When you need to talk to your Scorp..

How the hell do you do it?! I know if I say the words 'can we talk?' he will run the other way like every man does. lol do I have to trick him into it?

Well Im in a long distance relationship with him and I guess the distance is getting to me. We text message alot, but texting is so vague to me. I say I miss you in a text but its just the tip of the ice burg of what Im really feeling. But Im not sure what I want to talk to him about per say. I kinda feel like the connection is fading a way, like we arnt as close. We love each other very much. I just wish I could see him more. And so from all this I just ahve the urge to talk to him about it. See if he feels the same way kinda thing.

Thanks sagigoat. I feel the same way. Feelings and stuff like that I hate doing it over texting and the phone. I just hate it. But the things is tho...my scorp flakes on me alot. He says he wants to live together, but when we plan to hang out he flakes sometimes, like yesterday (its understandable) his car died and was just pissed for the rest of the night. ANd the week before he didnt feel good. Friday nite is really the only time to see him (spending the nite till saturday) but ive been waiting and waiting to talk to him in person but I just havnt had the chance.

And I dont know if my Scorp is easy to talk to or its just me. I know that over texting or over the phone its really hard for me to bring up somthing that 'needs to be talked about'. But when Im with him lol its still hard for me to bring stuff up. I think cause I dont want to seem like Im nagging or complaining.

okay 🙂 I should do that. Cause Ive been dewling on it forever. I should be one of his sources of happyness 🙂 I think Im pretty good at making him laugh lol :-p Thanks Sagigoat 🙂

I hear ya JackDoniel. Im the same way. It is difficult. But I have my ways of showeing emotion towards him. Send pics, videos over the phone, call him, sweet and detailed emails, that kinda thing. lol Ive done it for close to 3 years now. But it does get difficult at times I must admit.

when i sit down and want to talk to mine hes usually very understanding about it unless hes wrapped up in something else.then hes like huh or what?

Latinaindia and Jackdoniel I agree with you both. But the thing that I wanted to talk about with my scorpio is not a HUGE SERIOUS thing. lol and Sagigoat is right, I am only 18 (and my scorp is older than me) I do not plan to get married this young lol. He has said very deep things to involving marraige but we both know that will happen way down the road.

>>>>i assume you have established your relationship before he/you moved away so as long as you have a plan to reunite in the near future

I agree with Sagigoat. Just bring it up in conversation. Don't say you two need to talk.