INTERNAL AFFAIRS

Scorpios,

Why must you investigate people so much. I have noticed if a Scorpio is interested in a potential mate, they will go a little over board investigating them. I know you know what I'm talking about; I do it too!!!

Why not just let yourself go and live for the moment and whatever happens, let it happen!

All this seems to be wasted time.

LS/C

allow me to clarify that. It would be sooo much easier to just be up front and learn as you go along. Take some risks!!! All this stopping and starting is not getting us anywhere. It becomes redundant and it is slowing down the growing process and eventually the person who is being investigated gets so frustrated, they start to give up!!!

I don't want to do that. My heart tells me not to give up, the feelings I am having may never come again, but at the same time it can be agonizing to have to be pushed away!!! I don't know what to do, so I will wait! I know what I want and I am being patient, but just don't take too long!

LS/C

I think that scorpios because they are very emotional, they are afraid of getting hurt, another thing that I can think of is some scorpios have things that they look for in a mate- relaionship and they only want to be with those people that have those qualities. I know as being a scorpio that I have taken alot of risks with relatioships and getting my heart broken. (lol that sounds so pathetic) 🙂I do explore my options but I also kinda like to know what I might be getting myself into.

-Scorpio Woman-

I know Scorpios are highly emotional, so am I. I just feel they over do it on the investigations. It can become a invasion of someones privacy. And why not ask the person outright. A person will eventually reveal who they really are.

I agree, I never just jump into a relationship, so I give it more time to get to know someone, but it doesnt hurt to ask questions. If they feel as if they are being invaded, then they need to tell that person that they are not that comfey with talking to them about the personal issue right now and the other should accept that anwser.

-Scorpio Woman-

Scorpio Woman,

I really don't mind and they(at risk investors) have every right to do all the investigating they want to!!!. I can't blame them a bit, as a matter of fact I think it is rather smart! Like you said, and so well by the way Scorpio Woman, you want to know what you are getting into to!
I couldn't agree with you more! I just thought I would throw it out there anyway! It was just an off the wall thought and I really already knew why! I guess I was bored?!

LS/C?

No by all means this was a good question and I am sure that alot of people would have said the same. No question is a dumb one.

-Scorpio Woman-

Scorp woman and saggiman,

Let me ask you something, and I don't mean to offend you by the way! If you and your fianace are so happy and in love, why are you talking to each other over the internet!? I really don't get it!? Most people on-line here are here because their lives suck not because they are so great! If I had what I needed I sure as hell wouldn't be here! Just a thought! Hope you don't get too pissed off for asking!

LS/C?

LS/C,

I know this question wasn't directed at me, but I don't think everyone's lives suck who post here. Mine doesn't suck, I have my problems but none severe, and I find it adds something to my life, posting here, asking questions and answering others. It's just a diversion, and a way to connect with other people who I wouldn't ordinarily get the chance to connect with.

-phoenix

P.S.

I don't think anyone on the planet has a consistently happy, blissful life--there are moments of happiness, some people have them more than others, but happiness and bliss is not constant for anyone, like every other emotion is not constant.

And I have been around a little longer than you; Phoenix, and I can smell BS a mile away and I am tired of it! It is getting to the point where you can't believe anyone anymore. I am sick of the dishonesty and the bullshit! If someone out here wants to be honest and have a decent conversation, I am here!

LS/C- again like I said before he was at wk and I was at home that is the reason why he did what he did. Just because you dont think that we might not be happy because we are on here that is s***. Further more we were talking last night to each other about how nice we thought you were for saying what u did about the post...I guess we spoke to soon.

-Scoprio Woman-

My apologies to you SW. I was wrong and I am sorry!