk to her because it would just feel "awkward" and I wouldn't be able to talk to her without getting angry about it.

I'd leave it alone, feelings and all. Once these two signs diverge, it's too difficult to turn anything around and merge. Allow me to cover the bases :p

She will no longer be able to read where you are coming from, because in her head she has her own context for everything. As do you. Given her heart leads her back to that guy, it's a red flag...that valve for him isn't shut off. And it won't be until she gets there. Watch her go against her word/ sound judgment time and again to chase feelings.

But that's not the main point. Just save yourself the time, the effort, the headdesk and confusion. And let it go.

She probably feels a lot of the same concerning approaching you...trepidation, will you still maintain the same view of her...does this compromise her...a standoff with both of you uncertain and unwilling to make a move.

Younger Scorps are especially disastrous because they don't know themselves... and until they get burnt bad or trapped in a shitty scenario you'll never be certain she's weighed out her values including you as a friend (Like her concluding if you were filling a void). Even then. For a fixed sign they are kinda malleable, it's the feelings that root. But feelings fluctuate.

With your chart, this is won't be the last Scorp that will be drawn to you. And some may find you frustrating :p But nonetheless, you'd be better off with a Scorp who has more seasons under her belt so that you aren't the only one keeping the loopy stuff in check. With this pairing, you can't do it alone (nor should you have to with any lol).

My two cents. If you can find one really willing/sincere in making things work, you're golden. But chances are this one feels what she feels in the moment and who knows when other thoughts creep?

What's her chart if you don't mind my asking?

Posted by M
Wow.

None of those have me rethinking the does what she wants, chases her feels :p I could see it being great when good... but the bad... *shudders to think*

Sn1p3187,

Hey this is me..

Mars in Sagittarius, Venus in Scorpio, Moon in Sagittarius, and Mercury in Libra. She has a lot of Fire

in her chart from what I know.

Evolved Scorp are less dangerous than those unevolve.

So let chase her ex. She will give up later on. She's unevolve so she doesn't know how to use her

power being a Scorpio.