When a Scorpio ignores you ...

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As a recovering codependent woman, once married to an alcoholic, I can see your pain in trying to determine if he still cares or not. That is, in my opinion, your addiction to him and inability to let go. My experience with this exact situation is this: Addicts/alcoholics are extremely self centered. They focus on themselves ONLY. They will focus on you for only one purpose...if it will somehow benefit them. You broke up with him. As a scorpio, that is like death itself. Of course he blames you, addicts take no responsbility for themselves or their part in the demise, when in actulity they have a great part. To answer your question, and yes it IS true: the opposite of love IS indifference. Addicts know NO feelings, only indifference. He very well may still love you but he has NO CAPACITY to feel or show it, thus he is numb and frozen in feelings.My ex loved me and our son a great deal, but the addiction hi-jacked his mind and abandoned us both. Please focus on YOU, heal YOU and Love YOU!
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about a week ago, i contacted an ex scorp only to receive cold and not so nice responses. after it ended, i really regretting contacting him. i think i beat myself up about it but i could make sense of why he was the way that he was...to me it seemed eh. cant we move on? only to find out las night that days b4 i contacted him, he had been hounding my virgo friend for my number to talk to me. she refused to give it to him. so im kinda like if u wanted to talk to me but didnt have my number, to only have me contact you...why wouldnt u be happy?

i think scorpios like to do things on their time. contacting them is almost borderline futile. the sarcasm isnt fun. when the person who causes them so much grief (in their eyes) contacts them, it sets them off or they are nonchalant.

so my answer to you is to leave him be. i think when u contact him, he thinks back to all the bad things that happened and in turn, he takes it out on you.


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Hon,

I just read through your post. I've been there, I understand.

That said...

YOUR CODEPENDENT IS TYPING FOR YOU.

Let it go, really. You will be so much happier. He's a scorpio, he'll come out of this in his own time. We are the masters of recreating ourselves. He doesn't hate you. But if he is actually recovering, he is staying away from you in order to do so. Not to say its your fault, IT'S NOT, but old habits tend to stick together and if he was using while he was with you he will go back to what is comfortable.
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It is said the opposite of love isn't hate, but indifference.





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Yeah ... this sucks. He is to that point where he just doesn't give a fudge. Tears in eyes.

We love conspiracy theories. He's kinda looney because of past drug use, but I enjoy weighing the different theories. Please don't bash me ... I come in peace ... I am obsessed with 9/11. I mean, really obsessed with every detail. And New World Order, organized stalking, electronic harrassment-intelligence. He thinks he is targeted-rolls eyes. We argued and I hated to hear about it, until I became obsessed with 9/11. Now I'm much more open-minded. So, we were commenting on Loose Change and Zeitgeist and a couple of books.
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