Jealous!!!!

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by fragm3nt3d_mind on Thursday, October 2, 2008 and has 31 replies.

How Scorpios React to Jealousy and Insecurity

Scorpios tend to become more possessive and intense when they feel jealous or insecure. They value loyalty and privacy, so making them aware of your desirability can trigger stronger feelings of attachment or suspicion. However, manipulating their emotions may backfire and damage trust. Understanding their need for honesty and emotional depth is key to a healthy relationship.

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@fragm3nt3d_mind
17 Years

ok...question.....
how good or bad of an idea is to make your scorp jealous or insecure—
ok we all know about the mind game, the being possessive..controling and all that...but lets assume for a minute that your scorp, is the one thats still secretive, and reserved and doesnt open up to you, even tou deep inside you know/hope he is really into you...

what would you making him jealous/or him knowing that someone else if after you and that you are wanted...would make to him....seriously...how do scorps react when the person they like/if they like makes them jealous...i dont mean teasing other guys or acting like a slut, but just the thought or certanty that other men would want her and are after her—?

opinions....

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@wheelhomies
20 Years10,000+ Posts

first of all, i don't think bling is capable of actually reading a post.

secondly, maybe if he found out on his own or accidentally that someone else likes her then it would be different. but if she is the one making it apparent, then he'd probably be annoyed and try to do the same thing to her rather than profess his undying love, or something.

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@wheelhomies
20 Years10,000+ Posts

lmao!

i was going to say something similar, although DEFINITELY not with as much style as am3...scorpios are enough to deal with when you hurt their feelings unintentionally so i'd suggest not doing it deliberately. unless you plan on owning up to it right away, and admitting why you did it. otherwise it will be war. sound ominous enough??

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@Scorpionlady
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Wigger (alternatively spelled wigga, whigger or whigga) is a pejorative slang term for a white person who allophilically emulates mannerisms, slang, and fashions stereotypically associated with urban African Americans and urban Black British and Caribbean culture, especially in relation to hip hop culture and British Grime/Garage scene.[1]

The term most likely stems from a portmanteau of the word white and the derogatory term nigger. The word is considered offensive by some because of its similarity to nigger in addition to reflecting stereotypical notions about urban blacks. Because of this in many communities the term for a white person that emulates urban African-Americans is "whamma", which is a play on the word "bama" which means a thuggish or rude African-American.

The phenomenon of white people adopting stereotypical black mannerisms, slang, and apparel has appeared in several generations since slavery was abolished in the western world. The concept has been documented in the United States, Canada, United Kingdom and other white-majority countries. An early form of this was the white negro in the jazz and swing music scenes of the 1920s and 1930s; as examined in the Norman Mailer essay, "The White Negro: Superficial Reflections on the Hipster"." It was later seen in the Zoot suiter of the 1930s and 1940s; the hipster of the 1940s; and the beatnik and rock and roller of the 1950s.

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@P-Angel
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"how good or bad of an idea is to make your scorp jealous or insecure—"

Great idea, if you are young and immature, and only looking for superficial attention from a guy to make you feel special, where it isn't present .. so you have to create a dramatic situation in which to relish in, so you will feel like you are something.

Bad idea, if you are a bit older and trying to have a mature relationship where you want your partner to actually give you special attention because you are.

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@fragm3nt3d_mind
17 Years

yes AB..thats exactly what im thinking....
Fkna...its not that he doesnt show interest...i think its more like he expects me to read between the lines...or just expects me to KNOW what he feels without having to saying...so i was wondering if a bit of jealousy would get him out of the shell, its like....him acting like he doesnt give a shit and then saying that the girl shouldnt walk around but insteasd should drive or take a taxi everywhere so that no one checks her out....

isnt he into her—?

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@fragm3nt3d_mind
17 Years

amazing how everytime anyone posts anything the whole post turns into everything else BUT the actual post....

can anyone like...concentrate on the topic— heheheheh