I'm in a relationship with a scorpio,and right now my x (which is also a scorpio )is trying to get me back.my problem is i love them both,the only reason i left the frist one is beacause he was confusing me with cold looks and his disappearing tricks.he kept pushing me away and it was making me question weather he really loved me like he said or was just using me like it seemed.i know that scorpion males like to keep things behind close doors but he really acted like he didnt wanna be with me,base on my pass relationships this ment two things but lead to the same thing,either i wasnt doing something right or he got bored with me,then he would dump me....so i droped him before he drop me.which was the biggest mistake ever....when i told him he acted so cold and just said"oky"smiled then left.before i knew it he had a new girl.then i got little love peoms and notes from and romantic/secert writer.he won me over with his sweet words.everyday now i see him with that other girl and when he was with me he never treated me the way he was treating her....(as a scorpio myself)i was pissed and we battled from afar huging on our new "friends"it came to the point that i fell for my new scorp and now to my dispair i found out that my new scorp is moving far far away.....knowing him,he wont be loyal long ,not without me watching him.it hurts me so much to see him go , i trutly love him and cant bear the thought of another girl holding his hand....unlike my last scorp he wasnt so cold...always kept on my case and honestly i love that he is like that.it shows me he cares,alot.and the moment i say something nice about another guy he start with that jelous stuff...^_^but its ok because he knows i love him.for these two to be so much alike their totaly different.in some ways.well to get to the point,my frist scorp calls me and tells me he misses me and starts CRYING! and saying he wants me back,that hes not happy with that other girl ,it was to make me jelous and that he REGRETS! treating me that way he did and that he STILL! loves me and ALWAYS will...to hear that from him,was like seeing my cat give birth to a cow.mr.cold and and mean had a heart...well i knew he did from the start but then he shut me out.he told me everything he felt.....and cried..O_Oi was awed.now i dont know what to do ,i have two great guys in each hand.one needs me and the other i know i need.but my new scorp is leaving and will not come back.and i hate far away romances,not so romantic...and he will cheat.and i dont think the old scorp will wait til he leaves.and its really hard for me to choose...'cause i love them both soooo much.knowing one is leaving is killing me.if he werent i wouldnt even think about my x....but knowing im gonna be alone again(cuz hes really the only person i got...)is making me think is it worth the wait,should i stay to cry that day .....or should i go back with the other scorps and regret leaving the other ,hes been nothing but good to me and i cant up and leave....im going back and forth between the two and its stressing me to the point my hair is falling out....i need advice i cant do this,i would drop them both but thats when my feelsing for them and knowing what it will do to them come into play....i know its one or the other either way....but which one....?my friends hate me for having two guys that like me.and my family just jugde and make things worse....PLEASE PLEASE ....advicers will be LOVED!please i really dont know what to do.....
what should i do?i got two scorps on my tail......

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Is it possible to love two people?..hmm..don't know..Go forward don't look back..
lol....i just have a problem leting my second scorp go....hes like none i ever had,i love him,but i know he will cheat.hes a guy.guys are like that.its something you cant control,no matter how much he loves me in time,he'll slowly let go....and its kills me to know that hes leaving....but then this other dude is making me choose...T_Ti know i love him too....and even tho he hurt me and we're not together, its still there.it always will be and he promised me he'll always be that guy down the block.....my relationship with the frist scorp is an unspoken one....we dont have to talk to know something's wrong....we see it in each others eyes.....its a way of talking to someone with no words needed....with the second scorp its kinda the same but he talks.he speaks out instantly he feels somethings wrong....and trys to fix it.i think a reason they are so different is because the second scorp was one day away from being a libra but thats besides the point....-_-
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Get a grip on yourself woman...Don't think the 2nd one will leave u..why so negative..Come on..be optimistic..you have two gorgeous scorps on your tail, both with a mighty firm grip..show them who's boss...

Yeah jokes aside..you have to just pick one or you'll end up very confused and unhappy...I say go for the 2nd one..thats just my opinion..

"i know that scorpion males like to keep things behind close doors but he really acted like he didnt wanna be with me,base on my pass relationships this ment two things but lead to the same thing,either i wasnt doing something right or he got bored with me,then he would dump me....so i droped him before he drop me.which was the biggest mistake ever...."
if that was a mistake, then why would you make the same mistake again and let your now b/friend go. if you two are good together then it's worth it to try and make the long-distance relationship work. this could mean you have to take a step back and make an effort not to be that possessive. take it easy, go with the flow, be honest and don't be afraid to get hurt. not that getting hurt is no big deal, but if you think that this guy is worth it... i don't think it's possible to get what you want and be happy without taking any risks. i don't mean you personally, just anyone, in general. that's the game, you have to risk your heart over and over again. if you don't and try to always play it safe, you've already lost... that's why it's so important to know that your now b/friend is worth it, because only a few people really are.
good luck 🙂
if that was a mistake, then why would you make the same mistake again and let your now b/friend go. if you two are good together then it's worth it to try and make the long-distance relationship work. this could mean you have to take a step back and make an effort not to be that possessive. take it easy, go with the flow, be honest and don't be afraid to get hurt. not that getting hurt is no big deal, but if you think that this guy is worth it... i don't think it's possible to get what you want and be happy without taking any risks. i don't mean you personally, just anyone, in general. that's the game, you have to risk your heart over and over again. if you don't and try to always play it safe, you've already lost... that's why it's so important to know that your now b/friend is worth it, because only a few people really are.
good luck 🙂

SK104 ~ Has Scorpio-II ever given you a reason not to trust him? If you need open, upfront communication to feel secure and loved in your relationships, I say go with Scorpio-II. He will, at least, keep you involved in his life -- that seems to be his character as you list above. Scorpio-1 doesn't seem to know how or perhaps want to do that for you, even though you would see him everyday. Has Scropio-1 influenced you distrust men in general?

Why not just date both?
Tell Scorp II that you would like to keep seeing him but want to see other people. Start seeing Scorp I and see if it is a better relationship this time around. Just tell him you want to start seeing him and you will be seeing others until you are both certain.
You aren't married or engaged to either of these men. Since Scorp II is moving away, it isn't fair for you to be kept on the fence. If he wanted you off the fence and for himself, he would propose.
Just my thoughts.
Tell Scorp II that you would like to keep seeing him but want to see other people. Start seeing Scorp I and see if it is a better relationship this time around. Just tell him you want to start seeing him and you will be seeing others until you are both certain.
You aren't married or engaged to either of these men. Since Scorp II is moving away, it isn't fair for you to be kept on the fence. If he wanted you off the fence and for himself, he would propose.
Just my thoughts.
and the thing is every day the frist scorp is all up on this new girl....i know i know hes not mine anymore and hes askiong for me back and stuff,but seeing him with her drives me crazy even tho i sit there calm and watching.he knows it gets me mad and he does it on purpose.today he was smiling at me with an evil smile rubing her knee and kissing her cheek.and since my second scorp got kicked out of school today(cuz hes alittle bad ass)i was alone and he made sure i knew it.i dont understand him.when i talk to him on the net he tells me stuff like he misses me and he will always loves me and he wants me back and he regrets us breaking up but then he pulls that crap.....i dont understand....hes making me feel like when i went out with him....like hes trying to use me.i just dont understand...
im not dumping scorp 2 not soon.....not yet....i just dont want to make the wrong choice when that day comes...i know when hes gone it wouldnt be fair to keep him to myself when we're soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo far apart.....i love him and honestly need him.lol...im not leting him go for the other scorp til hes gone or....he dumps me....
I wanna ask you guys something else.....if you understand this...
scorp one tells me that the more he likes someone the harder it is for him to show hes emotions toward them.....and he told me since he loves me....its difficult for him to talk to me...?
but if he really doesnt care about someone hes ok sharing stuff with them....and he told me he dont feel that same way about the thing he goes out with so thats why hes confortable with her?...
btw i wanna thank you guys for posting your ideas and advice...^_^
scorp one tells me that the more he likes someone the harder it is for him to show hes emotions toward them.....and he told me since he loves me....its difficult for him to talk to me...?
but if he really doesnt care about someone hes ok sharing stuff with them....and he told me he dont feel that same way about the thing he goes out with so thats why hes confortable with her?...
btw i wanna thank you guys for posting your ideas and advice...^_^
what do you mean by kill one bird with another?
O_O have them fight——??lol nah.....thats like have boming the school.....besides scorp 2 wont fight for me cuz he wont show his girl that he still likes me.i know scorp one would but if i tell him what scorp 1 is trying to do he'll bring a blade to school and cut himO_O
sscorp2 is the one i would choose over all...but hes not loyal unless im watching his ass....so hes moving really far. so you kow that whole thing...then scorp 1 is sweet talking me and trying to get me back....now if scorp2 wasnt leaving ill send hes ass to kill scorp 1 but that whole drama with him leaving and me not wanting to end up alone ine the end and still loving scorp1 is not helping....
yup! you got to love the bad boys.but hes only bad when needed like if someone starts with him.hes like robinhood!! 😆 hes a good guy and loves to defend people....dont get me wrong scorp one is a great guy too,but less outgoing and more quite.scorp 1 is that guy in the coner dressed all in black writing a poem or reading a book....scorp two is that guy stealing the lunch money back from the bullies and giving it back to the kids they took it from....*_*
both so sexy.....its a scorpio love triangel....lol
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