Things Iโ€”ve learnt/learned about Scorps

This topic was created in the Pisces forum by iceredrobot on Saturday, October 1, 2011 and has 11 replies.

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He talks a lot
kinda pervy but nothing shocking
He's easily embarrassed in public
Crazy possessive to the point where I can't reason with him
SHAMELESSLY nosy
He likes to ask loads of random pointless questions
He's like a rubber band โ€” no matter how hard I push him away he keeps coming back
Pretty polite
Really social

Our disagreements have been??_weird. He??ll say something very cutting with a smile on his face โ€” sucks for him I have no feelings. If he wants to upset me he should have gone for the ego. It's Pisces Moon vs Virgo and he's losing โ€” because I'm nonchalant, and once I've had enough I walk away. But he wont allow that, he wants to finish it but I wont let him. So he??ll stick around trying to talk to me. It's a bit sad because he can't let go. We just had an argument, why are you still here? Like a God damn rubber band.

Oh! And the Scorp sting? So overrated๐Ÿ˜› He made a harsh comment in front of my friends โ€” he knows I'm super insecure about my SLIGHTLY hook nose, and ugh??_.my Leo friend (as usual) came busting in and declared my nose was perfect to recuse what was left of my ego.

I was hurt because he didn't have the decency to come tell me something was wrong, instead he wanted to play this passive aggressive game aimed at humiliating me. I don't see what he hopes to achieve โ€” AND then, he acts as if nothing is wrong, and gets so confused when I don't want him around me. He wouldn't let me walk away, I had to cry!!! And even then he hesitated to letting me go. I've put him on ice again.

What's really frustrating is he still makes an INSANE amount of effort to see me. He got my sister to trick me into answering the door โ€” she called saying how she "forgot" her keys. So I go downstairs to open it and he's hiding (so I don't see him through the peephole โ€” otherwise I wont let him in) and jumps out when I open the door

??_..ummmm excuse me?

My sister is dead to me >๐Ÿ˜ข apparently he pressured her to do it, poor thing is just a kid and too polite to say no. Another time he got my mum to call me home so he can ambush me โ€” I like how he's made himself at home with my family!!!! He can โ€”charm?? (i.e. manipulate) everyone so easily....I feel I should be concerned.

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Anyway, for someone who mostly associates with fire and air signs since??_.I was BORN, this is all new to me. Water signs in general are new to me. I'm the only water sign I know lol. Soooo I dunno how to handle all this.

To be fair, there's loads of good things about him. But my God is he annoying.. then again all my old boyfriends were hella annoying. That's the problem with Virgo Moon, EVERYONE is annoying to us.

He's lucky he's cute๐Ÿ˜›

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Posted by iceredrobot

He got my sister to trick me into answering the door โ€” she called saying how she "forgot" her keys. So I go downstairs to open it and he's hiding (so I don't see him through the peephole โ€” otherwise I wont let him in) and jumps out when I open the door

??_..ummmm excuse me?

My sister is dead to me >๐Ÿ˜ข apparently he pressured her to do it, poor thing is just a kid and too polite to say no. Another time he got my mum to call me home so he can ambush me โ€” I like how he's made himself at home with my family!!!! He can โ€”charm?? (i.e. manipulate) everyone so easily....I feel I should be concerned.

hahaha!! serious? oh my life, that is so persistent. seriously, i wouldn't know whether to laugh or break things.

i think this is typical of the pisces/scorp dynamic-it's like you can push each other's buttons like no-one else. in all these sneak, cloak and dagger ways

this is why i can't do fellow water signs -_- !!

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Posted by nimbue
hahaha!! serious? oh my life, that is so persistent. seriously, i wouldn't know whether to laugh or break things.

i think this is typical of the pisces/scorp dynamic-it's like you can push each other's buttons like no-one else. in all these sneak, cloak and dagger ways

this is why i can't do fellow water signs -_- !!

omg it really is behind the scenes cutting away kinda thing. This isn't fun!!!!๐Ÿ˜ญ But I confront him, I'm not playing that game, and I wont let him get away with it. I refuse to let him walk away with that smirk.

Out-in-the-open battles only, I WILL crush his spirit ๐Ÿ˜›

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Posted by PiscesPosterBoy
Lmfao ๐Ÿ˜›

The manipulation tactics to see you? I think that's really sweet ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ˜›

And I know what you mean about not knowing how to handle water signs. My aqua is out, Cappy and a Scorp are in. It's like an entirely different world!

"Ohh so I get to have feelings now huh?"
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"Oh wait a minute! I actually LIKE having feelings!!! Now if only I could remember how to have them..." โœจ

Haha it's cause I get bored quickly and move on, and that's why he's so persistent. Maybe he's trying to prove something to himself๐Ÿ˜›

And how is your lovey Cappy friend?

What's your experience been with Scorps? How do you handle them? Is it a constant battle? I need details๐Ÿ˜›

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Posted by iceredrobot

Posted by nimbue
hahaha!! serious? oh my life, that is so persistent. seriously, i wouldn't know whether to laugh or break things.

i think this is typical of the pisces/scorp dynamic-it's like you can push each other's buttons like no-one else. in all these sneak, cloak and dagger ways

this is why i can't do fellow water signs -_- !!

But I confront him, I'm not playing that game, and I wont let him get away with it. I refuse to let him walk away with that smirk.

Out-in-the-open battles only, I WILL crush his spirit ๐Ÿ˜›

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do you even know how much that works on scorps, probably why he's so into you...the confronting has big points.

they love our passivity and respect our aggression. bleh! *sighs*

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Posted by nimbue
do you even know how much that works on scorps, probably why he's so into you...the confronting has big points.

they love our passivity and respect our aggression. bleh! *sighs*

omg Are you serious? He gets off on making me angry?? That is SICK!!

What kind of person does thatโ€” WHAT kind? lol =/

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Posted by PiscesPosterBoy
My cappy friend is doing well. We we're going to hang out today but he went to the movies with some friends he hasn't seen in awhile ๐Ÿ˜ข

Which reminds me, I might have to bump the Bad Fish Club again. I have some stories to tell ๐Ÿ˜›

Scorps? It's nearly always a pleasant experience ๐Ÿ™‚ For my Scorp lady friend, (the person I'm closest to in this world ๐Ÿ™‚) I'd say that it started out "meh". The fabled "bond" happens after you start really opening up to one another. Sharing eachothers pains and what not. In the end, you find that the relationship is so harmonious you have to pinch yourself to check and see if your dreaming ๐Ÿ™‚

Things just flow sooo easily between the two of us. We talk about EVERYTHING. Those little things you can't explain about yourself, those thoughts in your head that "nobody else has", the things that go on in your heart that you can't find words for, you'll find that your Scorp completely understands and can relate to ๐Ÿ™‚ You might find yourself having entire conversations with your scorp, just by looking at eachother ๐Ÿ™‚

That's been my experience at least ๐Ÿ™‚

funny you should say that, when he's not being annoying I feel a silent peace around him. Why I put up with so much. He *gets* me, not in the way Aquas get me, he just...understands what it's like.

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Posted by Sweettails13
I've learned that Scorps/Pisces may not be the best combination, despite what information out there supports the nowe ion. After being involved with a Scorp, having scorps in the family and watching my mother marry a scorp, I can honestly say its a draining fusion of the signs. Yes, they can be understanding and share some of our emotional characteristics we are quite opposite. For ex; Scorps look for the worst in others, while Pisces like to look for the best.Pisces like to heal, Scorps likes to Suffer ( Continuous internal cycle), Pisces like swimming toward the light, Scorps prefer to dwell and investigate the dark. Pisces forgive others for their trespasses against us, Scorps like to avenge those who does them wrong. Scorps hold on, Pisces let go. There is a true opposing dichotomy between us. Is it healthy?, well I guess it depends on each individual in the relationship. If we were generalizing, I think Scorp/pisces relationships are full of unnecessary DRAMA!!. I think both signs would fair better with an earth sign to keep us from drowning in our own emotions.

That being said, to each its own.( if it works, it works). I must say, my greatest lessons in love was learned from a scorp( Now I can swim off to an earth man who will keep me grounded/stable)

Lessons in Love:
1. Love self first ( which is good overall)
2. Don't love blindly ( which mainly came from his un-trusting nature)
3. Love is a compromise ( which is what he was too scared to do)
4. Don't allow anyone to take you for granted. ( which he did often with his constant game playing and time wasting)
5. Know your worth ( never settle for poor treatment)

YES!!! I'm 100% with you. Earth men >>>> water men.

I don't believe in forever anyway, you can't surely be in love with someone forever right? I think I like this guy cause he sticks around and makes me laugh. Plus he can stands up to me!....can't help but respect that !โ€”_? Will it last forever? I bloody hope not lol. But for now he's fun and that's all I want. I can only see myself settling down with an Earth guy honestly.