Scorp on Scorp

So there is a really attractive Indian (from Asia) woman at work who I like to flirt with. Actually, we kind of like to flirt with each other. We're both Scorps, so I was hoping to get a few verbal jabs from her. So far, I'm the only one pressing her buttons in a playful way of course. She claims to like peace and doesn't like to sting, yet I remain unconvinced.

The appeal is she's exotic to me. The downside is we work together and uh.. oh yeah, she's a Scorp. Similar to myself, she's got these smouldering eyes that can give heat.

There's definitely an interesting vibe between two Scorps; an exciting chemistry certainly exists at the beginning.

I hear ya' Rox, but I'm just naturally flirtatious even if nothing comes of it.

Nothing better than mentally torturing 30-something moms in a shitty marriage with two kids.

Surprised that you haven't done on Scorp-on-Scorp yet Rox....

It can be a wonderful thing if both are mature (I think) and the timing is right there is a tight knit bond that formulates immediately and a profound friendship above all because you communicate on a nonverbal level and understand where eachother is coming from when it seems no one else does. Wierd but can be special.

However, the clashing is when scorp man wants to be possessive and controling and scorp woman ain't having it. LOL!!!

QS: You would know best, lovely. 😉

Rox: Sure Rox, just like the thought of you mentally tormenting 20 something studs.

Or less than 20 somethings.............

***QS: You would know best, lovely.****

Too bad I haven't experienced it in a real relationship, but an involvement was special until you try to break that shit off and he becomes Jack from Newbie's post. LOL!!!

Is there such a thing as a mellow Scorp, male or female?

[crickets]

Yeah JackDoniel... And me ofcourse 😉 Hmm there's a thought. LOL!!!

Mmmm-hmmm.....

LMAO @ SR !!!

:: stroking Rox's ego ::

there, there sex kitten.

I don't have to justify my use of semantics because you don't like them.

Go back to the losers on the Aries board.

Childish goon.

You imply I would even bother to suspend my primary evaluation criteria involving looks, personality, chemistry, etc.

Are there extra brownie points for being different? Sure, but I'm that way. btw, dating another woman of similar/different race is not new to me. Had I dated an Indian woman before, I would not consider her exotic.

I'm tired of PC shit.

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I can see you're really popular with the guys with your exceptional ability to annoy and nag. 😉

If you read the very first post, I already got her attention.

Didn't realize Joan Baez was an aries.

"That's right. I'm not single trying to pick people up from my job"

Yeah, you do your dirty work on these message boards.

FA, your whorish need for attention is boring me. See ya'.

Kind of busy at work right now. When I'm in the mood, we'll tango some more.

As for you, I can tell our chemistry would suck. You are, after all, an Aries.

I'm not the loser who intiated idea with your lame slurpy icon above.

Rox, I couldn't care less what this nitwit thinks.

FA: "And btw, perhaps because of her culture and/or her values, she's not the type of Scorpio who likes verbal sparring or may be she REALLY does like peace and harmony."

Well, my Debra certainly isn't exotic, but she definitely is a Scorp, and she definitely DOES NOT like to spar with her verbally-gymnastic Virgo husband... dammit!!

Another reason for me to play around on DXP... gotta have an outlet for all this polemic energy!

For the very first time in history, I agree with Aprilbaby (::gasps:: hell must be freezing over) and Roxibabe. People often misuse the term and are unaware that they're doing so.

""Anyways, please go back to disagreeing with me.""


Oh, of course! Goes w/o saying. Wouldn't have it any other way. Always my pleasure, dear. 🙂

***Just because you've dated outside your race doesn't mean anything. And it's to me very prejudicial and insulting when people call someone of a different race exotic. It's insulting whether you know it or not. I wasn't trying to give you a hard time about it, but that really didn't sound right.***

It all depends on the person's perception. I have heard people call someone exotic in or out of their race, which at these moments meant that the person had a unique and keen look different (more attractive) than your average lookers per se. It could be because they have beautifully full naturally arched eyebrows, or a piculiar eye color etc. No matter what the race.

I doubt that S_R was being racist or trying to insult anyone. For goodness sakes he speaking of a woman he is attracted to. it all depends on a person't perception.

I think AB was referring to the tendency of some to use the terms "exotic" and "attractive" interchangeably, when describing a person of a different ethnic background. It implies that physical features of certain ethnicities ALL fall under one umbrella, or that a particular geographic area miraculously yields desirable features, as opposed to say, mediocrity.

"he dates outside of his race as if to say that that doesn't make him prejudicial. We're all racist at some level"

You are a dork. If one is racist, is one willing to date outside one's race? In your feminazi world, it's only because men want to objectify the "exotic" girl like some white slavemaster doing the slave. Grow up and put your women's studies books down.

"he got defensive and acted like an ass."

Yeah, because I'm plain sick and tired of Bay Area pseudo-intellectuals like you. Just curious, what is your evidence of your maturity and intelligence? You seem to like to come on to Scorpio board and rile people up. Where's the maturity in that?

Is the evidence of your awesomeness the Wonder Woman icon?

Probably just typical Aries bullshit bluster. Don't worry, I'm used to your kind. My sister's an Aries, and she's five times worse. But she's got redeeming qualities for me.

"And I thought you didn't care what I thought, so why are you continuing to respond?"

I'm in the mood. Besides, I really like to spar with aries because you guys tend to be attention whores and empty blowhards with false egos. And you're easy to rile up.

"Once again, you show your lack of intelligence and nastiness by name calling and assuming that anyone that calls you out on calling someone exotic must be a man hater. You're really insecure and stupid."

Great evidence of your intelligence and maturity, aries.

Do we get upset if we refer to exotic locales, islands, or foods? Why is it so denigrating to refer to exotic people? Even now I can't think of a better and more lively adjective for "different." But that would be boring language, and this is a message board.

"I'm an intelligent person who gets it, and you clearly aren't a person who gets anything."

A wonderful example of your balance and full-of-shit personality.

"You seem to equate a person dating outside of their race with not being racist, and that in and of itself shows you how little you understand things."

Please enlighten me, oh wise one. You know I just want to flirt with this girl so I can objectify her in her my mind. Has nothing to do with the fact that she's pretty, interesting, and got a nice Scorpio edge -> as opposed to the bland bluster of your kind.

"Anyways, I'm not going to continue to humor you and your idiocy. I'm obviously wasting my time. Thanks for the entertainment "

Now that I'm off work, I'm game. But since you probably blew your two minute temper, you're probably spent. Have a good one.

***but all the female Scorps I have met in my life time were really, really crazy ... I'm talking really, really crazy and loud and very out there, our personality was so different, even though they were ok with me one on one but even how they were with others was too much for me. I haven't met a laid back female Scorp yet, must be interesting. A Scorp/Scorp union can be an interesting but I say if she's flirting with you just keep flirting. I don't think it means more than flirting. I personally will only deal with a female Scorp that is completely crazy for me and me for her, I think this is when you'll get the best out of each other.***

I have never been known to be a LOUD scorp. A direct one, yes, confident, yes, but loud and insincere. Neva!!!

I am laid back but social, however some men find me intimidated. Some have actually told me that when they see me it is intimidating but once we start talking I was a really down to earth person. I don't know if it a stereotype thing, but to add to what F'ng A is saying one guy actually said, "you know how you light skinned hazel eyed girls are always stuck up" it was offensive but I smiled and told him he should broaden his horizons, if I was remotely attracted to him then he killed it right there.... LOL!!!

Scorp/scorp can be exceptionally blissful with all the passion and loyalty IF they both are commited to eachother only. Like you said... I can just imagine! 🙂

2ndchapter the latter of your post makes the difference when there is libra in those planets than some scorp guys with mostly scorp in those planets.

You're light-skinned? You look brown-skin to me.


I know some loud Scorps. Well, it depends on what you mean by "loud". When I use the term loud, I am referring to a person who is always in everyone's business, and blurting it out all across town. Someone who doesn't know when to hush and be still. Loud people don't know the meaning of class and decency.

Now, if you mean loud in terms of volume, I can be loud. Most ppl say I either speak too loudly or too softly. I don't hear very well compared to most. I'm going to need a hearing aid by 30. 😢

***You're light-skinned? You look brown-skin to me***

Yes very light skinned especially in the summer. Nick names, red, mellow yellow etc. For some reason a lot of my pics come out like I have color. I wish. My baby girl is a beautiful carmel color. Gets that from her dad too. Damn my baby only has my smile...

OOOps, especially in the winter. Tanned in the summer.

Interesting. Well, my perception is apparently skewed.


I've always been a fan of very dark complexions. I went to school with a Kenyan girl whose skin was the darkest of chocolate. It looked silky smooth like milk. To this day, I encourage her to look into modeling.

***I've always been a fan of very dark complexions ****

Me too especially chocolate men... Yummmmmmmmmm!!!

Are you exotic?

Roxi, Libra is the sign of balance. So compose yourself !

Besides, the resident hot stud...Mr JD himself has Libra. I'm still swooning from the hugs he gave me...LMAO.

I think I need to compose myself. NO MORE SCORP MEN...even the nameless, faceless ones 🙂

"JD is a hot stud? how do you know this newbie—

did he tell you perhaps?"

He doesnt need to tell me. Mars in scorpio says it all. They are DANGEROUSLY sexaaaay...lol

""Are you exotic?"


So I've been told."




Interesting...

If Jews can be a race; Indians from Asia can be too.

""Indians (Asian Indians) are not a race. When will you people take it into your brains to understand that.""


lol I think I love sb. Like, actual love.

Hebrew people refer to themselves only as Jewish because they choose to do so. Technically, Jew is not a race.

Indians are Asian. I think many refer to them as Indian as a way to differentiate them from East Asians.

i think it sort of became one because people who have one jewish parent will frequently call themselves jewish even if they don't practice judaism.

The concept of race itself is debatable. People have a difficult time defining it.