What sign is most compatable with a scorpio?

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This is not from what the astrologers say but from personal experience?
My experience -

Capricorn: Great compatibility as they are caring and loyal, but after 7 years together I found myself bored, I was bored long before I called in quits but stuck around because I loved him...I just wasn't IN love with him any more. I think these men are probably the dream man for the woman who wants a loving husband, children, the white picket fence but I began dating him when I was 16 so perhaps it was the right man but the wrong time. One day I will probably realise he was the one that got away.

Scorpio: I personally would never date a scorpio again. Perhaps I just has a bad experience but he was overly possessive, jealous, controlling and manipulative. Me being a scorpio found it odd as I am not like that (I can be possessive but not overly) and I basically had to block this man completely from my life and call the popo, he was actually that much of a nutbar.

Sagittarius: They are fun but not long term. They have no substance. They tell you want you want to hear, but their words hold no true meaning and then they chase you to the ends of the earth when you walk away. I have nothing bad to say about them as a person, but not right romantically for a scorpio.

Taurus: Ahh the ones you hate to love. There is something about Taurus men that catch my eye. Prior to this year I had never had an interest in a Taurus man (Or maybe I did and I just didn't know he was Taurus) but this year there have been 2. I think Taurus would be the perfect match for a scorpio, if only we could only learn to compromise. Problem is that we are too similar in both our good and bad aspects. It's the bad aspects that are the problem as we are both too stubborn, righteous, have too much pride etc etc that it can get in the way of a good thing.

Virgo: I am currently in the early stages of seeing a Virgo. He's chill, fun and easy going from what I can tell so far. He has had a few issues with the fact that he can't quite read me and has mentioned on a few occasions that he doesn't get me (mainly because I don't text him often and my replies are usually short). I think he is just thinking into shit way to much. I'm not sure where this will go but I look forward to finding out.

Please let me know what sign you have found the most compatibility with?
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I think it really all depends on individuals but I will say that my first true love was a Virgo (im a scorp..10/25 so I guess on the cusp). We were high school sweethearts and together for 10 wonderful years. It ended for multiple reasons, all of which were my fault. I moved out because I needed a change, we had gotten way routine and things were just too placid. I still love him to this day, just not the same love. He will always have a place in my heart though. That being said I would recommend the virgo/scorpio couple. Currently I'm having fun with a capricorn guy who is great. Aquarius guy was a no go, he lied, manipulated, took advandge of me. Only bad, bad things came from that. Only other sign I have somewhat experience with is a cancer and no, no, nooo thank you. Don't get me wrong I love cancers! My mom's a cancer, heck I'm cancer rising but noooooooo! Go for Virgo or Capricorn all day!
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Ugh! Virgo may work for WOMEN. But for Scorpio MEN a Virgo woman isn't it, I'm sorry. Too flaky. We want someone a little more loyal than that. I AM going to say the Water women of Cancer and Pisces. Idk about a Scorpio woman. That's too much arguing and too much of a headache, though if her Venus/Mars placements were just about right, I'd consider being in a relationship with her, but I feel that way with the rest of the zodiac as well, so...
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Ugh! Virgo may work for WOMEN. But for Scorpio MEN a Virgo woman isn't it, I'm sorry. Too flaky. We want someone a little more loyal than that. I AM going to say the Water women of Cancer and Pisces. Idk about a Scorpio woman. That's too much arguing and too much of a headache, though if her Venus/Mars placements were just about right, I'd consider being in a relationship with her, but I feel that way with the rest of the zodiac as well, so...




i'm pretty extreme in my loyalty as a virgo woman. however when it's over, it's fair game. the question of loyalty in my current relationship with a Scorpio man actually lies on him, of which the answer is yet to be determined. i am clear-cut. not sure how that is seen as flaky.
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So it seems Virgos are pretty compatible so far, I have also heard that about Pisces, for some reason there is a part of me that is intrigued by this duo, though I've never experiences it.

Question - Do Virgo men tend to try and make you jealous? This new guy has recently been doing little things and perhaps I am reading it wrong but I feel he says or does things on purpose to make me jealous or get a reaction. Being a scorpio, I am aware that we have a tendency to be jealous, so I try to avoid situations where it can cause that negative aspect of our personality to appear, plus jealousy causes drama that I just can't be bothered dealing with.
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Posted by SilverScorpio
Ugh! Virgo may work for WOMEN. But for Scorpio MEN a Virgo woman isn't it, I'm sorry. Too flaky. We want someone a little more loyal than that. I AM going to say the Water women of Cancer and Pisces. Idk about a Scorpio woman. That's too much arguing and too much of a headache, though if her Venus/Mars placements were just about right, I'd consider being in a relationship with her, but I feel that way with the rest of the zodiac as well, so...




totally agreed....
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Well I'm a Scorp, and here is my compat. list:
aries - yes, they are fun and not uptight
taurus - if they are flexible
gemini - yes
cancer - not really, but all cancers are different
leos - if she likes me and is totally into me, else i can't bother to deal with the drama
virgo - most of the time yes, and they can cook good and take care of a household. My mommy is a Virgo 🙂 Best mother ever

libra - libras tick me off so no
scorpio - what i am... maybe... it depends on how evolved they are
sagittarius - 100% , sagg chicks are too much fun to pass on
capricorn - not at all; too bossy and domineering
aquarius - too know it all and agressive
pisces - okay if they don't try to lie to me -- had one try to play me
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I've had 3 fun years with a sag...but it ended when I got bored and he wanted marriage I didn't.
Wasn't ready...he got obsessive ..
Never again but love my dad which is a sag.

Pisces lasted 8 years but it was a emotional rollercoaster last 2 years...he cheated at the last 2 years...never again too much water...

The most recent is a Virgo that lasted 2 years... Ended with my fault losing my temper and and him being prideful. I think id go for a Virgo again 🙂
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I'm a scorp female. I dated a Cancer for 2 years, he was my first love. He was crazy though... he had issues and was so controlling and tried to leave me over going to coffee with a girlfriend. He was my first though and I was still very young. He hit me once and accused me of not being a virgin RIGHT AFTER our first time. It hurt and over 10 years later I still remember it and wince. Was a passionate and strong bond but way too much effort for little reward. He dumped me in the end and years later proposed marriage even though I'd moved on. He's now married happily with a child and has found someone better suited.

My next serious relationship was with a Virgo - we dated a year. NO WAY NEVER AGAIN. This man slept with 3 of my 'friends' stood me up a lot. Lied and even STOLE from me. No no. He also tried to get back with me years later and proposed to me too. Saying I was the one who got away. He's now expecting a child with another girl. He was a flake with no morals and broke my heart.

I dated a pisces man for 2 months ONLY. He was so weird and always argued with everyone. Always had to make his point and had some really strange views on things. He was odd. I cut things off with him like he was a disease. Never looked back.

I have now been with a Capricorn for 7 years (albeit on and off, stable for 2 years now 🙂). To me, my soul mate and a perfect match. He gets me and knows me inside out. I think this match is the best one. My dad is a Taurus and they get along well and I see such a likeness in them - and my dad is the best husband to my mom 🙂

So my answer in short based on my experience is that Caps are best for Scorps 🙂
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I'm a scorp female. I dated a Cancer for 2 years, he was my first love. He was crazy though... he had issues and was so controlling and tried to leave me over going to coffee with a girlfriend. He was my first though and I was still very young. He hit me once and accused me of not being a virgin RIGHT AFTER our first time. It hurt and over 10 years later I still remember it and wince. Was a passionate and strong bond but way too much effort for little reward. He dumped me in the end and years later proposed marriage even though I'd moved on. He's now married happily with a child and has found someone better suited.

My next serious relationship was with a Virgo - we dated a year. NO WAY NEVER AGAIN. This man slept with 3 of my 'friends' stood me up a lot. Lied and even STOLE from me. No no. He also tried to get back with me years later and proposed to me too. Saying I was the one who got away. He's now expecting a child with another girl. He was a flake with no morals and broke my heart.

I dated a pisces man for 2 months ONLY. He was so weird and always argued with everyone. Always had to make his point and had some really strange views on things. He was odd. I cut things off with him like he was a disease. Never looked back.

I have now been with a Capricorn for 7 years (albeit on and off, stable for 2 years now 🙂). To me, my soul mate and a perfect match. He gets me and knows me inside out. I think this match is the best one. My dad is a Taurus and they get along well and I see such a likeness in them - and my dad is the best husband to my mom 🙂

So my answer in short based on my experience is that Caps are best for Scorps 🙂
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I'm a scorp female. I dated a Cancer for 2 years, he was my first love. He was crazy though... he had issues and was so controlling and tried to leave me over going to coffee with a girlfriend. He was my first though and I was still very young. He hit me once and accused me of not being a virgin RIGHT AFTER our first time. It hurt and over 10 years later I still remember it and wince. Was a passionate and strong bond but way too much effort for little reward. He dumped me in the end and years later proposed marriage even though I'd moved on. He's now married happily with a child and has found someone better suited.

My next serious relationship was with a Virgo - we dated a year. NO WAY NEVER AGAIN. This man slept with 3 of my 'friends' stood me up a lot. Lied and even STOLE from me. No no. He also tried to get back with me years later and proposed to me too. Saying I was the one who got away. He's now expecting a child with another girl. He was a flake with no morals and broke my heart.

I dated a pisces man for 2 months ONLY. He was so weird and always argued with everyone. Always had to make his point and had some really strange views on things. He was odd. I cut things off with him like he was a disease. Never looked back.

I have now been with a Capricorn for 7 years (albeit on and off, stable for 2 years now 🙂). To me, my soul mate and a perfect match. He gets me and knows me inside out. I think this match is the best one. My dad is a Taurus and they get along well and I see such a likeness in them - and my dad is the best husband to my mom 🙂

So my answer in short based on my experience is that Caps are best for Scorps 🙂
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I'm a scorp female. I dated a Cancer for 2 years, he was my first love. He was crazy though... he had issues and was so controlling and tried to leave me over going to coffee with a girlfriend. He was my first though and I was still very young. He hit me once and accused me of not being a virgin RIGHT AFTER our first time. It hurt and over 10 years later I still remember it and wince. Was a passionate and strong bond but way too much effort for little reward. He dumped me in the end and years later proposed marriage even though I'd moved on. He's now married happily with a child and has found someone better suited.

My next serious relationship was with a Virgo - we dated a year. NO WAY NEVER AGAIN. This man slept with 3 of my 'friends' stood me up a lot. Lied and even STOLE from me. No no. He also tried to get back with me years later and proposed to me too. Saying I was the one who got away. He's now expecting a child with another girl. He was a flake with no morals and broke my heart.

I dated a pisces man for 2 months ONLY. He was so weird and always argued with everyone. Always had to make his point and had some really strange views on things. He was odd. I cut things off with him like he was a disease. Never looked back.

I have now been with a Capricorn for 7 years (albeit on and off, stable for 2 years now 🙂). To me, my soul mate and a perfect match. He gets me and knows me inside out. I think this match is the best one. My dad is a Taurus and they get along well and I see such a likeness in them - and my dad is the best husband to my mom 🙂

So my answer in short based on my experience is that Caps are best for Scorps 🙂
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Posted by Twodrinkminimum
The Scorp I dated, I think he needs an earth sign. He was very sensitive. And in a different way than I find Cancers to be. Cancers are sensitive when it comes to their own emotions/feelings. Scorpios are sensitive to everaythang. Like they can feel the whole worlds pain. Their pinchers/stingers hurt equally though.

My hair stylist is a Taurus and she is the sweetest thing I've ever met. She also has some scorp in her chart but I forget where. So I'd say Scorpio/Taurus seems like a good match to me. Or a heavy earth chart anyway.



Nice thought, but Taurus women hate Scorpio men. And we don't like stale. We like excitement.
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Posted by scorpvixen
I've dated a scorpio male, and despite being a scorpio myself, I would never date one again. I'm sure it had nothing to do with his sign and maybe more to do with past relationships, but he was far FAR too controlling for my liking. So SilverScorpio I can see why the Taurus women aren't fond of Scorpio men.



"You can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen." You date a Scorpio, you should know what you're in for. I'm curious to know what your Scorpio thought of you!
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@SilverScorpio - He thought I was too casual about the relationship, didn't care enough about him, but to me we weren't in a relationship. It was the initial stages of getting to know each other, feel each other out. He has continued to try to reach out and make contact for the last year and a half but I could never look at him the same.

If I didn't reply within a certain time frame he would start accusing me of being with another man. If I was at a friends house, he would continuingly hound asking if other men were there. He even told me I wasn't allowed to sleep at my best friends house because she lived with a good looking guy and told me to prove that I wasn't sleeping at hers and actually at my mothers, that I had to take a photo with my mum and send it to him. We weren't even together and here he was trying to tell me to get pregnant to him so that I would get fat and other men wouldn't find me attractive. That was basically the final straw, I realised this guy was either very insecure or way to jealous and possessive.

I told him to get lost and then he started with the abusive messages and subliminal threats like "I know where you live" etc. I went to the police and they told me unless he directly threatened me with details, as in said "I'm going to blah blah" then I couldn't do anything. I didn't fear he would do anything to me, I was just hoping they would call him and give him a bit of a scare to leave me alone, though my friends and parents felt like he was crazy enough to actually do something, but I knew him better. I blocked him from my phone, social media, had all my friends and family block him and yet he still found ways to contact me.

Truth be told aside from the crazy in him, he was actually a nice person. I was friends with him long before I ever got involved with him and always seen him as a calm and easy going guy. He and I were very different considering we were both scorpio's...hmm it's got me wondering what the rest of his chart was now
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@SilverScorpio - He thought I was too casual about the relationship, didn't care enough about him, but to me we weren't in a relationship. It was the initial stages of getting to know each other, feel each other out. He has continued to try to reach out and make contact for the last year and a half but I could never look at him the same.

If I didn't reply within a certain time frame he would start accusing me of being with another man. If I was at a friends house, he would continuingly hound asking if other men were there. He even told me I wasn't allowed to sleep at my best friends house because she lived with a good looking guy and told me to prove that I wasn't sleeping at hers and actually at my mothers, that I had to take a photo with my mum and send it to him. We weren't even together and here he was trying to tell me to get pregnant to him so that I would get fat and other men wouldn't find me attractive. That was basically the final straw, I realised this guy was either very insecure or way to jealous and possessive.

I told him to get lost and then he started with the abusive messages and subliminal threats like "I know where you live" etc. I went to the police and they told me unless he directly threatened me with details, as in said "I'm going to blah blah" then I couldn't do anything. I didn't fear he would do anything to me, I was just hoping they would call him and give him a bit of a scare to leave me alone, though my friends and parents felt like he was crazy enough to actually do something, but I knew him better. I blocked him from my phone, social media, had all my friends and family block him and yet he still found ways to contact me.

Truth be told aside from the crazy in him, he was actually a nice person. I was friends with him long before I ever got involved with him and always seen him as a calm and easy going guy. He and I were very different considering we were both scorpio's...hmm it's got me wondering what the rest of his chart was now



Well, it sounds like you caught a good one! *sarcasm* One question though: If you were just only in the "initial stages of getting to know each other", how come you were dating? That(getting to know each other) sounds like something you would've sorted out before you started dating. Then you might've found out about all this craziness. Just say'in. I wouldn't worry so much abo
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The term dating was loosely used, as in going on dates. We weren't in a relationship. There was no titles. Probably should have said I was "seeing" him not dating. And it wasn't the initial stages of getting to know each other, we had known each other as friends for some time. It was the initial stages of getting to know each other on that level. But yeah real catch haha. Nah good friend, terrible in the romances aspect..unfortunately I couldn't even allow myself to be friends with him now, I'm repulsed!
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Lol not gonna happen. The day a woman tries to control me the oh-so-famous virgo houdini will appear.

A cap girl tried to do it to me recently while trying to chase me. Fuck that shit. I lived my life under the thumb of a cap sister and I hated every moment of my childhood. No way am I leaving my old life to a similar new one.

And no. No cap women for me.
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Posted by scorpvixen
The term dating was loosely used, as in going on dates. We weren't in a relationship. There was no titles. Probably should have said I was "seeing" him not dating. And it wasn't the initial stages of getting to know each other, we had known each other as friends for some time. It was the initial stages of getting to know each other on that level. But yeah real catch haha. Nah good friend, terrible in the romances aspect..unfortunately I couldn't even allow myself to be friends with him now, I'm repulsed!



I didn't notice I got cut-off, so I will finish what I was saying. I wouldn't worry so much about his sign, as it is a crazy-guy thing. You're doing right by protecting yourself and distancing yourself from him. Maybe you'd do better off with a less intense sign—
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@cluelessCancer - I dont think we like weak men, we like guys who are diminatant and capable of wearing the pants in a relationship

HOWEVER, we are a domineering sign ourselves and I think we need someone who is able to understand that we sometimes need to "feel" like we hold all the power.

There is a difference between a weak man and a wise man. A weak man we will grow bored with fast. But a wise man will give us the the upper hand when we crave it and the back hand (not literally) when we require it! This keeps us forever intrigued and on our toes. We like order as much as we crave chaos
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@SilverScorpio - oh that was a while back and yes I agree he was more just a crazy guy as apposed to a crazy Scorpio lol.

I'm not sure I believe in this whole star sign compatability, but I do find it all rather interesting. The relationships that stick the most with me is my Capricorn, who I was with for 7 years and engaged to, so that is understandable. And my Taurus, who he felt I gave up to easy on us And was so easily willing to walk away. In my defence I think it came down to our maturity Had we met a few years later I think it would have been something amazing. And this is why I sometimes believe in these star sign things, because Capricorn and Taurus are supposedly two of my compatability matches.
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Virgo...for sure. If he has a Scorpio moon, you've scored big time.

These guys DO communicate the best out of the three earth signs and if you blow them off, they will lose interest after a while and walk.

Whoever said they are "weak"...ha. Try to control one or play games with one and you will certainly find they are quite the opposite. They will (just like Scorpio) mirror negative behavior back and then walk. In that order. They despise childish drama like behavior and don't tolerate it. If you wait too long to let them know where they stand with you they refuse to sit around and wait. They will be gone pretty quickly. It's give and take with them. You give them a little, they give you double back. They are gentlemen and deal with what's real. Until they feel you out and know where you stand, they will hold back and slow things down until they do. Again..it's all about upbringing with any sign. If he had a decent upbringing, all the better. Virgo is best out of all three in my experience. Taurus comes in second.

If you are avoiding communication with him as you say you are with the short unfriendly responses, he'll get tired of it. So if you do like this guy...you might want to knock that off.
Good luck.

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I didn't know that Scorpio men didn't like Virgo women, but all I can say is that for all the sisgns I know, the Scorpios are THE BEST , reliable, loyal, with morals and I can't wait to have sex adventures with one of them. I knew a scorpio guy oonce, the Relationship was mind blowing, even though it was 4 years ago and ended nasty, I'm pretty sure that a scorpio is what I need.
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Never been attracted to weak men let alone a Virgo. If anything cuz earth sign. I must have respect for my man n if he doesn't have a backbone or I have bigger balls than him, it ain't working. Lol



i've never been attracted to weak men either. But alot of men think being "strong" is about bullying. (that's more compensating for not having a backbone)
sensitive and kind, is very strong to me, but he must have a strong backbone.
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And as a scorp woman, I don't go for men that are weak and that I can control. That's not a challenge. I need a man that can handle a strong woman. Someone who can put me in place if needed. Who the fuck want a crybaby?

I don't know why everyone thinks that scorp is all about controlling someone. If I can't accept you for who you are, then I don't want to be with you. That's just the fucking facts.