What do it mean he says I wasn't suppotive?

So thansk for the advice I need some more, and like somebody said I will chill and use no caps, we cool?

So I talked o him finally Friday, he said he stopped talking to me because I laughed at him wanting to go to colege. That's not true all I said was that he had a good job already and didn't need no college to make some paper. And plus he wants to go for art or some shit like that. I mean, he draws cute little people or whatever but he has a good job with the city and it just seems like he wants to just go back oto college so he can try to holla at girls or whatever. He's 25, too old for that shit. So he said "yea, I need a girl who can support my dreams and you aint her, I don't need someone whos goin to shit on my dremas and laugh" bla bla, a lot of mess. He and I did the do, though, so I know he'll be back but I tell it like it is. It is straight stupid to give up a good job to go to college to study some danm art. So holla, cause it was good he talked to me but I aint heard from him since he came over, should I call him or text?

Hahahaha...you're funny.

But yeah, he's right. You should have been supportive. You're thinking about the practical...but he needs something to feed his soul...and art is what it is.

But when you love some1 you supposed to be honest with them. He aint going to make shit doing art and he is making close to 60 gs at his current job. If he said he wanted to take a class or whateva, that's one thing, but he wants to go to school on the side and cut his hours a little, and I'm not with that. If he wanted to be a doctor or lawyer, ok, but to draw some little cartoon people? nah. And I'm not the only one saying that, he said his auntie and his boys are telling him the same things, but he aint stop talking to them!!

Plus it's just weird shit. He said he was studying business then his mom had a stroke and he had to drop out. He aint trying to go back for business which makes more sense than art. It just seems like he pulls shit out of thin air and I'm not a female who just kisses her man's azz. If it seems suspect I will speak up.

He could make money off art...With today's technology/Internet grahics etc. How about you do some research on it and encourage him more. If he wanna be an artist then fine.

You wanna color baby, then lets sit down and draw...Either that or the next woman will.

"And I'm not the only one saying that, he said his auntie and his boys are telling him the same things, but he aint stop talking to them!!"

Cuz he probably expects them to say that...but he wants the person he cares about and who believes cares about him i.e. YOU...to have his back. It hurts him more if YOU ridicule him than if his friends or family do.

Encourage is breaking it down in a sense for him to reach the goal.

"Yes baby you'd make a great artist, but in the process of you following your dreams, you still need to live. So yes it's great, maybe you can take a few class to start"?


Not laughing at him, hurting his feelings, making him feel less than! You owe him an apology BIG TIME!

Self-centered .... are you a Leo?

I talked to him last nite and he was just like "if I was broke you'd leave me on my azz" and I said nah, but if you was broke because you were doing stupid shit, then yea, I wouldn't be down for that. I told him he needs to be praticable and think about his future and he was like 'i am thinkin about it and this what I want to do' and he kep thanging up on me and I kept on calling his stupid azz back tellin him to NEVA disrespect em like that, I'm already heated because he told me back then he was going to put up a video of me beggin him for sex on the internet and he said 'see you don't know me like that I wouldn't do that I was just messin with you' and bla bla.

So yea I can be supportive if it's not about bullshit and to be real I'm tryin to marry him and have his babies so I don't want him fucking around with some bullshit. all his boys live off they kids mom or they own moms, he's the only one with a decent job who finished high school and even has some college and yea it does get me heated that he thinks i'm not supportive or whatever because i'm not kissing his ass and yes I am that Leo dyme and I don't bit my tongue about SHIT!!!!

Yeah, I think you should BOTH go back to college.