you love me—

when i was in bed with my scorpio (dating maybe 3 months) he'd always joke around with me about love. he's say " so did you tell all your friends you love me?" or "it's ok you can admit you love me" it always caught me off guard because i wasn't even close to thinking love yet. now that we're not together. i was curious what was that all about? was there some hidden test or thought behind it i didn't get?

apparently I'm clueless . or i wouldn't be asking 🙂

not to mention im a virgo so now that he wants back in my life.. I'm re-analyzing EVERYTHING!!

My Scorpio was at least lovey dovey. He would say I love you. Not many men are like that.

Ugh I miss that bastard.

i could see that.. just not something i expected so soon .. and he told me once that he didn't love his first GF until a year and a half in.. but she also let him walk all over her..

**and he told me once that he didn't love his first GF until a year and a half in.**

Basically he's hinting that you won't get to hear him say 'I love you' for a long time (hence the reference to his ex-gf). But he's trying to get YOU to say it first.

Yup pretty clear explanation BW.....arent they all like that...or should i say men-.....

Yeah mine says things like that. "Do you still love me?". "My luv" etc. etc. and we haven't gotten to that stage yet, well I haven't LOL. I'm just ignoring it. He just wants to find out what your feelings are for him and is hinting.

So I've been texting with scorpio but keeping my distance.. and then he text me " my parents are in town will you come to dinner and meet them?" not really sure why kind of wanted to meet his mom ( he always talks to her about me). He kept complementing me all night almost to annoyance. That night he text " thank you for coming you were lovely" and i haven't heard a thing from him since— completely M.I.A

that's nice that you meet his parents. how long has he been in m.i.a? if you can stand the wait let him get in touch with you. sometimes they get so into whatever is going on with them that they become scatter brained. i know it's totally annoying. if you can't stand it then text him with a short text like "just wanted to say hi and thanks for inviting me to dinner. your parents were nice." or something like that. see how he responds. btw: scorp males are f-e in the head🙂 either they're total stalkers or totally too independent. you'll get different responses from different ppl's experiences here. good luck!

AriesGirl Thanks for responding. It's been a week now. Its not like him to completely disappear. He did send me a evite to his birthday, but thats along with 140 other people. The only conclusions I can come to is A) he wanted to do the dumbing so he was sweet as pie only to disappear mysteriously. B) he's trying to get a reaction out of me (its starting to work) and see how long until i contact him. or C) he could possible be consumed with work especially since he just took a vacation since family was in town. but a week? seriously?

Hopefully his mother didn't give you the kiss of death.If she didn't like you it could change his mind. This happened to me once. I started dating a guy, he was coming on real strong. He introduced me to his parents and I never heard from him again. I found out later that he was gay. Here I thought he wasn't sleeping with me to just be a gentleman. LOL!!!

kat's meow: a week?

it won't work if you can't give the guy any space.

"if he's not talking to you, he's obsessing about you" Hypno. DXP. Coupla weeks ago.

you're right to analyse, my virgo rising approves of this anal-ysing behaviour. virgo/scorpio is a crap combination if you ask me, romantically anyhow. main reason being that they just don't get eachother.

s'up to you. i would walk personally. sprint in fact, breaking all known speed records to date.

someone already said it was obvious what he was getting at trying to make you say you love him and it really was obvious. if you didn't get it. he won't ever get you either.