will i always be under observation?

what to make of that? if that is what this scorp is doing? i've caught this scorp watching me like glue for along time now and when i look back, the person looks away. id like to approach and finally talk, but when they look away i feel like they don't want to be approached. its been obvious that this scorp is watching my moves, but why?

sometimes i find myself looking at someone for a whole host of reasons other than attraction. they might remind me of someone...i might like the way they dress...i might be watching him concentrate cos that turns me on...or i might not actually be able to see someone and they just happen to be in my line of vision.

i was very surprised when a sag i saw briefly said to me that he knew when we first exchanged eye contact that we would get it together and i couldn't remember the occasion at all (and he was very wrong with his conclusion, lol). he said that he had seen me checking him out at the office but actually, i was listening into his calls and observing his behaviour as he was new and my boss likes me to spy on the newbies, lol.

i would take seraph's leonine approach and make the first move yourself. good grief man, do we have to do EVERYTHING??!!

if i am checking someone out cos i find them attractive, i would rather stick pins in my eyes than make the first move.

there were instances that we tried to go up to each other, but stopped when a friend came over to talk, the scorp turned away. sometimes i would see the scorp hanging around when i'm talking to a friend? does the audition stage also applies to friendship?

Why is it most people get the genders wrong of the poster/the person they are posting about?

Or is this a girl/girl sitch?

No offense to you water boy

I just think it's funny and notice it a lot. :p

I am assuming the OP is talking about a guy I guess.

Anyways, I agree with seraph. Dip your toe in the water, make a small impression to put yourself in the back of his/her mind and then leave the rest up to them.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
sometimes i find myself looking at someone for a whole host of reasons other than attraction. they might remind me of someone...i might like the way they dress...i might be watching him concentrate cos that turns me on...or i might not actually be able to see someone and they just happen to be in my line of vision.

i was very surprised when a sag i saw briefly said to me that he knew when we first exchanged eye contact that we would get it together and i couldn't remember the occasion at all (and he was very wrong with his conclusion, lol). he said that he had seen me checking him out at the office but actually, i was listening into his calls and observing his behaviour as he was new and my boss likes me to spy on the newbies, lol.

i would take seraph's leonine approach and make the first move yourself. good grief man, do we have to do EVERYTHING??!!

if i am checking someone out cos i find them attractive, i would rather stick pins in my eyes than make the first move.

this scorp sure is different from the scorps i know. usually the ones i know are straightforward, and initiates because i take a long time to approach anyway. they get tiredd. lol. this scorp just seems to be fine watching me for hours and months.

i also waved at this scorp one time so we can finally talk but totally ignored me. at one time the scorp would stare when from far, and then when we get close, the scorp would look away.

This Scorpio has noticed you and is attracted to you and scopes you out for sometime to see if they are continuously attracted to you before approaching or getting noticed yet by you. In your case he wants to move forward.

Next time you see him just let him catch you looking at him and smile for 6 seconds. He will be shy and look away but continue to show you are receptive. If he approaches you have small talklike hi and hello then give him your number and tell him to call you.

As a Scorpio gal I like it when a curios person is upfront to approach me. I don't take well to big hints and drawing it out after I have "noticed" you. If I'm attracted to you I will be receptive to their advances.

For the Scorpio Guy approach him and give him your number. He will see the confidence you have because that is what he is setting up for you to do. Remember he wants you to notice him noticing you.

If you want him to approach you look at him and don't stop looking and smile. If he see's you are receptive to have him go to you be ready to give your number.

This my suggestion bit see if it works out for you and please give an update.

all i really want is to know what the scorp wanted. i waved at the scorp to show that it was okay to approach me or i, but i was ignored. and then the same when we crosses paths, the scorp doesn't even want to look at me or make eye contact? but from far away, i see the scorp observing and i've never been watched like that before. i don't remember hurting the scorp because we never really had a chance to get to know each other. we dont have same friends. if it were friendship, i can give that. i am open to that.

ffs waterboy...it's totally your fault i thought the OP was a boy!!

at least she doesn't have a picture of herself as her avatar, LOL!! now, that would be embarrassing!

Posted by WaterBoy
I thought the OP is a male!.. so sorry OP!! I should have noticed it under your name.. feeling stupid now.. anyway.

I wouldnt know in that case,, the female perspective is undecryptable by me. Other people will have a better opinion about it. sorry again.

it's really no problem. i thought scorp man and woman do things the same. besides i just want to know how this scorp mind works. there are times i feel like the person is observing me intensely and when i approach, the scorp backs away.

Posted by piranhaparadiise
probably girl/girl...no using the term he/she when referring...it's the scorp this and the scorp that haha...

haha there's a problem there.

It could all be your imagination ... in fact, it's highly likely considering most of the time when women think a guy is into her it's just her romantic-wishful-imaginings.


You stated he ignores you if you wave at him .... and when you look at him he turns his head away, and is only looking at you when you aren't looking at him. In reality, if you aren't looking at him then you really don't know what he's looking at. You are wanting to believe he is looking at you because that is what you want to believe.


How long are women going to be fools, and act on their own emotional deceptions ?

I feel sorry for men that they have to deal with women like this, I really do.


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OMG he looked at me, what do I do?

**throws self on bed and screams**

I'm so confused, why did he look at me, I don't know why he looked at me

**screams again and rolls around on bed**

I must figure this out, I'm just gonna die, my heart is going to pop out

**grabs chest, can barely breathe**

I love him, he's my soulmate, he looked at me ... omg

wtf is the matter with women?


Why is it that as soon as a women feels something, her brain stops working and she begins to act like an idiot?

The romantic imagination, I wouldn't jump there. I do question why the Scorp would be observing me this long, and not approach. It's the reason why I acknowledged and waved. I wouldn't have done that if I hadn't caught the person for along time.

Maybe there are things the Scorp wanted to say, who knows idk, but that's where I'm lost. It could be in my imagination if it just happened once or twice, but to have it happened for months like 3yrs, but on and off, of course. There were instances also that the Scorp saw me, and turned around and followed me, and just stood there and watched, while I was with friends. Wouldn't you think that that's something to wonder?

Posted by seraph

Posted by plutomoon

Posted by WaterBoy
I thought the OP is a male!.. so sorry OP!! I should have noticed it under your name.. feeling stupid now.. anyway.

I wouldnt know in that case,, the female perspective is undecryptable by me. Other people will have a better opinion about it. sorry again.

it's really no problem. i thought scorp man and woman do things the same. besides i just want to know how this scorp mind works.

It's all in the experiencing of it. So go ahead and see what's there.

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The curiosity is there for sure.

I've been courted by Scorps and have Scorp friends and family members, but this one is different in its approach. This Scorp is quieter and not so aggressive.

Maybe you walk around with buggars hanging out of your nose all the time and he can't help himself from staring in disbelief, and sometimes walks up to you because he wants to tell you .. but, then can't because he's too much of a gentleman.


I mean, if you are going to imagine bullshit ... then at least have some balance to it.

Scorp this Scorp that, WTF just say if it's a female or male and people could help you better, don't assume the signs are the same when it comes to dating and love. So please stop being ambiguous and say the gender.

What's your astrological sign? That could help others as well, geeeeeeeeesh.

Posted by P-Angel
Maybe you walk around with buggars hanging out of your nose all the time and he can't help himself from staring in disbelief, and sometimes walks up to you because he wants to tell you .. but, then can't because he's too much of a gentleman.


I mean, if you are going to imagine bullshit ... then at least have some balance to it.

So I am imagining things when someone happens to be in places where I am not once, stands there alone, and just look .. Yeah, let's blame it's all in the imagination.

Hi Pluto,

I have a Scorpio Moon which often overrides my Fire-Sun. This is what I can tell you;

He is probably not into you. He does however think there is something unique about you. Maybe your hair, or your nose, or your walk. This is why he stares at you. It is also why he does not respond to your waves. For what? He is just observing you as is the title of your post.

If I am into someone, they know. I am not aggressive and I am very quiet. However, they still know because I make it known.

If you decide to follow the advice of others here, (I am indifferent on the matter) let me say this

Do not, under any circumstances approach him when he is with someone else or in a group. Scorpios are the most private people on earth. He will have no choice but to lie to you to keep from drawing attention to you or him. So he might tell you he likes you (even if he doesn't)or get your number so that you get away from him. If he is anything like myself and the other Scorpios I know, having other people in your personal affairs is worse then death. You never want to embarrass a Scorpio. The stinger is lethal.

Good Luck, However, I a have a feeling that should you choose to pursue this relationship you will become a frequent seeker of advice from this forum.

I have been the subject of the Scorpio stare and they DO NOT look away. I stare right back. Even when I'm not really interested. Then I ignore them. Then Scorp makes his intentions known. But if the approach isn't right I keep ignoring them until they disappear.

Furthermore, DO NOT approach him NOR ask him out. In fact I would just forget him. Let him tell you what his intentions are. For all you know he could just be curious of you, but if he is too shy to approach I would consider him defunct.

Recently a guy followed me around in the grocery store. I ignored him, but I did look at him out of curiosity. Totally not my type but I was incredibly flattered and started daydreaming little sexy encounters. 😛

Posted by seraph

You're over-thinking it. Like 90% of the folks around dxp.

Correction: 90% of the females around here

Posted by seraph
3 pages debating whether OP should walk over and say hi.

You've gotta be kidding me.

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I've said numerous times in dxp, and will say again .... I sincerely feel sorry for men in that they have to deal with women's bullshit.

Posted by IntriguedScorp
People, we draw you in we don't make the MOVE! LOL

Sheesh--How many times do we have to go over this! 😛

signed,
Scorpio Women

~signed.

*bert*

Posted by R24
She should break up with him... Heres a breakup letter that can be used as a format..

Hate is such an awful thing.

Posted by R24
It was in jest... but hate can get you through those rough times after being rejected. Its hard to hate someone unless you loved them first. Hate gives you something to feel until you progress to the indifference stage.

Hate, anger, and jealousy can kill.
I am not jokin' I am very serious about that.
Those are emotions that you don't want to play with.

IF you can hate someone you loved before, you never truly loved that person to begin with.
You might hate what they "did". That's ok, but to hate that person, though, is NOT healthy.
It sucks the life out of you and eats you up like a cancer.
But one who doesn't know their limitations can fall into the abyss.
Perhaps this will tell it better. Perhaps not.

Posted by R24
I'm not talking about the black, cold, absolute-zero hate that never dies. I agree that kind hate is cancer that eats away soul.

I'm talking about that red hot hate that is fiery, made from pain + rage that cools down to indifference.

I am afraid that the I personally have dealt with is Black and Red.
It took a lonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng time for me.
The point I am trying to make here is that one never knows when Red fades to Black.
It's like.... you don't know what it looks like until you get there. A flimsy rickety bridge that
you may be forced to cross. Its the pain and rage that is so intense, that it evolves into that black cold
absolute-zero hate that never dies.

For what it's worth, I have to a point in my life where I can almost understand why some people commit murder.
It's not an understanding that pathetic esteemed minds and courts and psychologists can grasp because
they are likely not to have been there. Because it borders on the insane. For example: to truly understand
insanity, one has to be insane.
Now, I said that I can "almost" understand why some people commit murder.
Particularly, murder with malice. That kind of murder is caused by being pushed by whatever forces, seen or not,
to the brink. Please understand that that is NOT to justify the act, but to simply understand
the reasons why.
But.. I will take it further - what good is knowing the reasons why if society is not taught the reasons and
the remedy so as to avoid the crime from being committed again?
Society is NOT corrected because simply refuses to correct itself.
Seems to me, such a society that is NOT serious about crime prevention is one that will continue to be
plagued with crime. The place to do that is in how we raise our children. What values and morals we, by
example, teach our children. That is why there are some basic laws in place to keep the peace. Unfortunately,
in a corrupt society's government, there are also laws in place that threaten those same basic laws.
Unfortunate, but true in the US. Sad to say. 😢

I dont know what p-angel is talking about if hes staring at you hes into you scorpios usually dont waste are eyes we dont waste other things either 😉, but alas me girl you have a serious problem hes doing wht i like to call the underdeveloped scorpio (stare at you and fantasize abbout how hes going to aproach you or what hes going hes going to say but quickly look for a reason to avoid action at the last minute....i know from experience i did this for the 16 years of my life 😢. Oh and one more thing it feels safer for us to observe you from far away but we get nervous close and personal.) So coming from a former undeveloped scorpio your better off ignoring the creep stares youll get from him hes not mature enough to act on his desires yet therefore dont waste your time wondering