brandon24
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When did marriage become so frowned upon
P.s. I'm talking common sense before I get bashed...if your getting physically or mentally abused..get out..any infidelity..get out....you grow apart....its time to go..I'm talking about the running.when it gets thick....and bouncing ASAP ...is what I meant...now attack...enjoy your weekend Fb..
Let it be,I just dont think it has to be as awful as portrayed,like your giving up something, I think it would be flatering if somebody wanted to deal with your ass every day.its not as easy as i make it sound but people make it sound dreadful,I am just saying it dont have to be...even years down the road.I personally like the idea of having an old lady,being the old man and always having a partner,guess im a lame like that..or it could be e being insecure about being cheated on I will fess up on my account...
I heard about this couple that was married for 25 years,the husband always watched St Louis Cardnals games and she hated it..He passed away and she would put the games on even if she didnt watch them because it reminded her of him.I thought it was kinda cool somebody could give a damn about you like that.
I guess people look at it like a drag from the jump.I understand if it aint for you
and i will admit divorce seems ugly.I have been through bad break ups and it felt like that I cant imagine sorting out the material stuff yikes,it just seems like everybody just gives up so quick,divorce lawyers are killing,people act like if they get married their missing something,like something better is gonna come along.Guess its the grass is greener theory,usually never is though.It just seems commitment is so frowned upon these days,its like a total 360 from the old school cats.I dont get it..Everybody uses the allibi you only live once and you should be happy and i totally agree,but they use it at the first sight of danger most of the the time and regret it.you cant be happy with anyone all the time,wether it be friends,family,companion.It is humanly impossible.Guess you just have to decide if the positives outweigh the flaws
I heard about this couple that was married for 25 years,the husband always watched St Louis Cardnals games and she hated it..He passed away and she would put the games on even if she didnt watch them because it reminded her of him.I thought it was kinda cool somebody could give a damn about you like that.
I guess people look at it like a drag from the jump.I understand if it aint for you
and i will admit divorce seems ugly.I have been through bad break ups and it felt like that I cant imagine sorting out the material stuff yikes,it just seems like everybody just gives up so quick,divorce lawyers are killing,people act like if they get married their missing something,like something better is gonna come along.Guess its the grass is greener theory,usually never is though.It just seems commitment is so frowned upon these days,its like a total 360 from the old school cats.I dont get it..Everybody uses the allibi you only live once and you should be happy and i totally agree,but they use it at the first sight of danger most of the the time and regret it.you cant be happy with anyone all the time,wether it be friends,family,companion.It is humanly impossible.Guess you just have to decide if the positives outweigh the flaws
Marriage is not what it used to be people get married for money, sex, to get out of a country it's become a play thing now. Also people tend to move fast relationship wise, ignoring all the warning signs along the way. It's like a bomb if you dont feel confident in defusing it get your dum ass out the way. To spend thousands of dollars to get rings, dresses, tux, and a title i'd rather take 20 women of every race on vacation. That special someone has to be someone I didn't just fall into if it was ok before marriage nine times out of ten it will be a 1000 times worser in it. Then the question of how long should I know he/she. A year? More? this is then pushed aside for the "time" doesn't matter if I feel it in my heart bla bla bla. A couple months later problems arise and lawyers are woken up out of there sleep and told to start splitting shit between the two. Blasphemy if you forget time, time will forget you.
I'm not for or against it. Makes my gay friends grumble 😉
Posted by exoskeleton
you remind me of someone. :/
as of now i'm not at all for marriage, though in general i'm sort of indifferent towards it so long as i have a life-long, devoted partner that i'm spiritually binded to. i don't need the title on it or care for social conventions. part of me wants my independence, at least legally.
though like you i crave the one who can be my best friend and ride or die, who knows me in and out, who's attentive, who i'm intimately comfortable with simply enjoying each other's presence, and will always be there.
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marriage isn't beautiful imo. i respect people who wish to get married in the eyes of their god but not those who get married just to be 'legit'. that includes myself cos i was 'legit' for over 10 years...and you get less time for murder!
the beautiful thing, as with that feeling when you witness the birth of your kids, is the love itself. you don't have to institutionalise it (if you don't choose to) cos sometimes that can be the death of an otherwise good relationship.
yeah, it must be nice to feel that close to someone and i'm sure i kinda liked my ex husband when i was in my 20s but you grow and change and it's just not realistic for the majority of us to live the dream in our relationships. mostly cos people can't be bothered to work at them whether they're married or not. everything's disposible in our modern society.
which is the reason why, when you witness things like that older couple, they are all the more beautiful 🙂
the beautiful thing, as with that feeling when you witness the birth of your kids, is the love itself. you don't have to institutionalise it (if you don't choose to) cos sometimes that can be the death of an otherwise good relationship.
yeah, it must be nice to feel that close to someone and i'm sure i kinda liked my ex husband when i was in my 20s but you grow and change and it's just not realistic for the majority of us to live the dream in our relationships. mostly cos people can't be bothered to work at them whether they're married or not. everything's disposible in our modern society.
which is the reason why, when you witness things like that older couple, they are all the more beautiful 🙂
It's difficult to respond to the question because my typical reaction to questions always take from instances that may not be implied.
Only recently it became a recognized offense for rape of spouse within marriage in the US. This seems maybe irrelevant but looking into the social attitude of marriage portrayed legally and also in the media plays a large role. It also depends on country.
I have a friend who emigrated from (what is now the country Georgia) the outskirts of the crumbling USSR to America with her parents. Her mother is a Ukrainian Jew and her father is from Russia. I'm not sure with whom is current or learned with social attitudes within Eastern Europe, but Jews are considered very very 'bad' to a majority of non-Jew Russians. They're frequently scape-goated and attacked.
Her mother and father came from the crumbling USSR and were strong through the violence put upon the 'unsuitable couple' and are still together, and albeit... odd...they are very much dedicated and in love.
I think the only attitude about marriage that matters in the attitude between the people involved. The only attitude that matters within a union, friendship, love, partners, etc. It's ultimately theirs, and nobody else's (unless they involve said nobodys 😉 ).
Only recently it became a recognized offense for rape of spouse within marriage in the US. This seems maybe irrelevant but looking into the social attitude of marriage portrayed legally and also in the media plays a large role. It also depends on country.
I have a friend who emigrated from (what is now the country Georgia) the outskirts of the crumbling USSR to America with her parents. Her mother is a Ukrainian Jew and her father is from Russia. I'm not sure with whom is current or learned with social attitudes within Eastern Europe, but Jews are considered very very 'bad' to a majority of non-Jew Russians. They're frequently scape-goated and attacked.
Her mother and father came from the crumbling USSR and were strong through the violence put upon the 'unsuitable couple' and are still together, and albeit... odd...they are very much dedicated and in love.
I think the only attitude about marriage that matters in the attitude between the people involved. The only attitude that matters within a union, friendship, love, partners, etc. It's ultimately theirs, and nobody else's (unless they involve said nobodys 😉 ).
I want to be married to the guy who is down the pub with his mates bragging how about awesome the sex is while his friends grumble about not getting any anymore.
when the divorce rate hit 40%
Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
I want to be married to the guy who is down the pub with his mates bragging how about awesome the sex is while his friends grumble about not getting any anymore.
Fuck yes!!!
Posted by exoskeletonPosted by ArticleLPosted by exoskeleton
you remind me of someone. :/
as of now i'm not at all for marriage, though in general i'm sort of indifferent towards it so long as i have a life-long, devoted partner that i'm spiritually binded to. i don't need the title on it or care for social conventions. part of me wants my independence, at least legally.
though like you i crave the one who can be my best friend and ride or die, who knows me in and out, who's attentive, who i'm intimately comfortable with simply enjoying each other's presence, and will always be there.
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*steals a skittle* 🙂click to expand
😛
Posted by sheathedclawsPosted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
I want to be married to the guy who is down the pub with his mates bragging how about awesome the sex is while his friends grumble about not getting any anymore.
Fuck yes!!!click to expand
So cool I am not the only one. Now if we could only start converting guys to our way of thinking!!!
I am sure everyone would enjoy being married a little more🙂
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