Whoever said women were the Epitome of evil

Was right. I remember when Scorpius posted his deal with his Aries girl, I guess it comes as no surprise to me that mine screwed me over too. I really don't wish to go into details but she has sucked all the happiness out of me and left me without a passion for life, not to mention left me with a permanent scar that has ruined me.

I'll admit I have been dodged some bullets in the past and made some risks I shouldn't have but I never though I would have gotten tagged down but someone I actually got into a relationship with. All I can say I never have felt so hollow. I'd welcome death at this point.

well thank you, But I think you missed what I was talking about.

Only because you let her. In all due respect, I am not trying to be mean I am just trying to remind you that people only do what we allow. NOT saying that you allowed her to hurt you, but saying that you should never rely on anyone to be your main source of happiness. I'd be hurt too... I get that. But you're giving this chick WAY too much of your energy for you to say something like "she left me without a passion for life". Hopefully you had a passion for other things besides her, before her. She was only a temporary/small piece of the equation. Now that she's gone, you need to carry on the same way that you did BEFORE her.

You gotta find happiness in yourself before you can find it in anyone else. You gotta have a passion for life, with or without somebody. People come & go.. that's just the way the cookie crumbles. Learn not to be so dependent on them for your happiness.. look at them as 'accessories' instead of 'necessities' if that makes any sense. 🙂

*hugs* feel better.



You totally mis-understood what I was talking about. She gave me an STD. that is what I mean she infected me now I can no longer enjoy my sexual prowess and I am scared for life there is nothing to get rid of it. Fuck the other shit I never give a women the power over me in the way you just put in I was being very vague hoping some body would catch the "dodging bullets" and other hinting terminology.

Now knowing the I am infected and can no have sex with someone without them getting infected, I feel pretty much worthless in that department which kills my self esteem meaning I feel hollow, she didn't do some petty shit that most guys would cry over she gave me a disease for the rest of my life, ruins any future hope of having a nice wife with a kid or anything. My happiness never came from here It came from me being able to go out and enjoy flirting with women and what not, I'm not trying to sound concieded but I am always being told how handsome I am and now that is for nothing.

you guys swear you though I was upset over something petty. lol

Posted by scorpio_chic
@King do you think that she already knew about it? And if you're such a 'pro', are you sure that it wasn't you that gave it to her??

absitent 8 months prior to meeting her tested blood work and all everything came back clear.

about a month or two in our relation ship i remember she had to have a piece of her cervix cut out for being pre cancerous, I didn't know anything at the time I thought that was normal since it happened to my grandmother, anyways about 1-1/2 after that i noticed a few (like 2 bumps that wouldnt go away) as we continued and had sex more I noticed an increase in amount of bumps and starting to cluster.

Pretty much I did some research and learned that HPV (human papillomavirus) causes cervix cancer in women it is contracted through sex and can cause genital warts (which I belive to have, they are not pimples I tried to pop one and all it did was bleed)

when I confronted her she tried to deny knowing anything saying that the gynecologist here sucks and doesnt know shit and hasnt told her anything, yet at the same time she never tried to deny it was her who gave me warts instead of the other way around. Not to mention she goes oh well 'my ex boyfriend must of gave them to me" she lies about it im sure and she knew she had it to begin with.

Any other scorpio should know we have huge amounts of pride in our sexuality, now that mine has been tainted I have felt hollow ever since, I don't even feel like the same person anymore every time I walk around and a pretty girl smiles at me I die inside a little more.

she doesn't seem to even care, I'm almost positive she knew she and this and didn't tell me, one she didn't act that surprised when I told her, and two she readily accepted it. Not to mention after she find out what does she do she goes out and starts partying with her friends like it doesn't affect her.

True, and people are not honest.

Whoever said ARIES women were the Epitome of evil

I would have to agree with this statement. Always did from point zero.

Posted by King_with_a_Sting
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You totally mis-understood what I was talking about. She gave me an STD. that is what I mean she infected me now I can no longer enjoy my sexual prowess and I am scared for life there is nothing to get rid of it.



WOW

now I guess we can take your sreen name literally..

but no need to worry my friend, statistics say that one out of 4 people have the herps, so im sure you can find another woman thats infected and enjoy unprotected sex with them..

yeah well I would sue her ass into next century if I could get full proof, im sure we slept together before she saw the gynecologist so she really would have infected me before she knew about it but then again I cannot remember, I think she is lying about it because when I said to her and it happened exactly like this "I got something I need to tell you, Ive had these red bumps on my dick and I did some research and I believe you gave me HPV genital warts" and I show her, her reaction was "oh" (un surprised sounding just a dull oh) followed by "well it had to be bo (one of her exes) he slept around on me" I think she really just knew from the start. I cannot prove it but her reaction suggest so.

She denies the gynecologist told her anything and that he just said that they were going to freeze it off,and then they did a check up and she was clear of it.

I know my first reaction would have been "what!, no way I gave that to you, you gave that shit to me" but nothing just a cold calm "oh, well it had to have been bo" which im guessing she already knew this.

I appreciate the help and support please provide more help on how I can go about making a case out of this I am terrible with legal things and I really would like to pursue that because this has destroyed my self esteem and I think I do need a therapist cause I have pretty much lost my will to live (im not going suicidal but I have lost any passion I had for life, today I met two beautiful women while working both checking me out and I felt my heart sink and I couldn't say nothing I just feel that terrible)

I can't even talk to women anymore I just feel like I can never get with them now cause I am infected.

Not to mention they are red little bumps, and maybe 1 medium size one also I have noticed this patch of red skin also showing up, and some of the little bumps are growing in clusters and there are more showing up all the time.

I can't even go pee without looking at my penis and then feeling terrible, I really want try and take legal action.

it is a big deal when u got a bunch of little red bumps all over your penis.

"HPV can only be detected if you have ACTIVE warts in males. In females, it is detected in an abnormal pap smear and treated by seriousness by having the contaminated area of the Cervix frozen with liquid nitrogen and in more serious conditions removed by slicing or cauterizing parts of the cervix."

exactly what happened I find it bewildering a doctor wouldnt have informed her about the causes of such a thing.

And yes you are right lovelyscorp I should have listened to you alarm bells ring in my head that intuition of mine has even told me something is not right, I remember I went to church one and i swear god was talking to me cause through out the whole time the only thing i could think of was dump this girl, you need to dump her you don't even love her, and I have but she is crazy and always comes back a and offers me pussy, and its lonely for me sometimes cause i moved towns don't really know anyone and she provides company and sex, both things which provide some happiness in a really stressful time, I am not trying to make excuses I know my lack of judgment has been poor.

The thing Is I cannot have sex with condoms they just don't work for me and Im not saying that just to say it thats why I was in a relationship cause I thought we were both clean and it was safe but I guess not.

I know it will be hard I just want to get even, more importantly I wanna steal someone of that 90k she has coming her way now, before I wanted her to use it wise and not spend it on me but now I feel like using her to get something out of it, this is what I mean when I feel like I am no longer the same, the desire to get revenge at all cost even if it violates my ethics, burns in me so strong right now.

I have prayed to god that something aweful will happen to her (which I have never done to anyone who has wronged me) but I am so sure It is warts I have looked at everything else on the web all photos its not pearly pauples or anything of that and I swear I found one picture where the guys warts looked very similar to what i have on my penis.

Its an awful feeling knowing that you are not sexually clean it makes you feel really dirty.

Posted by seavixen2
KWAS..I didn't mean to make light of your situation by saying "it's no big deal"...what I meant is that it is extremely common and highly treatable and after you get medical attention...your life will resume completely as normal with the exception of knowing that you have the POTENTIAL to have an outbreak again (but it very treatable and is less likely to happen in men)- that you don't have to live your life in the cloak of darkness, alone and celibate in your Scorpio den..that's all.

its really the fact I feel like I cannot have sex with anyone without infecting them, you tell me us condoms and all this it just doesnt work for me.

by the way i am going tomorrow to get tested at this clinic I guess she is going to show me where it is becaus eI have no idea where it is at.

What do you mean condoms don't work for you?

i kno how that niqqa feel tho...this chick im fckin with (meaning i still am) aries too and i thought i caught something from her. i be tellin her i know you be fckin other niqqas..im not stupid b***h but she denies sht too.
i had mad bumps start pilin up on my dick and i was so tight because i aint smash anyone else but her at that period of time. i was so heated and i told her "im going to get tested to find out if you gave me somrthing. if i find out im done..idk what ima do. i made an appointment and went to my check-up and my main man dr.schwartz told me i was wavey..just hair bumps< but he told me the shave which i thought was kinda gay but i dont judge...
...but long story short..be careful of them aries girls< unless you think you got something else to offer to these chicks other than looks or intelligence lol it aint working

Dear Brother (OP )..

1 If it's JUST HPV ... go talk to a doc ... you'll get fixed up.

2 Let the resentment for the Aries pass. BUH LEAVE me; not worth it.

3 DO NOT hook up with a Sagittarius...or I will have NO SYMPATHY for you
because you've been warned. No matter how much you'll want to - "AVOID"

4 Your social agenda will recover from this ... treat it as a WAKE-UP
to protect you from MORE SERIOUS/POTENTIALLY FATAL infections. (HIV)
Condoms are your friend. "Trojan Green" in the glove box got me laid
inadvertently without any work more times than I can think of.
You'll see what I mean when you go buy some....tomorrow.

Posted by Beetleguese

Posted by MsPisces.
What do you mean condoms don't work for you?

I'd guess that he means that he can't reach orgasm when wearing a condom.

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Ding ding ding we have a winner! Good guess btw

like i said before I am getting tested tomorrow. Believe me I wish this was anything but what I think it is but I have monitored, researched, and the longer it has gone on though the more bumps have appeared and some in clusters, not to mention others have gotten bigger, they don't pop so they are no pimples, and now there is even a patch of skin that has turned red. And HPV is a virus that stays in your skin and mutates it just like what it looks like is happening to mine.

Believe me I would love more than anything fir me tos how up and it be some random rash or something but at this point I highly doubt it. I like that negligence info though I will defiantly pursue that and I find it hard not to be able to prove that she gave it to me rather than another partner especially since she had to have a piece of her cervix frozen off and about 1 1/2 to 2 months later I notice these bumps starting to appear after have been almost a year abstinent.

I use to trust her, and gave her the benefit of the doubt but ever since I caught her lying to me I have lost trust for her, and like I had a question awhile ago about her friends I am starting to believe that she is mor elike them, I know there is a 30/not/70/she is and I feel like she is just a lying little slut like all of her friends (and I mean all 3 of her best friends, cheat, lie and manipulate. Pretty much they are all scandalous bitches)

I forgot to mention one small detail is this girl might be working for my grand dad he is having knee surgery and needs someone to take over for him so he wants to hire her, and I will be her boss.

They don't know about whats going on though, and I am sure as hell not telling my grandmother cause she is racist as hell and she hated the fact I went out with her if she found out she might have gave me a disease lord help us.

Isn't life grand lol?

Posted by Kali
PS...I'm praying that everything works out ok for you tomorrow.

Honestly I broke up with her so much and I guess i stayed around like I said because I don't really no anyone in this town since I recently moved. so It was more of it provided me with something to do and plus pussy.

Bad reasons I know, I knew she wasn't for me I just hope my libido didnt cost me too muchc

Posted by Beetleguese

Posted by MsPisces.
What do you mean condoms don't work for you?

I'd guess that he means that he can't reach orgasm when wearing a condom.

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Ahh.

Posted by Midgetbull

Posted by King_with_a_Sting

Posted by Beetleguese

Posted by MsPisces.
What do you mean condoms don't work for you?

I'd guess that he means that he can't reach orgasm when wearing a condom.

Ding ding ding we have a winner! Good guess btw

Not only that but if we're talking about warts condoms aren't effective at preventing the spread of that.

Herpes and warts are not the same thing.

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Well they aren't 100% , but they can help, especially if they cover the parts of the penis where the warts are.

If you 'can't' use condoms, you have to be extra careful with who you sleep with. Most women with STDs don't look 'dirty' and they don't have to be slutty, either. Get those stereotypes out of your head.

You're lucky it's only warts, instead of something much worse, tbh. This may not be comforting to you now, but it is still something to seriously keep in mind whenever you meet your next sex partner. Not wearing condoms is like playing russian roulette. You have to be very careful.

well I went to the doctor, So long to any hopes of it being a weird rash or something. It was very weird, I swear the doctor was doing all kinds of things to feel me up like after she checked it out she had to check my testies, my larynx, my abs and just about everything else lol, but enough of the funnies.

Its either HPV warts, or something else I think she said it was Condalomata Accumalta or something, which when I popped into a search engine it came up as genital warts. So apparently thats what I got, she told me that people get rid of this virus, but then there are people saying you cannot get rid of it you just keep it suppressed by a strong immune system, there is no way to test men for the hpv strands so you really never know what you got and thats what scares me, but the good news I guess is the kind of hpv that causes genital warts is low risk, so Im just gonna pray I don't have anything else.

I also found out that her friend that has HPV, (well she does too Im gonna assume from her abnormal papsmear) but full blown cervical cancer and all kinds of fucked up shit wrong with her, and she never told her bf and was fucking him. I don't know why I have been so foolish I guess in part just the frequent easy sex :/

whoever said its the non-sleazy girls that are the ones who have something and not the sleazy ones, is defiantly right, thats what I meant when I said I had dogged some bullets, but then you meet a girl and you don't screw right away and you get to know her and you meet her family and you think well here is a nice girl comes from a decent family, blah blah and then when you finally do hook up BAM! bumps on your dick.

This life is too messed up I cannot wait to see whats on the other side lol.

That's because it only takes ONE TIME to get an STD. A friend of mine contracted an STD from the first man she had ever slept with, and she had waited until her early 20s to even have sex. How's that for karma being a bitch? Thank the Gods it was something easily cured.

I suggest you MAKE condoms work for you. Otherwise you're putting yourself and everyone you ever sleep with at risk. And that just ain't right.

Posted by Sea Siren
That's because it only takes ONE TIME to get an STD. A friend of mine contracted an STD from the first man she had ever slept with, and she had waited until her early 20s to even have sex. How's that for karma being a bitch? Thank the Gods it was something easily cured.

I suggest you MAKE condoms work for you. Otherwise you're putting yourself and everyone you ever sleep with at risk. And that just ain't right.

well thanks for the heads up, I was just thinking about having sex with the same person I got it from. Although in the phamplet the doctor gave me it says its ok to have sex with 1 uninfected person who is sleeping with nobody else. No joke, these are the exact words "Having sex with only one uninfected partner who has only sex with you is also safe" nothing about using condoms, which um doesn't really work against hpv anyways.

Whoever said I would feel better after going to the doctor lied to me lol. If anything I feel more stressed.

But, that's the thing, Days. STDs are a lot more difficult to diagnose in males and they can lie dormant for months, even years, without symptoms. He could have had it all along and unknowingly given it to her, especially since they were both tested and came out clean. Just sayin'! I know you were talking earlier in the thread about a lawsuit, King, but you do realize that would be what she would say, right? And how would you prove otherwise?

I'm not trying to bust your balls, but I'm pretty floored that anyone would still actually believe they can know by looking or by dating someone for a few months that they are "clean" or believe they can have sex without condoms without paying the price. If you continue on this way and don't learn from this, next time it could be much, much worse. Just at least think about it, will ya?

And that is our Public Service Announcement for today. Now back to your regularly scheduled program. 😛

My 14 year old son was started on an HPV series thanks to this thread. *saluting*

Posted by King_with_a_Sting
she doesn't seem to even care, I'm almost positive she knew she and this and didn't tell me, one she didn't act that surprised when I told her, and two she readily accepted it. Not to mention after she find out what does she do she goes out and starts partying with her friends like it doesn't affect her.

Here is the flip side to her possible ignorance: she thinks you were just outbreak free and gave it to her once you had a 'flare up'. Telling you about the screening may have been her way to tell you she knew you gave it to her (when in fact it could have been dormant in her for as long as a few years without her knowledge, and vice-versa).

Her first abnormal pap may have just occurred once she told you about the screening. Also this could have been and oral infection or anal one that just got to that area.

Posted by venusianbull
My 14 year old son was started on an HPV series thanks to this thread. *saluting*

Well I'm Glad my grief helped you open your eyes for you son 🙂

@ Sea Siren, while is is possible that I could of had the disease before I slept with her, It is more probable that she gave, me HPV considering she has had an abnormal papsmeer and the dates correlate more with being with her than nine months before I met her (so actually about 11 months or so).

The problem with possibilities is they are just that possibilities, not probability. It is possible that I may win the lottery but is it probable?, probably not.

All the Old Testament believers will just love this ... especially the women.

Please ... before y'all FLAME me ... read it: Genesis 3:17

God punished Eve for disobeying him (by eating the apple)
and for deceiving Adam by telling him that the fruit was
not of the forbidden tree, to convince him to take a bite.

God punished Adam for listening to the woman.

...Seems like God is a narcissist, too.