How do scorpios....

Deal with breakups? I dumped my Scorpio ex ( who I had been with for over two years). He removed me as a friend from Facebook, and won't even reply to my texts. I'm just curious about the Scorpio healing process

AriesandProud,

Scorpios take that personally...

Aquarius78,

Agree.

Posted by AriesandProud
Deal with breakups? I dumped my Scorpio ex ( who I had been with for over two years). He removed me as a friend from Facebook, and won't even reply to my texts. I'm just curious about the Scorpio healing process

Maybe he found out about the Virgo, Aquarius, Cancer and Cap guys?
Perhaps no contact from him might be a good thing.

Just a thought.

Posted by AriesandProud
Deal with breakups? I dumped my Scorpio ex ( who I had been with for over two years). He removed me as a friend from Facebook, and won't even reply to my texts. I'm just curious about the Scorpio healing process

Depends on the state of the relationship when the break up occurs and the size of one's ego.

Are you serious? I hate when dumpers ask such a stupid question.

Regardless of a person sign why would anyone want to talk to you after you dumped them? Exsp right away.

You made a choice and you probably really hurt his feelings horribly.

He doesn't owe you shit. Go on with you're life that you obviously think it so much better without him.

AriesanProud,

Scorpios healing process... when we are obsessed like in love with you we chase after you

but if we don't chase after you dump our beautiful ass... we just let it go and heal our

broken heart.

oh sorry... Broken pride not heart. lol

You "dumped" him? How nice of you. Do I sense passive anger in there? Truly if you consider that your relationship meant so little to you that you look at letting him go as dumping, why do you care if he ever talks to you again?

In fact I would venture to say this is an ego thing with you. Forget about it. Do both of you a favor and walk away and never look back.

Geez.

As hard as it is for the Scorpio ego to accept, Scorpios DO get dumped. Funny how it's perfectly ok for you to do the dumping but can't handle it when it's done to you. Hence the infamous Scorpio trait of stalking. You just can't let it go when it's done to you.

Just accept it, ALL signs do the dumping as well as being dumped. It happens to ALL of us.

Posted by AriesandProud
Deal with breakups? I dumped my Scorpio ex ( who I had been with for over two years). He removed me as a friend from Facebook, and won't even reply to my texts. I'm just curious about the Scorpio healing process

If you dumped him ... why do you care if he removed you from fb or left town even.

He would think there is another guy or that he was inadequate in some way for you - which is TRUE.

So he's doing you a favor while you get on with your life without him ( your choice )
and he's getting on with his life without you ( also your choice )
knowing that your relationship is not over until YOU find someone knew whether you have yet or not and he really does not want to know so that he does not need to knew which one is true:
there is another guy or that he was inadequate in some way for you

Unless you are retarded and are playing games, breaking up to TEST his love for you to see if he begs or whatever ( in which case you deserve what he'll give you if you contact him ...lol ... (own medicine ) ... then you should just live with your decision and NOT CARE what he's doing. He's gone because YOU WANTED HIM GONE ... and he gave you what you wished for .

Posted by BeoWulf

I don't know of any Scorpios whose ego has difficulty accepting being dumped. Ego is about REALITY, not what we feel we're entitled to.

What you have described is largely a LEO trait. Are you a Leo or do you have a Leo rising?

Scorpio's ego tells us that we WILL be dumped, forsaken, betrayed ... and it's only a matter of WHEN, not "IF". This is why we avoid forging relationships, and when we do, someone has passed our tests and we commit FOREVER because that is the promise we BELIEVE we were given by the other party. THAT is why we go BATSH*T when someone "dumps" us - it's betrayal ... and we so often CAUSE it to happen by mistreatment or neglect so that we can at least BE IN CONTROL of it somewhat and get it over with.

Posted by Rambunctious76
When I read stuff like that I can't help but feel a little embarassed about being Aries.

Posted by AriesandProud
Deal with breakups? I dumped my Scorpio ex ( who I had been with for over two years). He removed me as a friend from Facebook, and won't even reply to my texts. I'm just curious about the Scorpio healing process

Get over yourself and move on. He doesn't owe it to you to stick around.

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Why would you feel a little embarrassed about being aries. Aries are good people.

Agree with others, but from my limited view, if Scorpio is in any way angry at you/trying to heal, it'll be a long slow burn and not a quick one like Aries tends to be. Since you dumped him, he obviously feels rejected like he did something wrong and needs space from that. Cutting you off is his way of dealing with it, they either cut you off or take time to decide if they want you back.

Scorpio healing process:

He no longer wants to even move a finger for you. Yes, he will miss you, we are all human. But only until he falls in love again.

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Posted by Rambunctious76
When I read stuff like that I can't help but feel a little embarassed about being Aries.

Posted by AriesandProud
Deal with breakups? I dumped my Scorpio ex ( who I had been with for over two years). He removed me as a friend from Facebook, and won't even reply to my texts. I'm just curious about the Scorpio healing process

Get over yourself and move on. He doesn't owe it to you to stick around.

Why would you feel a little embarrassed about being aries. Aries are good people.

Not embarassed about being Aries. Proud of it in fact, until I read stuff like that then I go wtf...there goes the ego again...burning all the bridges...

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Lol. There's nothing wrong with burning all bridges, though.

Posted by AriesandProud
Deal with breakups? I dumped my Scorpio ex ( who I had been with for over two years). He removed me as a friend from Facebook, and won't even reply to my texts. I'm just curious about the Scorpio healing process

He probably just doesn't wanna look your face anymore. Outta sight, outta mind. You dumped him and I'm sure it hurt him, but now he's free to go be with anyone he wants.

Does it feel unsatisfying to you that he actually dares to move on with his dignity in tact?

Posted by M143

AriesanProud,

Scorpios healing process... when we are obsessed like in love with you we chase after you

but if we don't chase after you dump our beautiful ass... we just let it go and heal our

broken heart.

Haha! So true. And some Scorps ( like me ) will pretend like you never even existed and I personally have never taken an ex back and I never will. And you question why he blocked you on Facebook? You dumped him! So in his eyes... He's done you are excluded in his life.