What sign can you not tolerate?

Don't forget to tell me why..

I can tolerate anyone, but I seem rather out of sorts in the presence of Geminis and Leos. They just have a completely different way of carrying themselves, acting, talking, thinking, etcetera than myself. Not that I don't like some of their qualities, but friction seems to rear its head quicker between myself and these signs than any other sign.

I am a cap and find I get on with most signs or can at least tolerate them to some degree. The sign I find hardest to cope with is gemini. I find these people like to talk plenty but that a lot of the time its just pure crap they speak or they go from this way to that way. Everyone likes to chit chat but when its an important decision or so to be made I much prefer straight talk. Find that geminis dont like to be straight to the point and think this is because they dont want the responsibility if the thing goes wrong.

Aries Men & Women & Aquarius Men.
Scorpio Woman

While I agree that astology has a role to play with people and how they react to the universe and situations...I fail to see how you think you can pigeon hole an individual on the basis that they belong to a certain sign when infact all astronomers agree that it's an ideal, a guide nothing is concrete in terms of asrology

What saddens me evan more is the fact that you say you cannot "tollerate" them...how dare you judge a person like that before getting to know them...?

The beauty of life is that we are all individuals that interact on a common plane all of us affected differantly by the same influences as we react differantly to those influences because of how we were raised and how we percieve they will affect our lives.

Basically what I mean is we are the only ones who can affect our lives through our choice. If you choose not to tollerate somebody this suggests that you think you are perfect...that's what tollerance is....accepting faults in ones self and others...you tollerate them and their differance...

Now...how many of you who feel the need not to tollerate people believe you are perfect...and if you are perfect why are you here...—

AMEN! can we get another?

I agree totally! To the above comment about not liking certain signs. The most important part is the moon sign. That is your inner child. So, don't be so quick to judge people. I am a gemini and i have a virgo moon. So, I mostly likely will appear act as a virgo with my emotions and feelings. In addition, i normally don't click with scorpios because i find them to take every little thing to the third degree, I rather see them smile or laugh, too sensitve, and too emotional overall. In love, they are so in love it's obsessive, and they try to control their partners. Very critical. Now take that and compare it with how gemini personality is. VIvacious and the king of communication. You decide.

Decide what? Which sign is "better"? Neither, although my lower self is tempted to say "the sign that doesn't brag about itself".

Durrie, you should take note of the fact that while the question was asked "what sign can you not tolerate?", nobody asnwered by saying, "I cannot tolerate ___". So just everybody relax! We're having a discussion where people get to share who they get along with best and who they don't, and people have a right to say what they want to say and share what they want to share. Just like the above poster who normally doesn't click with Scorpios....

Anyway let's not make huge long speeches about the larger scheme of everything and for once. Let's just have fun with the topic!

There are two diffrent scorpio women to let you all know that was not my post above.

I like all people, I think that everyone has diffrent oppinions and veiws on things and that is where we find ourselves fighting and struggling about things.

I agree as usual with phoenix. Let's not get all philosophical and long-winded when it comes to answering the question and for Pete's sake just answer the darn thing!

Anyway, I'm an Aries and I can't stand Librans, Geminis, or Cancers. I find them all to be unstable, moody, and/or suffocating.

Correction: To be PC, I won't say all of those signs I mentioned..just the many I've known.

And what sign are you 130? Must be a Scorpio! Once again, there are more to an individual than just a sun sign! These comments are stupid!

Excuse me a Aries with a Scorpio rising no doubt!

What a treetrunked up stupid question! Can't do better?

But you have to acknowledge the fact that not all human relationships are smooth sailing, and this is an astrology board so the original poster is basically just asking how or if astrology has anything to do with human relationships. You know, it is good to try to seek out the root of why some people "click" and some don't and astrology is just another means of investigation into that. If you don't believe that astrology has any bearing on personal relationships, then that is fine, but some people do.

phoenix

If you want to get into then do so! I don't see this question as very inlighting or educational!!! Why not ask all people born in the year 1965 or all people born in the month of October etc... I say it was an stupid question and I still say it is!

Okay, you are certainly entitled to think and say so.

phoenix

"Anyway, I'm an Aries and I can't stand Librans, Geminis, or Cancers. I find them all to be unstable, moody, and/or suffocating."

Nice! Thank you for your kind words! I just love reading this kind of garbage; it just makes my day!!!! I just don't understand why you would want to start this kind of thread. Why not, what signs do you like the most/—

64.12,

Hey, why don't you start your own topic then? And stop b*tchn and moanin on other's threads when no one's forcing you to read OR reply to them.

...Geez, the poster was probably only trying to livin things up around here.
(And I guess s/he was successful if that was the case!=D)

Well, I think this is rather fun so...I get vexed with virgos...hehehe....i've found most are very, very one-sided. And I don't like the sagitarian males' reactions in certain situations. They can blow up and you sometimes you can't help but react back..which is a big no-no. And I find it futile to argue with a cancer, they delay their reaction until the situation is done and over with,... cancer females anyway.

To the comment about geminis being suffocating. That is not correct! Everyone knows that gems are too flighty and changeable to be that way. Read up on it dear.
Most of you suffocate us.

Actually it is possible for gems to be suffocating...I have known a few who are really, really clingy, and in your business all the time. Not all of them are that way, but I've known some that are.

phoenix

I don't like pisces and im a pisces. I mean, I think we are compassionate, intuitive and blah, blah but it gets way to mushy for me. I also can't stand cancers, they seem IN MY OPINION to be really 2 faced. But I must say for all of you going bonkers on this chat board that I love any and all people as a whole. There, are you happy 64,66.

"it gets way to mushy for me."

I like mushy and sentimental men!!!

"There, are you happy 64,66"

That was me 64.12. I over reacted emotionally and I tend to take things too personally sometimes. I am working on not doing that. I will try and be friendly but detach myself, ok 198!

This was an enjoyable post for me...
I can see Durrie's point...and Phoenix always impresses me with her comments...

For me, it depends on what my relationship with any particular person is...a love relationship vs. friendship.

I can be friends with any sign. But, I have learned to be clear in my communication if I do not like something about our relationship. Recently a Gemini friend said to me, "I don't get it. You can be bossy without being bossy." I am assertive and tell my friends if they are expecting too much of me at a given time (if I have the time...that is one thing...but, if I am stressed with my own issues, then it is a different story...)

Love...I will never be an expert in love affairs! I have not tried all 12 signs and quite frankly, I have no desire to!! The one sign I would never try again in this department is Taurus. It is true that we are both 'fixed' and therefore very stubborn. I did not like myself when conflict arose because I could not only be stubborn, I could always outsmart him...I didn't mean to...it just seemed to happen (too often!) He would sit there with a red face and nostrils flaring (bull-like), but speechless.
I have met my closest match in my own sign...but, even he drives me nuts!! However, when he does...I distance myself until the next round...
I think I ruin my own love relationships by not being everything a guy wants...I am too strong for them...I have my own opinions and can verbalize them quite well (without a fight)...sometimes I think a guy just wants a girl who looks good on his arm, but wouldn't score very high on an IQ test...
But, that is just me...

I am curious about your opinions girls...
Phoenix...
Susan...
Any others...
What are your experiences with men dealing with a 'strong' woman?

216...God, you are so on point about the "trophy woman" many men seem to want these days. They kinda want you to just shut the hell up and look pretty a lot of the times. It's very frustrating for those of us women who are strong and opinionated and like to verbalize our thoughts on things.

You don't necessarily have to be forceful to come across as such. Just by stating your opinion on something you're assumed to be too strong or whatever. It's taken so negatively. Ashame that a man can't handle you, but you'll just have to find a real one who can.

They're out there...I know it. I see them everyday, and unfortunately they're taken. Keep the faith.

I am an aries woman and I have an affinity towards virgo men (because they propose the greatest challenge or longest battle). I also like aries men they titilate and have the capacity to understand me like no other. Pisces men get on my nerves because they are just too much, freaky drama kings. Saggies I love but at the same time have to put on my 'armor' because they can get ya when they want to. Ouchies suck. Cappies can be slow and stubborn as crap barely worth their indecision. And scorps seem like the kind of mate I want to end up with. Never tried any others. That's my love life. All my girlfriends are aquarious, and virgos. Oddly enough ALL OF THEM,and I do have a small network how ironic is that.

My biggest challenge in the zodiac signs has been Cancers men. I have no problem with the women other than I think they're to mushy for their own good and is the #1 reason why the entire world can take advantage of them (and then they complain about it?) but I find the men a bitter pill to swallow for some reason? They are to insecure, lack confidence, are childisly brooding and moody, indecisive and just plain to much of a homebody and boring for this Sagi!

I am loving reading your opinions...thanks!

My daughter's father is a Cancer. We get along soooo much better as parents who do not live together! LOL!
I really like him as a friend...love just complicates things for a Cancer, don't you think? I mean, worse than Aquarius!! LOL!

Looks like Cancer is on a lot of people's bad list! Glad I'm not the only one.

looks unfriendly around here, guess i'll just crawl back into my shell and have a good time without yall.

Haha...this is sooo funny to me.

the last post especially cracked me up....nice 1 205.188 atleast you realise you don't need them or their insecurities to live a happy life...

All these reasons listed above for not likeing a sign or person stem from one thing and one thing only...

PERSONAL INSECURITY...!!!

One of the biggest lessons to learn in my opinion is to get over yourself people. It's so blatently obvious that it baffles me how you cannot see it...

All of the replies say...I don't like X because of Y...lol. X and Y can be anything you want but they all relate to one thing and one thing only...the person who's mouth they came out of...that's the reason you don't like them...because they actually apply to yourself.

While I agree with the whole freedom of speach thing and you don't have to answer the post if you don't want to...why would you choose to tempt fate and even participate in a topic that breeds contempt through it'd very nature...ie. "which signs can you "NOT STAND"...

You are more than entitled to have your own views and opinions but only a foolish or negatively driven person would deem it fit to participate in such a worthless discussion in it's essance...

Spread and share love people...keep the hate to yourself...work on it...share more love and eventually the hate will disappear.

Love and light to all...
Durrie.

If I don't like something in someone

Sorry about that last bit...don't even know where it came from...lol.

Durrie, I know what you are trying to get at which is that no matter how you slice it, a topic such as this is going to breed negativity...you are right, BUT--remember how earlier you and I were discussing the fact that everything in life is a choice? Well, not everyone on this thread has gotten dirty in their replies...I certainly tried to answer this thread with as little negativity as possible...in fact if I remember right all I said was that there are two signs that I have had difficulty relating to...so I don't think it automatically makes a person foolish to even reply here--it is all about making the choice to answer tactfully, without attacking ppl...do you see what I mean? The original poster chose to word the question the way he/she chose to word it...we all responded the way we chose to respond--but not everyone did it by being negative.

216---woops sorry I just saw the question you posed to me! : )

As far as men dealing with me, when I was younger, like high school age, I found that I had to stifle myself A LOT in order to not "scare" anyone away. It worked, but since I am not with anyone I dated in hs now, I draw the conclusion that it only hurts ME to not be myself...that doesn't mean there's no place for compromise, if the other person makes a good case for it. But now, the way I am with men, is the more I care about them and the safer I feel with them, the more I open up with them and the more they get to see my strong side, as well as my weak side. I have found that it is a waste of time to open up and be strong and outspoken and waste all that energy on someone who I don't have strong feelings for.

If any of that makes sense : )

I can't stand Taurus, and I also have problems with egocentric aquarians.

Sag Women and Cancer man drive me up the wall.

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that's good ta know pardner, I'll file that away for whatcha call future reference.

Virgo and Leo.

I've had several friends who were Virgos. I am still friends with one of them, but I have found Virgo women to be quite emotionally manipulative and backstabbing.

I love Leo's energy at first, but then the, "but enough about you, let's talk about me....AGAIN....for 9 hours!" gets old real real fast.

The sign that I find myself not getting along with that well is Gemini and Leos. But my best friend is an Aquarius, and i am really questioning the friendship, because you know what? If I could I would knock her upside her head with my Snapple bottle and throw her off the Empire State building. ..

Oh, I forgot about most Cancer guys...

and Saggitarius...Capricorns are my love/hate friends

I have a terrible time with Aquarians, they always want to run my life. My mother was one, I ended up in California for a year with another (broke my heart), and my boyfriend's dad is one and he runs his life. I think they are very intelligent, think out of the box, and are resourceful. But they expect (sometimes demand) that you believe and think as they do.

Ok I wasn't going to post on this topic at first, then I thought....aww what the heck- I hate to say this but I have had the most problems with Gemini women- I don't know why but no matter how much I try to get along with them- NOPE- and it's not me, it's them- they usually act snobbby. At one of my jobs there were two Gemini women I came in contact with- one was the hospital manager and the other was a receptionist- the receptionist was sweet and funny- we did get along but I think that was because she was older but the manager- as nice as I go out of my way to be, I wound up saying a very nasty thing about her in front of some other people that I work with and then topped it off by saying-"and I don't give a damn who goes back and tells her".

When I get to that point, then I have really reached my limit because being a Pisces I have a high tolerance/forgiveness level.

Gemini men I get along with but I haven't come in contact with many- my youngest brother, he and I were really close and he would always have me laughing- and then there was this guy that I went out on two or three dates with- he was sweet a gentlemen but then there was this one guy when I was in college- We were always at each other throats, lol. People thought we were destined to wind up together because we would be back and forth everyday, but I really didn't like him, lol.

I also had a rough road with some Taurus women which totally shocked me because I instantly became good friends with this one girl who was a Taurus and was madly in love with a Taurus man at one point- that has thrown me off quite a bit.

Oh well, there's my two cents🙂

Oh BeautifulScorpian, had to tell you had me laughing with your comment about your Aquarius friend, sooo funny🙂

Oh and come on, people, lay off the Cancers!!! My current love is a Cancer and yeah he can make me really really mad sometimes but they love soooo deeply. The moodiness they just can't help! I have to admit the insensitive two-faced thing is something I have encountered with the Cancer women, one who was my best friend at one point- we were sooooo close- but I just couldn't take her being that way to me anymore- it just hurt too too much- I just stopped talking to her altogether but I will admit that I still think about her and will always love her.
And then there was this other lady I worked with who I had met and even went to a party at her friends' home and even went out with her and her husbands and those same friends, but she turned out to be two-faced as well- really hurt me, but hey.

The thing that's funny is that I instantly become attached to Cancers. It's like I have Cancer-radar for these people, not to mention my only sister being one.

All of my closet friends female- have all been Cancers and I was also really close with two Libras and a Virgo and now at my job this other Virgo lady.

Ok, now here is what is now my six cents worth, lol

Well for me! Taurus men are complete liars.....they lie about everything . They are so good at it. They consume their own lies themselves and if you don't see it coming, you will fall into their lies of excuses with really never a good reason. Can't have that!!! Virgo men get on my nerves. They talk to much, and they critize to much. They think they can move mountains when you are the rock of ja-bolter.