WHY NOT DATE A SCORPIO

I know I said would never date a Scorpio again....but I was bored....I met him when I went out of town on the plane....his friend was the one interested....but he wanted me so boguarded his way in....I gave them my number because there was a lot going on that weekend...in case we wanted to hook up at a function..platonically.....he takes it upon his self to call ALL weekend long....which I considered whack. We happen to be on the same flight home and like on the way there...he somehow bamboozled a seat next to me.....we had very good deep conversation on the plane in which one point he told me I was overconfident....and then late slipped in that "to be honest.. wasn't really fine..just kind of cute"....which I completely ignored because I know how scorpios can be....so I brushed it off...and laughed and thought to myself" is that why you were blowing my phone up all weekend".....So he contnues to call me when I'm home and I talk to him a little bit...and eventually make plans with him....two days before the plans...I realize it was a friend of mine's b-day that weekend...I let him know that I had to go out with her the night we made plans...he basically throws a fit..... I said "look, I just met you, she has been my friend for years...now if you want to go out earlier, thats fine....he slowed his road and agreed....Well when he picked me up he commented on my thighs....then on our way home from the restaurant I heard him mention what he would do with his tongue under his breath....and then he tried to rub my leg in the car....then the jerk had the nerve to tell me I needed to get a french manicure on my toes.......what an ass.....I

Softy If I were him, I would keep my trap shut and give my lover a sensational foot manicure myself with candle lights around. And if I were you , I would tell him huskily, "Yes honey I have warm scented hottub waiting. First french manicure and then back massage. What say?"

Thats what I'm talking about....

Softy, you will probably get upset with me, but, everyone should know by now, that I lay it out the way I see it. Please don't be mad because I am going to be honest with you, alright!

You were playing with him and then when it didn't go the way YOU wanted it to go - you come here and blast away at him.

You were bored, so you allowed a little play - platonically speaking, of course. Horse crap, that is. I know full well that when women do that, they are laying it on him, being all sexy and trying to get his engines fired up - just so you can later turn fickle and pretend that you're not interested and pouting about an insult. I really don't see where he said anything to make him a jerk. Maybe you do need the manicure and even if you don't, maybe he was just trying to get you to let him do it, like 19eleven was saying.

Women can't do that and expect sympathy. We know, we all know, that if you walk by a man, and when you have his attention, you lay it on him just for the sport - you are fully aware of the consequences. If you get burned, it's your own fault for playing with him like that.

You were bored! That's terrible!

Well....I am not upset...because that is your opinion and your entitled to it. Yes I went because I was bored and because I SAID I WOULD...cause honestly I had a change of heart and wanted to back out. I purpsefully put on a dress that came to my calves....which is not my style ....to appear NOT as sexy. So you are wrong MS. P-Angel....plus, even though you are turned off by someone and are not attracted to them....you never know what might happen....so that is the other reason I decided to go along....

And I was turned even more off by the end of the night.....

One more thing...I do not need self-validation from a man...especally one I am not initially attracted too....I am not attention starved and feel sexy even when I am alone...

Softy knows I'm frank and blunt. She knows I love her. wink...wink

Yes P_Angel and I respect your opinions...no offense ever taken....but if you know Cancers....we get defensive a lot....but you can't take us to seriously.....

And the Jerk just had the nerve to call me twice....i sent his a** straight Voicemail...I almost p/u and politely told him that he would be wasting his time if he continued in caling me.

Softy, you should probably tell him that he'll be wasting his time w/calling you, cause he won't stop if he figures there's any chance in h*** with you... Just a heads up. I dated a scorp a $ $ like that, he was constantly critisizing what I wore, how I acted etc. I finally told him off eventually, if I change anything about myself, it's of my own accord not cause some a-hole told me to... If you will date a scorp again, go by that first impression. If he isn't worth it from the get-go then chances are, he won't be at all... We don't change much, unless someone inspires a change in us, or we feel like it, etc.

Storm 🙂

Aw poor you.

>>I know I said would never date a Scorpio again....but I was bored

That's where boredom gets ya. *shurgs shoulders*

We all meet jackasses in our lives.

A lot of guys come off that way to me, just without the insults.