I am not understanding my exScorpio. We are long distance. And a relationship he swore was over, isn't. he was still seeing this woman. He got back together with her and she moved back in while with me. I found out quite by accident (he texted something to me that was meant for her). I never knew because I had unlimited contact, phone calls, texts, emails. He visited me quite often and I him (me visitng him was more in the beginning of the relationship). Had no clue. Now he is angry and hurt that I refuse to talk to him. I am not answering him texts/calls. But I am not understanding the texts/messages he is sending/leaving. He tells me he loves me, he is IN love with me, he misses me, he is with her for now because she cannot support herself without him. He wants a life with me. He wants me to move closer. Etc. But yet, he is with her and cannot understand why I am so hurt and mad. He is acting like he is doing nothing wrong because she is more like a roommate. But they sleep in the same bed (he admitted it). He is acting as though I am the one doing something wrong, that I am the one who is bailing on him.He is acting as though I am doing everything to hurt him. Is this just because he realizes he lost? Or that he actually had feelings for me? I have read that Scorpios have a hard time letting go of relationships, is this how he sees me or her? I don't know how to handle him...ignoring him is not working.
