Why are scorpios so confusing. Any scorps that can help me ?

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So it`s about this guy like i`ve said who has the Sun sign in Scorpio and i am a Cancer girl ,also Sun sign and for a while i have been noticed that at times when he sees me he gives me that stare and somehow i try to avoid that contact eye because when our eyes collide for me is like thousands of feelings running trough my veins(i wonder if he feels the same tho). So he began with these stares after i looked deep into his eyes for like 10 seconds and then everything has changed not too mention that for an hour after that i was like the center of the universe at least that`s how i felt.And now i think that he told his friends about me cause everytime i pass by they start looking at me and when he is not with them they try to bring his name in the subject like pronounce his name really loud so they are sure that i can hear them . But now comes the problem cause he has a girlfriend that somehow looks almost like me ..like the same looks ..same passion for music an so. And now i am wondering if this guy likes or something because ..damn those eyes and those stares...ooo and also i like to look at him when he speaks and i think he observed that so now he tries to speak more often when we are in a crowded place so i can look at him...maybe.
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I would insist that you should stay away from a scorpio (and a man in general) with a girlfriend.
Well that`s what i`m trying to do ...like i`ve said i am try to avoid even the visual contact ..btw we are teenagers so nothing serious about relationships in general. So i`m sure that girl wouldn`t be his wife or something more serious.
Hey, you are teenagers, chill and enjoy your youth! No need to think about wives etc 🙂
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Ok but ... i really need to know what all these things mean ..i need to know that somehow these things are not just in my head.
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I would insist that you should stay away from a scorpio (and a man in general) with a girlfriend.
Well that`s what i`m trying to do ...like i`ve said i am try to avoid even the visual contact ..btw we are teenagers so nothing serious about relationships in general. So i`m sure that girl wouldn`t be his wife or something more serious.
Hey, you are teenagers, chill and enjoy your youth! No need to think about wives etc 🙂
Ok but ... i really need to know what all these things mean ..i need to know that somehow these things are not just in my head.
No, they're not in your head. He's flirting with you. But ignore him. He's not single. If you let him do this for more, much drama is going to be caused.

Plus some teens would give you better advice, it's been almost a decade since my teen years...
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Ok thank you for these advices.One more thing to tell you. He started to give those stares before he had this gf ...so this is also confusing me.
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I swear Cancers (both men and women) grasp on to whatever lead they can get that validates their desirability. I think you are over-exaggerating casual occurrences to trick yourself into believing he is into you:
People say his name louder? Your mind is just buzzing out all other names said, waiting for his name to be mentioned, and when someone finally say his name it rings bells in your brain that exaggerate it.
Intense eye contact? We Scorpios do that with everyone, often unintentionally.
He speaks more often in crowded places to get your attention? You are likely just noticing him speak more now that you are full blown infatuated with this dude. At the very least I suppose your attention gives him a confidence boost so he will speak up more, but I doubt that is the case as Scorpio's do not need others' approval to feel confident.
At the moment, that is the best way I can put my thoughts into words concisely, but if you have questions [pertaining to what I wrote] ask so I can clarify.
Well i don`t speak english very well `cause this is not my native language so i`m not very good at explaning all those things That`s why they sound too overratted or irrelevant. I mean i`m just a teenager and I got my mind screwed up sometimes by those things. Anyway ...i don`t know how to explain all the details so it sounds crazy..but trust me even other friends of mine observed these things ..i mean ..i`m not the only one. lol
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That means that he liked and still likes you, but he got a girlfriend. You have to focus on that now. Plus, if he leaves her for you, he's gonna leave you for another girl. Just keep that in mind...
In my experience, Scorpio does not leave one lady for another; not even the juvenile ones. If Scorpio is in a relationship but has eyes for someone else he is more likely to just have an affair with that someone else. We are a fixed sign; we can't just jump from relationship to relationship. After we dump someone, we still need time to recuperate.
Yes, that's for sure. I tried to skip a relationship for another and what I got was a total disaster, from which I'm still not ok yet... You are right...
But I was talking about affairs to this girl, nothing serious as a relationship...
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Well al that i can say know is that he changed like 3 girls in one year ....so maybe i should just give up `cause anyway i will be just another one in the `crowd` ..nothing special.
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I would insist that you should stay away from a scorpio (and a man in general) with a girlfriend.
Well that`s what i`m trying to do ...like i`ve said i am try to avoid even the visual contact ..btw we are teenagers so nothing serious about relationships in general. So i`m sure that girl wouldn`t be his wife or something more serious.
Hey, you are teenagers, chill and enjoy your youth! No need to think about wives etc 🙂
Ok but ... i really need to know what all these things mean ..i need to know that somehow these things are not just in my head.
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It means you both have hormones running on full throttle and your brains aren't done developing. We've all been there.
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I would insist that you should stay away from a scorpio (and a man in general) with a girlfriend.
Well that`s what i`m trying to do ...like i`ve said i am try to avoid even the visual contact ..btw we are teenagers so nothing serious about relationships in general. So i`m sure that girl wouldn`t be his wife or something more serious.
Hey, you are teenagers, chill and enjoy your youth! No need to think about wives etc 🙂
Ok but ... i really need to know what all these things mean ..i need to know that somehow these things are not just in my head.
It means you both have hormones running on full throttle and your brains aren't done developing. We've all been there.
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It`s like a curiosity thing ..like we are curious about relationships and so and so ...maybe that`s another reason.
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I would insist that you should stay away from a scorpio (and a man in general) with a girlfriend.
Well that`s what i`m trying to do ...like i`ve said i am try to avoid even the visual contact ..btw we are teenagers so nothing serious about relationships in general. So i`m sure that girl wouldn`t be his wife or something more serious.
Hey, you are teenagers, chill and enjoy your youth! No need to think about wives etc 🙂
Ok but ... i really need to know what all these things mean ..i need to know that somehow these things are not just in my head.
It means you both have hormones running on full throttle and your brains aren't done developing. We've all been there.
It`s like a curiosity thing ..like we are curious about relationships and so and so ...maybe that`s another reason.
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It's a lot of things. I'm cancer, and I remember being a teen: hormones on full overload, plus that cancer need to connect/nurture/love. Unfortunately, that makes for a potent mix in ANY teen that means it's harder to choose wisely, especially when you're young. I think everyone does a lot of this while growing up, though, and it's almost impossible to grow without learning lessons, and experience is always one of the best teachers.

My best advice for any teen is to have SAFE fun, but don't take yourself or others too seriously. You'll have highs and lows in love and life, and that's all part of the experience. Also, avoid someone who isn't single/free.

Personally, Scorpios are one of my favorites, so I'm totally biased.
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I would insist that you should stay away from a scorpio (and a man in general) with a girlfriend.
Well that`s what i`m trying to do ...like i`ve said i am try to avoid even the visual contact ..btw we are teenagers so nothing serious about relationships in general. So i`m sure that girl wouldn`t be his wife or something more serious.
Hey, you are teenagers, chill and enjoy your youth! No need to think about wives etc 🙂
Ok but ... i really need to know what all these things mean ..i need to know that somehow these things are not just in my head.
It means you both have hormones running on full throttle and your brains aren't done developing. We've all been there.
It`s like a curiosity thing ..like we are curious about relationships and so and so ...maybe that`s another reason.
It's a lot of things. I'm cancer, and I remember being a teen: hormones on full overload, plus that cancer need to connect/nurture/love. Unfortunately, that makes for a potent mix in ANY teen that means it's harder to choose wisely, especially when you're young. I think everyone does a lot of this while growing up, though, and it's almost impossible to grow without learning lessons, and experience is always one of the best teachers.

My best advice for any teen is to have SAFE fun, but don't take yourself or others too seriously. You'll have highs and lows in love and life, and that's all part of the experience. Also, avoid someone who isn't single/free.

Personally, Scorpios are one of my favorites, so I'm totally biased.
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I know we , cancers, it`s like we are obssed with their stares and with their air of mistery maybe that`s why he get caught in my sight ..lol 🙂 And being a cancer that it`s too sensitive it`s very hard `cause we observe all these details and in our teens we made up scenarios ..like mine for example ..so sad but true ..
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I would insist that you should stay away from a scorpio (and a man in general) with a girlfriend.
Well that`s what i`m trying to do ...like i`ve said i am try to avoid even the visual contact ..btw we are teenagers so nothing serious about relationships in general. So i`m sure that girl wouldn`t be his wife or something more serious.
Hey, you are teenagers, chill and enjoy your youth! No need to think about wives etc 🙂
Ok but ... i really need to know what all these things mean ..i need to know that somehow these things are not just in my head.
It means you both have hormones running on full throttle and your brains aren't done developing. We've all been there.
It`s like a curiosity thing ..like we are curious about relationships and so and so ...maybe that`s another reason.
It's a lot of things. I'm cancer, and I remember being a teen: hormones on full overload, plus that cancer need to connect/nurture/love. Unfortunately, that makes for a potent mix in ANY teen that means it's harder to choose wisely, especially when you're young. I think everyone does a lot of this while growing up, though, and it's almost impossible to grow without learning lessons, and experience is always one of the best teachers.

My best advice for any teen is to have SAFE fun, but don't take yourself or others too seriously. You'll have highs and lows in love and life, and that's all part of the experience. Also, avoid someone who isn't single/free.

Personally, Scorpios are one of my favorites, so I'm totally biased.
I know we , cancers, it`s like we are obssed with their stares and with their air of mistery maybe that`s why he get caught in my sight ..lol 🙂 And being a cancer that it`s too sensitive it`s very hard `cause we observe all these details and in our teens we made up scenarios ..like mine for example ..so sad but true ..
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No, I adore the Scorpios I know because they're some of the few who can understand and accept, maybe even appreciate (after they get over being annoyed/amused) my intense e
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I use paragraph breaks. 😛
You're special tho
Yeah.

So special she has a special short bus.
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Hell yes!! I get to lick all the windows, too. ANNNNNDDDDD I sometimes escape my constraints and hijack the bus. WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!
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Hey, you are teenagers, chill and enjoy your youth! No need to think about wives etc 🙂


Ok but ... i really need to know what all these things mean ..i need to know that somehow these things are not just in my head.




It means you both have hormones running on full throttle and your brains aren't done developing. We've all been there.


It`s like a curiosity thing ..like we are curious about relationships and so and so ...maybe that`s another reason.



It's a lot of things. I'm cancer, and I remember being a teen: hormones on full overload, plus that cancer need to connect/nurture/love. Unfortunately, that makes for a potent mix in ANY teen that means it's harder to choose wisely, especially when you're young. I think everyone does a lot of this while growing up, though, and it's almost impossible to grow without learning lessons, and experience is always one of the best teachers.

My best advice for any teen is to have SAFE fun, but don't take yourself or others too seriously. You'll have highs and lows in love and life, and that's all part of the experience. Also, avoid someone who isn't single/free.

Personally, Scorpios are one of my favorites, so I'm totally biased.


I know we , cancers, it`s like we are obssed with their stares and with their air of mistery maybe that`s why he get caught in my sight ..lol 🙂 And being a cancer that it`s too sensitive it`s very hard `cause we observe all these details and in our teens we made up scenarios ..like mine for example ..so sad but true ..



No, I adore the Scorpios I know because they're some of the few who can understand and accept, maybe even appreciate (after they get over being annoyed/amused) my intense emotional moments. Also, they give great advice and they never sugar coat it, which I appreciate. Plus they have gooey delicious caramel centers. 😄
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You're special tho
Yeah.

So special she has a special short bus.
I'd let her ride my long bus. She dat special.
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Gee, make a gal blush!

Ride it hard, and put it away wet!! ~polishes spurs and inspects horse whip~
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Scorpios are just evil.
Why are you saying that ? Give me some reasons 🙂
I personally know one. And he's evil.
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Cancers too ..if you know them .it`s like : cancers are looking like a softy and actually are badass ...scorpios are looking like badass and actually badass. So wich one is more evil ?
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Why do Cancer women refuse to use paragraph breaks?
I use paragraph breaks. 😛
You're special tho
Yeah.

So special she has a special short bus.
I'd let her ride my long bus. She dat special.
Gee, make a gal blush!

Ride it hard, and put it away wet!! ~polishes spurs and inspects horse whip~
Don't be fooled!

It's a public bus that all the homeless people and Geminis also ride!
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Ewww, nevermind! I'll just collect the fees. lol
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Scorpios are just evil.
Why are you saying that ? Give me some reasons 🙂
I personally know one. And he's evil.
Cancers too ..if you know them .it`s like : cancers are looking like a softy and actually are badass ...scorpios are looking like badass and actually badass. So wich one is more evil ?
To me, cancers are "evil" in an overcompensating pathetic way. Scorpios can be "evil" in an intrinsic selfish way. Cancer will be evil as a defense mechanism; Scorpios will be evil because we just don't give a shit about anyone but ourselves.
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Well that`s actually what i`ve said, but like, using fewer words ..`cause fcking logic if you seem to be a softy but actually you`re not ..then obviousely that you just fake that `softy` so you are trying somehow to fool others.And that faking it`s not just to evorcome.
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Scorpios are just evil.
Why are you saying that ? Give me some reasons 🙂
I personally know one. And he's evil.
Cancers too ..if you know them .it`s like : cancers are looking like a softy and actually are badass ...scorpios are looking like badass and actually badass. So wich one is more evil ?
To me, cancers are "evil" in an overcompensating pathetic way. Scorpios can be "evil" in an intrinsic selfish way. Cancer will be evil as a defense mechanism; Scorpios will be evil because we just don't give a shit about anyone but ourselves.
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Depends on the definition of "evil" being used. I don't think I overcompensate. I'll antagonize if I've deemed that someone is a raging asshole and has it coming, and I'll try to hurt the person who hurt/betrayed me, especially if I've made it clear that they need to stay away but they keep meddling in my life. To take this to the extreme I'll even kill in a heartbeat if it means protecting someone I love, but are any of these truly evil, or are they defensive/protective?
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That means that he liked and still likes you, but he got a girlfriend. You have to focus on that now. Plus, if he leaves her for you, he's gonna leave you for another girl. Just keep that in mind...
In my experience, Scorpio does not leave one lady for another; not even the juvenile ones. If Scorpio is in a relationship but has eyes for someone else he is more likely to just have an affair with that someone else. We are a fixed sign; we can't just jump from relationship to relationship. After we dump someone, we still need time to recuperate.
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My friend and current potential partner is a Scorp and he's been skipping from rl to rl for the past like 5-6 years, rls of about a year each it's crazy, few months into ours and I'm worried lol
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Depends on the definition of "evil" being used. I don't think I overcompensate. I'll antagonize if I've deemed that someone is a raging asshole and has it coming, and I'll try to hurt the person who hurt/betrayed me, especially if I've made it clear that they need to stay away but they keep meddling in my life. To take this to the extreme I'll even kill in a heartbeat if it means protecting someone I love, but are any of these truly evil, or are they defensive/protective?
Yeahhhh I was more so just humoring the little girl. I think "evil" is a bogus word that should not be thrown around casually, even when referring to the most horrendous humans to have existed.
To me, what you describe of yourself is innate human nature to survive and thrive, at least the bit about protecting/defending yourself and the people you love. However, antagonizing an asshole who "has it coming" is outright asinine!
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My Aries mars enjoys the hunt/fight when I run into the bullies. My air placements enjoy outwitting them, and my Leo bits aren't ashamed. lol
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My friend and current potential partner is a Scorp and he's been skipping from rl to rl for the past like 5-6 years, rls of about a year each it's crazy, few months into ours and I'm worried lol
No refractory period at all? How does that work, does he just establish a new relationship right before the current one ends?
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Well before all these RLs he had some real shitty experience with girls, being open/honest/loving and the girls he chose pulled some crazy shit (cheating, lying about pregnancy, etc) so he finally found a decent gal but they had some probs and he tried to make it work but it was getting hard (she had some health issues and couldn't have sex, so he waited for 6 months but she continued to refuse for some reason after everything was fine despite not being a virgin so he started getting insecure and scared) and meanwhile he met a girl in the new crowd of people he started hanging out with, had a one night stand but the girl wanted more so he jumped into a rl with her, broke up with the previous one. This girl was one crazy bitch she used to go mad/get physical/get revenge when shit wasn't going her way, so when they had this "let's chill for a while an we'll figure it out" phase he met a girl who was all like "I want fwb not a real rl" so he started having sex with her while the other girl was on hold or smth, but ofc the new girl changed her mind pretty soon, wanted a rl and the girl "on hold" got crazy again so he decided to try it with the new girl. Aaand I've been his friend throughout all these years but we drifted apart, got close again a year ago, I helped him out with some crazy shit in his life so he fell in love with me or w/e, realized the rl with his current GF has been going nowhere for months so he left her and now we're a thing I guess? The weirdest part of it is 90% of his planets are in Scorpio X_X
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I'm just going to throw this out there for consideration:

We're not confusing nor complicated.
We're not?
Am I supposed to be?
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Yes, we are!!
Dammit bunny, don't you we have a reputation to maintain!
We are SUPPOSED to be filthy dirty rotten lousy scumbag scoundrel manipulating sex god and goddess hounds of hell.
Remember—

If we weren't who we are claimed to be, the cat ladies would be missing a page and the whole story becomes worthless.
And they'll demand that you assume the position.

Watch and learn.






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There, you see?

OP, you know, that woman's a Cancer. It's true. Birdie don't lie.


I think you should be perfectly honest with your Scorp. And invite him to watch Misery with you.
After it's over, tell him the actress that plays "Annie" is a Cancer, then tell him, if he doesn't already know,
that you..... are a Cancer.

I guarantee you all the confusion will disappear as soon as it sinks in for him.
He'll be glad you did and you'll no longer be confused.
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I swear Cancers (both men and women) grasp on to whatever lead they can get that validates their desirability. I think you are over-exaggerating casual occurrences to trick yourself into believing he is into you:
People say his name louder? Your mind is just buzzing out all other names said, waiting for his name to be mentioned, and when someone finally say his name it rings bells in your brain that exaggerate it.
Intense eye contact? We Scorpios do that with everyone, often unintentionally.
He speaks more often in crowded places to get your attention? You are likely just noticing him speak more now that you are full blown infatuated with this dude. At the very least I suppose your attention gives him a confidence boost so he will speak up more, but I doubt that is the case as Scorpio's do not need others' approval to feel confident.
At the moment, that is the best way I can put my thoughts into words concisely, but if you have questions [pertaining to what I wrote] ask so I can clarify.
I agree.

It's like "omg he stared at me!!! This means we're together now!!" *squeals*

Lol!!!
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lmao, this gave me a good genuine laugh.