What scorpios should know about others

Hello,

When picking a partner, scorpios should find someone who cares about them first. I think what some scorps connect with someone who can keep up with them, but what usually happens is that the other party begins to try to take advantage of the scorpios efforts. Sscorps should pick someone who not just responds well to their intensity, but rather who cares about them in light of this troubled world. Someone who would save them from their perils, not just someone who enjoys watching them battle. Scorpios should pick someone who they don't have to be intense with, someone that they can relax with, and be loved just the same.

Sex is important to scorps but if expressed to someone who is not 100 committed in return, it can mean more trouble for them. I encourage scorps to hook up with someone based on how much they love you, not on the basis on how much they enjoy loving you. This profile is a hard find but it is worth the search

When the other party isn't dedicated 100 percent, they are really trying to slowly attack the scorp. When the scorpio makes a wrong move, the other party evacuates for fear that their own lack of commitment will be discovered next. Most scorpios try to generate care from another party by being intense. This care, however, is rarely ever generated. Scorpios should instead be intense with those who care about them by default, and the rewards will be endless.

wow, you sound really damaged.


"When the other party isn't dedicated 100 percent, they are really trying to slowly attack the scorp."

" ... the other party begins to try to take advantage of the scorpios efforts."

"Someone who would save them from their perils"



save? seriously? as in, rescue you, from life? It is quite obvious to me that someone hurt you, but, instead of you looking at it from just a two-person level (you and the other) .. you have convinced yourself that it is a Scorpio thing.

I'm really disturbed by the below ....

"I encourage scorps to hook up with someone based on how much they love you, not on the basis on how much they enjoy loving you."

Some things in life are only intended to be for the moment, they are joys that come to a person in passing .... but, if you let yourself be bitter with love because you cannnot own it enough, then you will actually miss life.

Posted by Tasha69
u are kidding me

i cared about my Scorpio sooo much and that got me left high and dry

That's why I say that Scorpios should love the ones that care about them also. Instead of the other way around (which is what usually happens). So it wasn't your fault, it was the scorpios mistake to leave you, and likely he will return.

And likely he will return after he discovers nothing but a series of fleeting temporary ove

Posted by P-Angel
wow, you sound really damaged.


"When the other party isn't dedicated 100 percent, they are really trying to slowly attack the scorp."

" ... the other party begins to try to take advantage of the scorpios efforts."

"Someone who would save them from their perils"



save? seriously? as in, rescue you, from life? It is quite obvious to me that someone hurt you, but, instead of you looking at it from just a two-person level (you and the other) .. you have convinced yourself that it is a Scorpio thing.

I'm really disturbed by the below ....

"I encourage scorps to hook up with someone based on how much they love you, not on the basis on how much they enjoy loving you."

Some things in life are only intended to be for the moment, they are joys that come to a person in passing .... but, if you let yourself be bitter with love because you cannnot own it enough, then you will actually miss life.

You say that somethings in life are intended for the moment, which is why I say you shouldn't give 100 percent of intensity to such things. That's basically my point.

If someone hurt me personally or if I was damaged, I would likely be out seeking revenge. But instead I'm posting observations, so I hope that tells you something about the source of this post. I don't like it when an observation is coverted into a personal diagnosis from someone I do not know, but hey it happens. (And I am not 'damaged' by that either 🙂 )

Posted by Tasha69
awwwww

thanks 🙂 i wish. i doubt it though, because he is with another Cancer. i am a Cancer with a Scorpio moon btw, i understand him 😢

the Cancer he is with has Virgo moon. i don't get it. i respected his decision by leaving him alone though.

i would love for him to come back though. that would be really nice. he was really special to me. i wish! thanks again 🙂

Yep thats me! A wanna be scorp!! 🙂

Nah I think he'll be back I just suggest you dont give him a chance to come back.

Posted by Tasha69
honestly, if u are that Cancer pretending to be a Scorp i think u are a joke

Then you should start laughing (and maybe then you'll stop replying)

For the record, all Scorpios are damaged ... but, we'll save that for another thread.


You are proposing that a person never find love because of too many stipulations and restrictions ... and again, this has nothing to do with being a Scorpio.

Posted by Tasha69
i suggest u stop pretending to be something you're not

you're lame

bye

Look at it this way, If I'm not a scorpio but I'm just a Krab behaving the way I'm behaving, when did I say I was behaving for you? WHy do you have time to make posts about me, when I'm making posts about observations? I didn't make this post for a particular person, didn't make it for you. To me that kinda, well, lame.

I don't get it really. But hey, everyone's a winner on the internet. 🙂

I'm not a phony. I mean, if I signed in as King Krab id say the same stuff I said here...

But maybe you mean my behavior in general is phony, well I'll give some thought to that to see if that's true.

The truth is, I look at this website and any other website as a tool for discussion. Not as a tool to get to know someone. So if someone wants to make a personal conclusion about what I say objectively, they've missed the point for why I've said it. I'm curious to find out what people think, not discover who they are. So its my folly for thinking others would want the same. Especially on the internet.

But if you want to get to know the REAL me, its simple. I'm interested in growing with the people who are already attached and are growing with me. I feel like if I have to get to know someone, they are likely not a good fit for a long term growth partner (a close friend, relationship), so I can skip trying to sniff out who's who among the whos, and whoever grows naturally with me, those people know me and there is no "online debating" needed.

So, thats me... and hopefully the topic has given you something to ponder on.

Alright, so let me get this straight .. you are Krab, disguised as a Scorpio .. and over here telling the Scorpios how to be one.

And in so doing (instructing Scorpios), you use association of being a victim of circumstances to drive your point?

"Someone who would save them from their perils"




You're a Cancer, that ^^^^^^^^^ begins to make sense now.

Posted by P-Angel
Alright, so let me get this straight .. you are Krab, disguised as a Scorpio .. and over here telling the Scorpios how to be one.

And in so doing (instructing Scorpios), you use association of being a victim of circumstances to drive your point?

I'm going to throw a personal contest for the first poster that can respond to one of my topics without getting personally involved. But I suppose that is human nature.


Technically, you are correct, but who am I really, personally, is something you'll have to grow with me to find out. And since that will not likely happen, these technical details do not matter that much. This is why I encourage you all to take the content at face value, for face value is all that there will be.

As a bonus for me, because of this, its no skin off my nose.

SunScorpio

Nothing I read so far has EVER affected me so close to my core as you suggested who we truly need.

You are very original and very downright close to *I* (as a Scorpio) feels.

Thank you!

Funny to see this weird RAT woman on these boards talking non-sense. I don't think she knows any direction as to where north or south is.

LMAO!!! You all are too funny! Ahh how I have missed DXP.

Posted by DyTryin

What scorpios should know about others...

Here's something you Scorpios can REALLY use...

ARIES -- a great fuck, but an even bigger headache.

TAURUS -- will never understand you, but will always take care of you.

GEMINI -- yeah, get on board the train wreck.

CANCER -- moody as hell! You'll be the Stable One, but that role suits you.

LEO -- forget it. Not enough room in the universe for you and Leo's ego.

VIRGO -- a royal pain in the ass. But... he'll be YOURS -- and only YOURS.

LIBRA -- which way is up?? Exactly.

SCORPIO -- mutual death... by bunga-bunga.

SAGITTARIUS -- lively & loud, and... there's no mute button.

CAPRICORN -- heart of glass, and a pain in the ass.

AQUARIUS -- a fucking space cadet... but, kinky. Might be good for a quick fuck.

PISCES -- your best bet -- if you can find one who's not bisexual (unless you swing, too).

You're welcome!

Agreed about the air signs and fire. I think Cap and Virgo women can be great potential matches.