Wtf? ....

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Butter's happening that's not in my control. Full day date with my Scorp sweet heart planned when my daughter should have been in school, but busses were canceled, Wtf?? (Havent been cancelled all week and its been just as cold, if not colder) One goofy thing led to another goofy thing and next thing I know? I have no choice but to introduce them Wtf?(He somehow managed to get into my locked complex to wait In the lobby for me, instead of waiting in his truck like I thought he would and she decided she wanted to ride the elevator down to the lobby with me) Roughly, ohhh at least 2 months earlier than I would have planned it for... At least. In fact I had no intentions of introducing them to the point that I couldn't even imagine how I would introduce them. I'm a very protective Mamma Bear. I guess that's been looked after.
Needed a boost the other morning Wtf? (my truck has started without fail every single morning) I should have taken that as a sign, but didn't. Narrowly missed 2 vehicle accidents Wtf? (Been driving these highways since I was 16 with 2 accidents in my entire driving career) One easily could have been fatal. I made a joke that my scope hadnt mentioned anything about a vehicle accident. The next day, much to my chagrin, there was my scope warning Wtf? (clearly written 'be careful driving, you could be in an accident') Lol
Been weird like that all week, there's something in the air I can feel it. It's slightly butt-backwards. What the F? Does this all mean?
.... And how was your week ? Is it over yet?
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Posted by FixedWater
Butter's happening that's not in my control. Full day date with my Scorp sweet heart planned when my daughter should have been in school, but busses were canceled, Wtf?? (Havent been cancelled all week and its been just as cold, if not colder) One goofy thing led to another goofy thing and next thing I know? I have no choice but to introduce them Wtf?(He somehow managed to get into my locked complex to wait In the lobby for me, instead of waiting in his truck like I thought he would and she decided she wanted to ride the elevator down to the lobby with me) Roughly, ohhh at least 2 months earlier than I would have planned it for... At least. In fact I had no intentions of introducing them to the point that I couldn't even imagine how I would introduce them. I'm a very protective Mamma Bear. I guess that's been looked after.
Needed a boost the other morning Wtf? (my truck has started without fail every single morning) I should have taken that as a sign, but didn't. Narrowly missed 2 vehicle accidents Wtf? (Been driving these highways since I was 16 with 2 accidents in my entire driving career) One easily could have been fatal. I made a joke that my scope hadnt mentioned anything about a vehicle accident. The next day, much to my chagrin, there was my scope warning Wtf? (clearly written 'be careful driving, you could be in an accident') Lol
Been weird like that all week, there's something in the air I can feel it. It's slightly butt-backwards. What the F? Does this all mean?
.... And how was your week ? Is it over yet?



I don't get your point of this post at all other than your daughter met this guy and you almost had an accident.
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Posted by FixedWater
Thankyou Irresistable Scorp, that was the point. Not being in control,



Shit happens that you can't control (car accidents caused by reckless or careless drivers, mother nature, unforseen violence etc...) However, if you really didn't want your daughter to meet the guy or really haven't yet imagined introducing them, you WERE in control of that. You were in control of laying boundaries with this guy and not telling him where you live, and if for some reason you felt compelled to tell him where you live, you were in control to tell him to stay away when your daughter is present and to CALL FIRST should he feel the need to just drop by. Are you still with him after he did this? If so did you tell him that was unacceptable?
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Posted by FixedWater
LetitB , your missing the point and focusing on the Scorpio Man, who by the way is absolutely the most loving respectful Person (not just man, not just woman... but Person) I have ever had the pleasure of meeting.



I'm focusing on the topic/you. You state you feel things are out of control. My first response was asking you to define, "intrigued" answered for you and you confirmed her answer.

You use the guy and what took place as being out of control. You had the capability of controlling that so it would not happen. It wasn't an out of control situation. Hence why I asked the first question.
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This is not a Scorpio Man or dating and relationships or for that matter single-parenting question/musing. Let me see if I can explain myself better. My examples were of situations that could have "gone wrong", horribly wrong as in the truck accident.. I almost rear-ended another vehicle at 120 km/hr because the sun rise is at a slightly different angle, because his truck was white against a white backdrop, because it was on a slight bend in the road making him literally disappear on the highway and become a part of the snowbank. I should have been dead. In regards to the Scorp Man meeting my daughter. This was unavoidable and completely out of my hands. I made a pact that no man would come close to her until he had proven himself as worthy to be a part of her life. This should not have been a problem at all if she had been IN school as was planned. The busses did not run that particular morning for some abnormal reason and so instead of her being IN school as was the plan, I arranged for my Mom to look after her instead. Scorpio Man lives an hour away and would have been on the highway already. I did not feel it was appropriate to cancel with him on such short notice. He wanted to pick me up at my SECURE Apartment building. Meaning, you cannot get into the building without a KEY. I did not give him my Apartment Number, just the address. I also texted him at the time we set for our date and received no answer from him but decided to go downstairs to wait anyway. My daughter wanted to ride the elevator down with me to say goodbye. Which should have not been an issue at all, because the street where he would park to wait for me is a long walk away from the building. When we stepped out of the elevator I saw his truck, but not him. My daughter saw him right away though, sitting in the chair inside the Secure building. I had no choice but to introduce them. It went very well, I might add, and am happy the universe looked after that for me. Backtracking just a little now, the text I sent that he did not answer? I received some of his responses that he sent at 10:30 am about 2 hours later, and the rest of his responses about 12 hours later. Had I not decided to go down, he may have left with some very hurt feelings, then I would have had some very hurt feelings and etc....
Did I mention that my scope forecasted a possible accident the next day? A little late, but again no harm was done.
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I don't like feeling out of control either, but sometimes it seems no matter how hard we try (or especially the harder we do try) to control things, the opposite of what we want (or something different anyway) happens. I think this is fate....these things were meant to happen for a reason. Sometimes we can figure out why, sometimes we can't. Sometimes it's not clear until much later. I've TRIED to ease up on the whole control & over analyzing stuff & just live in the moment....I'm a work in progress lol.
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Posted by FixedWater
This is not a Scorpio Man or dating and relationships or for that matter single-parenting question/musing. Let me see if I can explain myself better. My examples were of situations that could have "gone wrong", horribly wrong as in the truck accident.. I almost rear-ended another vehicle at 120 km/hr because the sun rise is at a slightly different angle, because his truck was white against a white backdrop, because it was on a slight bend in the road making him literally disappear on the highway and become a part of the snowbank. I should have been dead. In regards to the Scorp Man meeting my daughter. This was unavoidable and completely out of my hands. I made a pact that no man would come close to her until he had proven himself as worthy to be a part of her life. This should not have been a problem at all if she had been IN school as was planned. The busses did not run that particular morning for some abnormal reason and so instead of her being IN school as was the plan, I arranged for my Mom to look after her instead. Scorpio Man lives an hour away and would have been on the highway already. I did not feel it was appropriate to cancel with him on such short notice. He wanted to pick me up at my SECURE Apartment building. Meaning, you cannot get into the building without a KEY. I did not give him my Apartment Number, just the address. I also texted him at the time we set for our date and received no answer from him but decided to go downstairs to wait anyway. My daughter wanted to ride the elevator down with me to say goodbye. Which should have not been an issue at all, because the street where he would park to wait for me is a long walk away from the building. When we stepped out of the elevator I saw his truck, but not him. My daughter saw him right away though, sitting in the chair inside the Secure building. I had no choice but to introduce them. It went very well, I might add, and am happy the universe looked after that for me. Backtracking just a little now, the text I sent that he did not answer? I received some of his responses that he sent at 10:30 am about 2 hours later, and the rest of his responses about 12 hours later. Had I not decided to go down, he may have left with some very hurt feelings, then I would have had some very hurt feelings and etc....
Did I mention that my scope forecasted a possible accident the next day? A little late, but again no
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I got this was not about your boyfriend or parenting. My first response is clear on that. What I wasn't clear on why you felt your bf being in the lobby and how you felt that had to do with no control. After three of your responses later and sharing with us the cell phones were not working correctly cleared that right up. So my answer to the op "What the F? Does this all mean? "

SHIT HAPPENS!